Post: #1

So i was at the gym this morning when i see this girl walk in. Now this chick is not one of the regulars so my interest was intrigued.

She walks in an starts hitting the free weights. She is a brunette, with a 8 for a body and about a 7 face. She is wearing those workout boyshorts that girls like to wear nowdays that shows off her toned legs.



I along with half of the males in the free weight area have noticed this chick. Though it is only I that decides to open her.

Im casually putting some wight back on the rack when wave my hand and grab her attention then open her with one of the best lines ive come up with so far for the gym;

Me; when is your competition

Her; wow is it really that obvious with my tan haha

Me ; yea some times in this gym you'll get people who compeate and they stand out so i like to ask

Her; oh really haha ya it was just this past saturday.

me; how did you do

Her; I got fourth

We chat for a moment about her competition, eating and why she was up in this part of the state ( she said she had come up for a funeral)

As i wind down the conversation she goes;

Her; my name is Beckey

Me; Im sketness

Her; what say that again haha

Me; Sket-ness

Her; sketness ok

Me; well ill probably never see you again but it was nice meeting you

Her; hah ya you to, and thanks for noticing ( that she was in a competition)

Me; no worries


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The point is the line; when is your competition is golden

The girls ive used it were flattered that I thought they competed and the girls who did compete were astonished that i could recognized that they did compete

Its a win win opener if you do so chose to open in the gym

Post: #2

Why didn't you attempt to get a number/instadate?

Post: #3

That's not a bad opener, although it's very indirect.

This may just be me, but I've always had issues with indirect day game openers where I come off as too friendly, and when I'd ask for the digits or suggest a drink the girl would seem a bit surprised (i.e. I hadn't generated enough attraction). So I've started mixing indirect words with direct body language.

For example, my favorite gym opener is to go up to the girl and say

"Excuse me, I don't mean to interrupt your workout, but I just had to let you know that you have a great looking..."

At this point I pause, blatantly look her up and down, make eye contact, smirk, and then finish with

"...workout routine."

As long as you have the confidence to pull off the smirk and maintain strong eye contact, it's a great combination of indirect phrasing and direct body language. Done correctly, the girl should know you're into her but will appreciate the plausible deniability and subtlety with which you're hitting on her (especially if there are other people around listening). I use the same line at the grocery store, but substitute "grocery list" or "shopping cart" for workout routine.

Post: #4

Here's what I use: "what sport are you training for?"

But gym openers are trivial. Closing is a lot harder.

Post: #5

does anyone have any tips for closing at the gym?

Post: #6

@Sketness

Once you have opened with the topic of fitness, transition to diet. Talk about what healthy foods you eat. . ..then from there transition into inviting her over after a workout to cook for her. Just one idea that I have used.

Post: #7

(07-13-2015 10:07 PM)Repo Wrote:  @Sketness

Once you have opened with the topic of fitness, transition to diet. Talk about what healthy foods you eat. . ..then from there transition into inviting her over after a workout to cook for her. Just one idea that I have used.

This is good, I'll have to remember that.

Post: #8

(07-13-2015 08:27 PM)Sketness Wrote:  does anyone have any tips for closing at the gym?

The hardest thing about closing at the gym is available time. Otherwise it's no different to any venue.

Time is critical because often you need some time to work your game to close, but at the gym, most of the time you and she will be between sets when you run into each other. So you only have just minutes. Repeated engagements on the same night can easily come off as desperate, because she will not come up to reopen you. Moreover, 99% of attractive girls (I'm at a uni gym) are not regulars. They show up for at most a couple of sessions in a row then disappear for months or forever, so you can't quite run social circle game either. Also, it's generally a sausage fest with guys running hot on testosterone nearby ready to cockblock you...

Then there's the fact that the gym should be your temple where you're in the zone.... breaking out of it to game is not good for either purpose: training or gaming.

I've found only 2 ideal times to game at the gym:

- warm down when you go to the mats to stretch. Plenty of time and relaxation to engage a girl stretching nearby
- bored gym staff (i'm working on one now) - this gym hires students so they have somewhat high turnover

Having said that, it is still a very tough venue to operate.

Post: #9

Girl just gets off the squat rack, walk over, gesture at her legs: "hey, so if that leg is for christmas and the other is for easter, can I come in between for some dinner?"

Post: #10

I think its hard to appraoch in the gym. Many hot chicks are there with their boyfriends. Sometimes i try to initiate a chat with a chick if she does some class with me like spinning. But so far I made only three friends in the gym, one gay guy and two ugly girls. The hot ones hardly participate in a small talk and next time I see them, it seems like they don't even say hello if I don't say it first.

Post: #11

"Nice legs, what time do they open?"

Post: #12

I don't need a gym opener because I come at the gym on my horse



Girls love our legs

Post: #13

I actually refuse to game gym girls....

1) I work out at 6:30am, gym's pretty empty.
Sometimes I'll work out around noon, where there are a couple of hotties and trainers. But I won't talk to them (see number 2)

2) I go to the gym to train! To take care of my anger and/or stress from life!
I just want to listen to loud music and lift weights.
I grunt, I'll drop weights (when going for a new PR.) I dress comfortably but at 6:00am I always look like shit, and I talk to myself "come on you pussy one more rep!..."
I've been told before that I have an 'angry face'. Maybe I do, but I always respect my environment and the people around it.

3) Maybe that opener works, but You have to be one charming mothefucker to run game at the gym!
I've seen some guys trying to talk girls in the middle of a set or at the water fountain just to fail miserably. Believe it or not, some girls really do go to the gym just to work out.


I'm not against it. You gotta be able to read people thou (headphones, no eye contact with anybody) those are signs that a girl just wants to be left alone to train.
But If a girl gives you signals go ahead and open.

Post: #14

There's this beautiful Asian girl with a perfect bubble-butt (unicorn) and I've made some eye contact with her in the past, but nothing out of the ordinary. Tonight I was walking out of the gym as she is walking in. Wasn't expecting it and I instinctively gave a warm grin. She locked eyes with me and gave me a very warm grin/smile right back. I was in shock because she's very attractive.

It's a busy city and there were people walking behind me and her as this happens so I didn't turn around and go back into the gym after her. Besides, that would look pretty needy.

I'll definitely see her again, so....the approach/opener. How to go about it.

She's usually on the Stairmaster or some other cardio equipment that's shaping her perfect ass/thighs. I'm thinking I'll just have to walk up to her mid-workout, and say....

"Hi, sorry to interrupt but I wanted to see that nice smile of yours again. My name is Onto."

That's all I can think of right now, and very open to suggestions.

Post: #15

(07-13-2015 01:58 PM)Isaac Jordan Wrote:  That's not a bad opener, although it's very indirect.

This may just be me, but I've always had issues with indirect day game openers where I come off as too friendly, and when I'd ask for the digits or suggest a drink the girl would seem a bit surprised (i.e. I hadn't generated enough attraction). So I've started mixing indirect words with direct body language.

For example, my favorite gym opener is to go up to the girl and say

"Excuse me, I don't mean to interrupt your workout, but I just had to let you know that you have a great looking..."

At this point I pause, blatantly look her up and down, make eye contact, smirk, and then finish with

"...workout routine."

As long as you have the confidence to pull off the smirk and maintain strong eye contact, it's a great combination of indirect phrasing and direct body language. Done correctly, the girl should know you're into her but will appreciate the plausible deniability and subtlety with which you're hitting on her (especially if there are other people around listening). I use the same line at the grocery store, but substitute "grocery list" or "shopping cart" for workout routine.

I like it