Post: #1

What's up, gents.

I'm in my late twenties, and I need a transition. For the last year or so, I lived at night. Wake up around 12-3, gout 'til 4-6, bang a girl, do it again the next day. My social group mainly consisted of girls I picked up during the night, or my player friends.

I've been traveling to a new country every few months as well. I want to switch to:
- Getting up at seven, going to bed at 23:00. My body and mind are so much sharper, and I want to put that energy into my work.
- Going off the beaten path. I tend to plan everything extensively before I do it, but I want to know how I can just go to a new place without preparing anything, and then handle myself.
- Learn how to meet and befriend people in a new town very fast. I have no clue why, but there are not a lot of people who want to take the effort to get to know me. When going out, I know how to bed chicks every other night, and generally people strike up a conversation with me. During the day, it's an other story.
- I don't know how to meet people that I like, and build relationships with them. Unless it's a girl I bang or a man with common interest (e.g. banging girl).

I get the sense that my social skills are lacking, but I'm not sure and what department, and how to change it.

I'm not too big on daygame, even though I had a few same day bangs from it, and quite a few dates. Guess that has to change...

I know this isn't a well structured post. But I hope there's someone who reads this and has solved a similar problem for himself some years ago. And can tell me how to make that social transition.

Also, because of the time constraints of moving every few months, I really need to master these skills.

Post: #2

I think you answered the question yourself. You don't meet people who aren't guys you have something in common with or girls you want to bang because you don't want to. If you want to meet people for social circle use the same methods you are using now. Either find more people you have something in common with or pretend like you have something they are really into in common.