Post: #1

Hi,
The subject pretty much explains it...

As you might have gussed by now, I don't drink. During the day, I can ask the girl for a coffee or something but what about night time ?
Is there an alternate for bars during night ?
Or should I be the 'I don't drink' guy at the bar who's offering girls(mostly) drinks.

I searched this forum but found nothing, spent time thinking but got nothing, googling didn't help either, finally I'm posting it here.

Post: #2

Drinks aren't necessary, many folks recommend staying sober. A common piece of advice is not to allow alcohol to be your crutch, that one should have the courage to approach without it.
At the same time, another common belief among party goers is "never trust a guy that doesn't drink."

Drink prices can really add up when you are out gaming with any frequency, I can sympathize. I'll usually only have 1 or two and nurse them super slowly, the drink being more of an accessory than anything else, just to show the others that you are a fellow partier and not some weirdo pua guy. If you don't want to drink you can always say you are the driver tonight, or that you're on a new diet. Some girls will talk your ear off about diets and fitness and shit (never the fat ones).

Post: #3

I usually drink coke, pepsi and what not. Sometimes order energy drinks too. That's cheaper and keeps me looking more fresh and alert relative to the drunken competition.

Post: #4

That's some good advice guys, but does that mean the "bar" is the only place for night gaming ?

Post: #5

Soda and lime. Looks alcoholic but it isn't and is often times free.

You don't even need to tell anybody that you are not drinking. Quietly order your soda and lime and carry on.

Post: #6

Bars, nightclubs, sporting events, its a wide world out there man, much depends on your location.

A lot of places have a 'strip' sort of area with a lot of bars and shops and stuff happening outdoors and people walking around on a night. If you are brave you can do approaches on the strip without going into any venues, it could be as simple as 'this looks like a fun group, where are you guys headed?'. But night game typically means thick crowds in a rowdy party type setting.

Post: #7

Thanks to Ethan Hunt, look what I found
https://www.quora.com/What-are-some-good...r-at-a-bar

All the drinks mentioned in the above link seem just like alcoholic drink.

And thanks for suggestions silver tube!

Yep @Lexington, you are absolutely right, and I don't intend on starting either especially for getting laid. But instead of sitting in a bar like a duck or PUA its better to have something to drink you should check out the above link too

Post: #8

You're actually better off not drinking. Instant allure created by a man who doesn't feel the need to fit in. Be above everyone.

I never drink at bars or clubs and inevitably a chick will use that as a fulcrum to flirt.

Post: #9

For you, no. For the girls, yes.

Post: #10

Going to be a hell of a lot easier for night game if you drink... but far from a necessity.

I know a few guys that have slayed for years sober - and all the power to them grinding it out - but for me, talking to girls of a night is just so much more enjoyable after a couple of drinks.

Post: #11

Drinking isn't a necessity for night game, but it'll help make drunk chicks more tolerable to be around. If you're not going to drink alcohol, do yourself a favor and get a non-alcoholic drink that looks like it could be the real deal, or else you'll get asked "Why aren't you drinking?" a million fucking times throughout the night.

Also, girls might not be as receptive to you if they think you're stone cold sober and they've been drinking. At least if you're drinking or appear to be drinking, the aftermath of any hookup you find yourself in can be written off as two drunken idiots "living in the moment" instead of being seen as a "creepy" sober guy out looking for drunk chicks to take advantage of.

Post: #12

If you don't drink, clubbing and game on the dance floor might be a thing for you. If she wants to go get a drink, you can get a water or something non-alcoholic because "you need to rehydrate"...

Post: #13

Googling didn't help either? Yeah Let me google that for you...

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