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RE: How to argue with Feminists who assert that Gender is a Construct??
(09-04-2015 11:55 AM)NewMeta Wrote: I don't do social media so if I have this argument with someone it's in person, play on the most basic of differences in biology between the genders. Saying basic stuff like "If a riot happens would you rather your female friends fighting your corner or me", just really basic, logical, survival of the fittest kinda shit. If they can't even see through that it's not worth it.
Don't know why you would want to argue with feminists in the first place though.
It was a reply to a male friend's post about women being more picky than men in the dating market. Here was my initial response:
Quote:Truth here. And basic biology should confirm it for you. For all the American media, gov't, churches, etc whipping on men for being 'shallow', women are infinitely more picky than men, even when it comes to looks alone. Women's standards for height alone make them more picky. The standard for male attractiveness has not changed for thousands of years: tall, handsome, full head of hair, strong muscles, V-shape physique. Men comparatively, are much more diverse in what we can find attractive, much more flexibility regarding height, body shape, skin complexion... No matter what kind of woman you are, there's at least a sub culture of guys out there who fetishize you. Conversely, I've never heard women raving about being chubby chasers, and I don't see dating sites for women seeking men under 5'3".
And then, feminist lady's interruption:
Quote:I don't have an articulate counter argument because all I hear from this is whining white male privilege and therefore I just can't even.
And then my response, (before her long-winded rant in my OP):
Quote:"Whining white male privilege" hey? Nothing like rebuilding a discussion into good ol' divide-and-conquer race hustling! You know, I also don't have a rational argument to the spouting of vapid SJW cliches, I do have a rational explanation for why people resort to them, but no reason to waste time refuting rebuild-the-mound, emotional responses.
I don't know where else to go with this, other than re-assert my acceptance of science, human nature, and complimentary gender roles. And how accepting complimentary gender roles is a lot easier than staring down the barrel of thousands of years of human evolution. Still, it baffles me how these feminist sheep can be so blank-slate with their comments like "gender construct". Where the hell do they get a rational explanation for that idea???
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RE: How to argue with Feminists who assert that Gender is a Construct??
Nuke her and burn it to the ground. Fair play is not existent with such cunts. Notice how her initial response was an attack as opposed to a counter argument?
If she doesn't like the patriarchy then why does she participate and use all the tools provided by it? Yes, males have higher status in the system because they built the system on centuries of collectively hard and iterative work. If by rape culture, she means the false rape accusation culture, etc.
On the topic of white male privilege, she is trying to discredit your opinion simply on account of being white. Own being a white male.
Women don't argue in fact because they respond to social perception, specifically shame. They argue in this manner and expect you to fold. You got a dick, right? Then be unwavering and tell her that her shame tactics won't work. Shame her by undercutting her arguments with fact and portray her as a monster for arguing the fact(s).
Her ilk is the most protected class society has seen in the last 200 years. She will turtle.
I will say though, you're better off just understanding how they argue, their tactics, and in this case, not responding. Online battles are useless but knowing how a female attempts to win is priceless.
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RE: How to argue with Feminists who assert that Gender is a Construct??
Start with a different topic, such as humans having limbs, and get them to accept that limbs aren't a social construct.
Then ask them to explain how two men can reproduce. Then ask why not. Then ask if sperm and eggs are social constructs, and ask which group produces either. Then say "therefore gender isn't a social construct either right?".
They have to break a link in the logical chain to come to an opposite conclusion. Which ever link they break, you press into hard.
They'll then start personal attacks. You then press into that by pointing it out - that they're insane and thus have to attack others to silence them, in order to defend their ideas. Then make an example of a sane intelligent man and how he makes people believe what he thinks (e.g. water is wet).
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RE: How to argue with Feminists who assert that Gender is a Construct??
I'm usually not a fan of messy threads like this with a lot of quoting, and I agree it's useless to argue with these people. I don't normally debate feminists, but I've documented a solid example here of how these SJW feminists will attempt to destroy you in an argument, and you guys have provided some key insights into the way they think, argue, and how to shut them up.
So, if you're interested, here's the script to my response to her race-baiting, gender-is-a-construct tirade:
Quote:My post merely reflects reality, and was not to insult anyone, only to raise awareness to the fact that men do often have it harder in the dating market, especially in a country like the USA where men are given mixed messages, and are treated like useful monkeys and little else. And yes, I did read the comments above, but those comments and your agenda that places itself in contest with natural laws do not change that reality. A little unbiased study of evolutionary-biology and hard science of sex and human nature (i.e. not the herd rhetoric your blank-slate professors drummed you with) reveals that reality. Gender Constructionism is a 'god of the gaps' argument. There will always be behavior that we can't explain through biology, but what we've found as science has progressed is that more and more behavior is driven by genetic factors and hormones. Personally, I am comfortable with this. My girlfriend and I love and celebrate our complimentary gender roles, lots of people do! It’s more fun than staring down the barrel of thousands of years of human evolution. I am not hurt by your racist slur; I take it as a compliment that I’ve spit some truth; and as an indicator that you’re probably not here to learn/debate, but to personally attack and have feels. Try to discredit my opinion simply on account of me being a white man? Alright-y then. If anything, my original comment resonates strongest with my non-European brothers who tend to be short in stature because of their ethnic genetics and thus find the dating market of multi-cultural America to be very challenging. Not to mention the well-documented fact that women of all stripes are statistically less likely to date outside their race/ethnicity than men are. But I don’t wanna turn a comments thread about male-female attraction triggers in a race hustle…
She responded back with a simple "well, my fiancé is Chinese, so at least I dodged the dating my own race bullet." Period, end of "discussion". Think I silenced her.
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RE: How to argue with Feminists who assert that Gender is a Construct??
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RE: How to argue with Feminists who assert that Gender is a Construct??
You can't - and shouldn't - argue with people who are willfully blind to reality and who refuse to stay calm and reason.
Being reasonable means conceding that you are wrong when your points or premises are logically disproven.
Incidentally, one thing that makes RVF such a special place for men is the overwhelming spirit of reasonableness.
If you post something foolish or uninformed, there is a whole community of smarter, older, more experienced guys in just about any area of endeavor be it business, game, travel, fitness, etc., who can help you expand your understanding and challenge your (often incorrect) assumptions.
I've learned a tremendous amount from this community and have revised many of my beliefs and understandings with the help of other RVFers.
But SJWs are children.
They:
A) refuse to ever being wrong
...and more crucially
B) have a vested interest in their conclusions being right (or rather, they accrue benefits/attention/power when the majority believes their rhetoric and votes to institutionalize their corrupt worldview).
We can't beat these useful idiots with conversation.
They must be outsmarted, overpowered and crushed mercilessly.
That, frankly, is the only way.
All attempts to reason and negotiate with psychos is a tremendous misuse of energy.
Have you ever tried to argue with a girl when she's pissed you on a logical grounds?
How did that work out?
Now extrapolate that dynamic to the enemy we're fighting in the current culture war and it should be clear that strategy, overwhelming force and a certain aggression is needed to defeat these crazies.
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