Post: #1

Hi!

Usually the common sense is to react to compliments on your looks by saying just "thank you" with a smile , for instance...

The last few times, when women made to me directly a compliment on my looks, I have tried though following thing which is given the standard advices not supposely great (cause it can come a lil arrogant over) , but I got solid responses on it^^

Girl: Hey, youre really good looking

Me: I know, thanks - followed by a smile of course^^

Seems to me that women so far love this type of reaction... what you think bout it and how you usually react on compliments?

Post: #2

I just say "thank you" and smile. Maybe follow up with " you're not so bad yourself".

Them change the subject, as said below do not fall into their frame.

Post: #3

I would just reply "I am" or nod, and then talk about what you want to talk about. "Okay" is always a good response because she thinks she spoke out of turn and made a social mistake.

What most guys don't realize is women are actually extremely insecure. Even hot ones. Most of what comes out of their mouth is stupid unplanned meaningless vapid bullshit. They basically just say stuff, yet less experienced players spend hours trying to analyze it and respond "appropriately."

Don't.

Ignore most of what they say, and steer the conversation in whatever direction you want. Don't react to them.

Where you get killed is when you play into it, and let them control the conversation.

Post: #4

I get that a lot.

Post: #5

Same answer in most cases, and to any kind of compliment - "I know". I'm usually not polite enough to include a thanks, the smile is enough.

Post: #6

'I know' is amateur and predictable. Start using 'your welcome' with a huge shit eating grin, and you have to stare them right in the eye and not break contact. Its a great move, and they will thank you for it later!

Post: #7

Why are you worried so much about what she is saying. You are over analyzing it.

What you should be concerned about is her body language.

Her her body expressing that she is interested in you. Is she looking at you from head to toe in a way that shows that she wants to explore your body.

Is she touching you while saying it.

After time you will learn girls say a lot of random stuff just because.

She could say she likes you alot while she is actually fucking some other guy.

Don't take seriously what girls say.
Take seriously what actions they do as actions speak louder than words.

Pay

Post: #8

(08-11-2015 08:58 AM)HankMoody Wrote:  I would just reply "I am" or nod, and then talk about what you want to talk about. "Okay" is always a good response because she thinks she spoke out of turn and made a social mistake.


What most guys don't realize is women are actually extremely insecure. Even hot ones. Most of what comes out of their mouth is stupid unplanned meaningless vapid bullshit. They basically just say stuff, yet less experienced players spend hours trying to analyze it and respond "appropriately."

Don't.

Ignore most of what they say, and steer the conversation in whatever direction you want. Don't react to them.

Where you get killed is when you play into it, and let them control the conversation.

@"Okay" - love it!
Also your reasoning behind it...

Post: #9

(08-11-2015 02:09 PM)Just Approach Wrote:  Why are you worried so much about what she is saying. You are over analyzing it.

What you should be concerned about is her body language.

Her her body expressing that she is interested in you. Is she looking at you from head to toe in a way that shows that she wants to explore your body.

Is she touching you while saying it.

After time you will learn girls say a lot of random stuff just because.

She could say she likes you alot while she is actually fucking some other guy.

Don't take seriously what girls say.
Take seriously what actions they do as actions speak louder than words.

Pay

Why people sometimes immidiately think you would overanalyze, only when in reality you just like and enjoy the game and have joy to expriment a little bit with various stuff, even when its so unimportant like a cool response to a compliment - look, already have received in this thread 2 cool answers I wanna test and thats only for the fun^^
Game is just fun for me... nothing more..

Its really here not bout taking seriously what the hamster-logic is talking around... its just about enjoying gaming a bit around and testing new little stuff...

Post: #10

Depends on the occasion and the girl. If you are in a sociable and playful mood, you can inject a lot:

-I know, thanks
-Thanks, I get that a lot
-Wow, so you are one of those girls who only care about looks? What about my personality?
-Thanks, but what about my personality?
-Thanks, dont tell my dad that, he will be jealous

All this should be said with an overt joking tone and a big laugh/smirk. Calibrate.

If I feel that she is a nice girl and being genuine, I often say:
-Thanks, you have some great taste in men *wink*

Dont say "you are not so bad yourself"..... Giving back a compliment is very beta. Good for office socializing but bad for game.

Post: #11

"Thanks" works just fine for me. Then brush it off - segway into whatever your usual ramble/banter/conversation material is. I do the same whether it's a girl I don't know or one I'm dating when I get compliments on my body or my third gorilla leg. I'm slightly above average looking, but I still get this from girls in the 6-8 range. It's like anything you hear, don't react or take the compliment too seriously whether it happens often or not.