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I'm stuck in a rut, Down in the dumps!
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I'm stuck in a rut, Down in the dumps!
Hey Roosher's,

Recently I have just been getting shit on by people over and over. I keep working on myself, I feel like my game and communicating and understanding women has never been better. But my results show the complete opposite. What's interesting is this only happens while I'm in my home city of Los Angeles, everywhere else I go I hit it out of the park.

Here's and example of my last experiences:
Dated a girl I work with, got put into friends zone. Had a girl visit me off Airbnb this week, put me in the friends zone. Got about 5 numbers the other night when I went out to a event in Hollywood. I couldn't convert one of them. The girl last night straight up stood me up and didn't show up to the bar. I was going to Denmark to hang out with this girl I met in my last trip so I could have someone nice and warm on New Years. She messaged me this morning and called it off basically. An hour later on snapchat she's out with some dude. Over and over I'm getting blown out by women. I've naturally always done well with them, I've never been in better shape. It's playing tricks on my mind and had me down in the dumps. Not really because I haven't been successful at converting but more so that it makes me upset people have treated me like such shit, I never flake on people. I follow through with plans. But the women I meet just don't reciprocate. Ok, vent session over. Back on the horse I guess...
12-22-2016 10:30 PM
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RE: I'm stuck in a rut, Down in the dumps!
Not sure if Troll or serious?

In either case, I'll bite...

Game is often times "feast or famine." Don't let a dry spell get you down, keep pressing on. Every "no" brings you closer to "yes." That's just Sales 101. Also, don't focus all your intention squarely on women. Work to better yourself by reading great books, improving your finances, maybe even take up a new language or musical instrument?

Oh, and never travel too far out of your way for a chick. Flaking is much easier to accept if you haven't put yourself out by going to great lengths to meet up with her in the first place.

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12-23-2016 12:58 AM
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RE: I'm stuck in a rut, Down in the dumps!
Complaining about Women Flaking... wait a minute...

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There's ups & down in this Game son! Re-evaluate things to try to get Better... and that hard work will eventually pay off!
12-23-2016 01:18 AM
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RE: I'm stuck in a rut, Down in the dumps!
(12-23-2016 12:58 AM)LeoneVolpe Wrote:  Not sure if Troll or serious?

In either case, I'll bite...

Game is often times "feast or famine." Don't let a dry spell get you down, keep pressing on. Every "no" brings you closer to "yes." That's just Sales 101. Also, don't focus all your intention squarely on women. Work to better yourself by reading great books, improving your finances, maybe even take up a new language or musical instrument?

Oh, and never travel too far out of your way for a chick. Flaking is much easier to accept if you haven't put yourself out by going to great lengths to meet up with her in the first place.

Good advice, thanks. I'm definitely in the famine phase of having women around me so I'm going to take my focus off of them and just game where I can and not go out of my way to expect results. It was hard for me to have setback after setback and get back on the horse mentally.
12-23-2016 03:19 PM
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