Post: #1

There is a girl I've met a few times at the bus stop near my place. She is in the 7-8 range and must be around 25 yo. So far our conversation has been mostly small talk (except for me asking if she was stalking me because she usually arrives t the stop after me). She's hardly asked me any questions but is polite and smiling nonetheless. She's moving away at the end of the summer and today for the first time she mentioned her boyfriend (visiting her for the weekend from another state; I reacted cool ).

I thought next time I get flirtatious, ask for her hobbies while making absurd guesses like martial arts and try to arrange doing something together. If she mentioned having a boyfriend as an objection, I'd say I didn't say I wanted to be her boyfriend or something like that (because I think I should assure her that I'm not romantically interested). Here are my questions:

1-Should I go all the way to get her number or agree on doing something together in the next encounter or should I be patient, flirt and "build rapport" for a while?

2-What kind of activity/date should I be aiming at? Meeting for drinks may be too suggestive, a dinner date too beta; I've been thinking of going for a hike. It's a small town and is quiet at this time.

Post: #2

Got her phone number! I think on Saturday or Friday night I text her and arrange for something on Sunday. I think I have good logistics. From what I know she is alone and has to work during the summer in a lab (although doesn't show signs of loneliness or sadness) so I as a gentleman can help her unwind.

Post: #3

You're young and green. You think this girl is special and needs to be treated special.

Text her tonight and try to get her out BEFORE the weekend. If it doesn't pop off, go out this weekend and bag some other chick.

The clock on your life is ticking.

WIA

Post: #4

You might want to hold off texting her until her boyfriend leaves after the weekend. Don't want that shit to blow back in your face. Wait until you see her in person and suggest a place to grab a drink that's close to your place.

Post: #5

Damn, I commented too late. Or, like WIA said, try to meet her before the boyfriend comes into town.

Post: #6

The boyfriend was visiting her *last* weekend so she is alone now.
I thought Waiting one whole day before texting was advised in Roosh's text guide. But it seems that I misunderstood it.

Post: #7

Ah. Must have misread your original message.

Post: #8

If she is open to a fwb type arrangement you must show you can be trusted to be private and discreet. Texting or calling will leave a record and it can be a hassle. So does Facebook. You will need to get her number. Word your messages so that they couldn't be interpreted as fling starting. Follow her lead. Ask her if she wants to come over and watch a movie... find out what she likes to drink before hand and see what happens. Some chick's will be ok with getting some on the side others won't depends on her character. She might be open to cuddling... just have to feel things out.