Post: #1

Rich, strong, attractive and funny.

I read another study that found that only casual relationship they could find with the rate of female orgasm was wealth. The more money the man had, the more the woman orgasmed.

https://nypost.com/2016/12/30/science-sa...ou-orgasm/

Post: #2

Looks like another clickbait, junk in, junk out study to me.

If you want to make her orgasm multiple times, you need to fuck her good. Own her. Be unapologetic about fucking her the way you want. Let he retreat into her subconscious, dominated by you. It's really that simple.

There's tons of info on here.

Post: #3

Quote:Rich, strong, attractive and funny.

No.

Rich - She just needs security and stability so she can relax
Strong - She just needs a dominant guy who can take over and let her relax
Attractive - She doesn't want to feel like she's settling or the guy is desperate - She wants to relax
Funny - She wants to laugh and let go of any anxiety and stress she may have accumulated. You know, relax.

In other words to make a girl orgasm, have her be relaxed in bed. Having those above attributes are simply correlated to that, not a direct causation.

Post: #4

A woman is an emotional being. That's the purpose of game- accessing the emotional and reptillian part of her mind.

Using money to bag chicks is male beta logic.

Sex then comes in as the capstone of that emotional connection you've built with a woman. You don't have to go at it like Chad Thunder. She could cum as many times as Old Faithful, while you're barely out of breath.

She'd call you first thing daily. Call you ten years after. Search frantically for you on LinkedIn or Facebook.
Money is irrelevant to this process. This is the Casino dynamic. Lefty and Tony Spilotro, with their mob reps, couldn't sway Sharon Stone's character from a man who basically had nothing.

With money, you become a target to be played (including faked cums, artificial hymens, false dedication and care), with game, you're the player moving her emotional pieces around on the chessboard of life.

Post: #5

And shoutout to WIA who's helped me in no small way in my journey. Feliz Navidad, and a great New Year Hermano.

Post: #6

Here is some weird shit I learned in my human sexuality class back in the 1990's

When we talk about making a girl orgasm it must be noted there are two types of female orgasm internal(vaginal) and clitoral(self explanatory-clitoris stimulation). Not all women are capable of vaginal orgasm, and among those who do come vaginally they do not do it every time they have sex. Most women that use vibrators or masturbate are doing clitoral stimulation.

When you have sex with a girl in the missionary position she may orgasm vaginally, or if you are pressing against her pelvic area a certain way in missionary position clitoral orgasm. If you put the girl on top she may come vaginally or clitoral. In the doggy style position most woman only can come vaginally unless the clitoris is manually stimulated by her or her partner.

Statistically most women reported vaginal orgasm with them on top and the man thrusting upward while holding them, second was in the missionary and a distant third was in the doggy style position(Strangely women reported the doggy style position as their least pleasurable by a very large margin, however many rated it as their favorite position because they felt their partners enjoyed it the most-take from that what you will).

Women reported vaginal orgasm more frequently with casual partners over long term partners, more often with aggressive sex, and more often with men chosen strictly based on physical attributes(height, muscular, dominant). Multiple vaginal orgasms were reported with similar criterion.

In my personal life I have found that girls who orgasm vaginally with me, or have multiple orgasms tend to be sluts. Not always but pretty much 90 percent of the time these are chicks I fucked right after meeting them or on the first date.

Quick tip from your friend Atlanta Man- If you are eating a girl out and she comes, her hips force your head down and vigorously lick her clit- with most women this will put in into a "orgasm trigger" mode and she will have several orgasms in rapid succession. This is fun because the girl will start having spasms and she will be physically spent afterwords. Note- careful because this can make girls loose control of their bladder (especially if they have been drinking) and some girls are so sensitive that this hurts so stop if she says so.

Post: #7

(12-31-2016 05:56 PM)Atlanta Man Wrote:  Here is some weird shit I learned in my human sexuality class back in the 1990's

When we talk about making a girl orgasm it must be noted there are two types of female orgasm internal(vaginal) and clitoral(self explanatory-clitoris stimulation). Not all women are capable of vaginal orgasm, and among those who do come vaginally they do not do it every time they have sex. Most women that use vibrators or masturbate are doing clitoral stimulation.

When you have sex with a girl in the missionary position she may orgasm vaginally, or if you are pressing against her pelvic area a certain way in missionary position clitoral orgasm. If you put the girl on top she may come vaginally or clitoral. In the doggy style position most woman only can come vaginally unless the clitoris is manually stimulated by her or her partner.

Statistically most women reported vaginal orgasm with them on top and the man thrusting upward while holding them, second was in the missionary and a distant third was in the doggy style position(Strangely women reported the doggy style position as their least pleasurable by a very large margin, however many rated it as their favorite position because they felt their partners enjoyed it the most-take from that what you will).

Women reported vaginal orgasm more frequently with casual partners over long term partners, more often with aggressive sex, and more often with men chosen strictly based on physical attributes(height, muscular, dominant). Multiple vaginal orgasms were reported with similar criterion.

In my personal life I have found that girls who orgasm vaginally with me, or have multiple orgasms tend to be sluts. Not always but pretty much 90 percent of the time these are chicks I fucked right after meeting them or on the first date.

Quick tip from your friend Atlanta Man- If you are eating a girl out and she comes, her hips force your head down and vigorously lick her clit- with most women this will put in into a "orgasm trigger" mode and she will have several orgasms in rapid succession. This is fun because the girl will start having spasms and she will be physically spent afterwords. Note- careful because this can make girls loose control of their bladder (especially if they have been drinking) and some girls are so sensitive that this hurts so stop if she says so.

AM the "alchemist"- in here converting bs thread into something worthwhile!

Post: #8

Some theories I have for you Don Juans. My assumption is that any dude who is getting laid probably does this. So why did it help with those girls orgasm like it did?

More on the eye contact: I had girls talk about how alluring and deep my eyes were. I merely have dark brown eyes, nothing special. But I would gaze hard with them, especially during sex.

One other thing I noticed is that the three girls I bonded hard with and said they came from penetration for the first time, I eventually came inside of - usually in a very primal way. Very risky btw, but I wonder if your seed bonds girls to you and deepens the connection

I'm not exactly a sexpert, and when I was racking up my notches - shortly after losing my virginity and trying to simply get some sexual experience in, I made girls orgasm from penetration. Several of these girls told me they had never came from penetration with any guy before.

My dick is about 6 and a half inches, so nothing insane. At the time, I was still relatively clueless as to what I was doing, so I didn't think it was anything besides me having good stamina and maybe having my dick shaped just right. To add to that I had only gone down on two of them and they came from penetration before I went down on them.

One of the girls had slept with over 15 guys and had never come from penetration before me. I knew she wasn't lying about it because I could feel her orgasm hard on my dick. She ended up being a FWB. (I bonded well with her two) My wife for instance - a FWB at the time- had only slept with one other person and was literally addicted to me.

During that time, I had been reading through Daniel Roses' "Sex God" and he advocated a strong connection with women that involved physical, mental, and an emotional connection. Since I had newly lost my virginity, perhaps I was able to "bond" easier with girls and hadn't experienced the burnout yet. (Sex God is a must read. I managed to find a pdf of it, as it is insanely expensive online.)


I used to get really into it with girls that I did fuck. Unusual shit. Hard deep eye contact. Choking, and then switching to gentle caressing and to a new position. I would even throw in Spanish phrases in and try to say them in a slight Antonio Banderas accent. I thought it would come out quite corny, but it worked very well. I don't know why. I made sure to caress and run my hands down every part of their body while fucking. (I had sex lines at the time, and I'm reasonably attractive, but I don't know if its enough to induce orgasms.)

Just throwing some of this out there and seeing if any of you have had similar experiences.


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Post: #9

My experience

5% can't come no matter what (they have usually have an issue with sex in mind)
95% come when you play with clit
30-40% can come through PIV (on top easy, on the bottom you have to learn how to do it)

Some only like one, most can have 3-4, and the odd crazy one can have 50 :-)

Post: #10

It should be more a study on "the type of women that can cum" Since it's mostly up to the woman how she enjoys sex.

Being a man who "is good at sex" is as easy as getting an decent sized erection, being able to cum when you want to (not premature), studying some techniques and then putting the effort in.

Nothing really magical about it.

Post: #11

I'm calling bullshit on that 75-80% of women will never have an orgasm from intercourse stuff, just like I am on the D.C. area being insanely wealthy (or wealthy at all) and the average lifetime notch count being six. If a girl gets on top for at least ten minutes (often much less than that) and is able to move her hips, it's almost 100% that she will have at least one orgasm in my experience. From me being on top alone, the percentage is far under 100%, but it does happen pretty often. I give all girls oral and am good at it, but I have never had a girl tell me she had an orgasm from me giving her oral, so I don't know about that part.

Post: #12

When I saw this article I laughed, why the fuck do you need a ''study'' to prove women want dominant ,confident men who have good social calibration. We should get research grant money , gibs me dat,gibs me dat

Post: #13

Most of these posts in here are getting me FIRED up, FUCK YEAH!

Post: #14

(12-31-2016 11:20 PM)Merenguero Wrote:  I give all girls oral and am good at it, but I have never had a girl tell me she had an orgasm from me giving her oral, so I don't know about that part.

I've only known a couple of girls who don't come from oral. You'll know if she came good, cause her legs will be choking you

Post: #15

I made a girl cum so hard last night she fell down, said "I need a fucking towel, holy shit", and sent me a "thank you for this morning" text in WeChat. Sometimes good deeds are their own reward, you know? Hahaha

Post: #16

behave like Rocco S

Post: #17

Only banged one girl that didn't cum. She was a habitual masturbator that used expensive and large toys. I felt bad at first, but if I give it my all and she doesn't cum after 30m that's really her problem.

It's no secret that building sexual tension and comfort during foreplay leads to more orgasms. It's really not that hard. I have a real average dick it's nothing special.

Post: #18

Concur on the having them on top advice. Pull her against you and bang her with a steady rhythm. Then turn up the pace until you are going as good as you've got. This will often push them over the edge. Requires some decent aerobic fitness mind you!

Post: #19

(01-05-2017 09:20 PM)Bushido Wrote:  Concur on the having them on top advice. Pull her against you and bang her with a steady rhythm. Then turn up the pace until you are going as good as you've got. This will often push them over the edge. Requires some decent aerobic fitness mind you!

I agree. I had a girl convulsing on top of me a month ago doing that shit. Never made a girl cum in that position before. Love when their whole bodies are shakin.

But yes fitness is definitely important. When I was at the peak of my bulk it was very hard for me to keep up with sex as far as cardio went. I literally started running to the gym just so I could have better stamina for sex. I'm pretty buff though and that's nice. Love when girls feel my arm and back muscles and shit while we fuck.

Post: #20

Sexual openness and experience. Man's attributes do matter of course, but there are just some less experienced or more conservative girls who "don't know" how to have an orgasm, and never have. Other girls, the more experienced and slutty, treat their orgasm almost like a man does, they can reach it in 5 minutes. One time I gave a girl her orgasm then she kicked me out with blue balls. The word pissed is not enough for what I felt at that time.

Post: #21

It's easy to learn to make a woman squirt. Watch a video on it. Spider-Man finger does it almost every time. Can get them to gush with my cock now too.

Post: #22

I'll admit that I'm pretty shit at this. Starting to bother me actually. I've never been able to decipher what the problem is, but recently I've started to get the feeling it's something fundamental, due to some things girls have said. One was a fairly open girl saying 'you came but I didn't, it's not fair'. I then proceeded to fuck her steadily for about an hour, with her trying to find the best position, and concurrently using a vibrator, and she still didn't come but she said 'good work, I almost came'.

These are the factors that are adding to the confusion, perhaps you guys who seem to have higher success at this can diagnose the problem:
- Some girls have said 'you are so good in bed', 'you are the best I've had', 'that was really good' with a big grin on their face, etc, and meant it. I think this was in response to my stamina. I never go soft, so the limit is my physical fitness and energy, or her getting tired of riding, or me getting bored because I can't come any more times. In all these cases though, none of the girls have come, but have expressed (without me asking) how much they enjoyed it. I am certain they didn't come because of experience based on point 2:
- All of the girls who have come basically did it to themselves. They knew exactly how to position and move themselves (on top, in a variety of different ways specific to what worked for them), or they masturbated during, or they positioned themselves in a very specific way so my fucking would make them come (kind of being on top, but more v-shaped in body position, and me basically lifting them up and then dropping them down on my dick). The exceptions were the rare few who came during the fingering foreplay (who were more sexually open types). Adding to the confusion though were the girls who said 'make me cum' as I was fucking them, as though that's just something I can do to them by my choice. Is it? In some way that is universal to women I don't know of?
- I rarely use oral, usually because they aren't comfortable with it. I do however do a good amount of foreplay with fingering/clit massage etc.
- There is no problem with size, girls generally report I am 'big' but I put that in inverted commas since they are obviously comparing with local men. Based on the condoms in Australia I'm slightly bigger than the average there, and based on Japanese condoms I'm 'elephant sized' . Any size problems have been due to them being too small (discomfort, pain or bleeding), but that is only very occasionally.

So far my wild guesses are that I'm not muscular enough to visually/physically stimulate her, that the relationships are not long or intimate enough, that I'm too nice (which helps get them comfortable enough to come home with me on a short timeframe) which is reducing perceived dominance, or that I'm simply not banging long enough without pause (although when I've tried just banging really long without pause they've seemed to start getting bored or started wondering why I won't come), or that I both need to bang them crazy hard with all my might and for an extended period without pause (in which case that's a physical fitness issue).

Anything in there stand out as a potential problem to you guys? It bugs me that girls never come due to my fucking, when it seems by every other guys self-report that they do for them with a high frequency. Pisses me off actually, because them coming gets me off too. I have read the famous 'sex-god method' book, and have tried to apply some of the advice (dominant language etc), but it hasn't done much.

Post: #23

(01-08-2017 06:29 AM)Phoenix Wrote:  I'll admit that I'm pretty shit at this. Starting to bother me actually. I've never been able to decipher what the problem is, but recently I've started to get the feeling it's something fundamental, due to some things girls have said. One was a fairly open girl saying 'you came but I didn't, it's not fair'. I then proceeded to fuck her steadily for about an hour, with her trying to find the best position, and concurrently using a vibrator, and she still didn't come but she said 'good work, I almost came'.

These are the factors that are adding to the confusion, perhaps you guys who seem to have higher success at this can diagnose the problem:
- Some girls have said 'you are so good in bed', 'you are the best I've had', 'that was really good' with a big grin on their face, etc, and meant it. I think this was in response to my stamina. I never go soft, so the limit is my physical fitness and energy, or her getting tired of riding, or me getting bored because I can't come any more times. In all these cases though, none of the girls have come, but have expressed (without me asking) how much they enjoyed it. I am certain they didn't come because of experience based on point 2:
- All of the girls who have come basically did it to themselves. They knew exactly how to position and move themselves (on top, in a variety of different ways specific to what worked for them), or they masturbated during, or they positioned themselves in a very specific way so my fucking would make them come (kind of being on top, but more v-shaped in body position, and me basically lifting them up and then dropping them down on my dick). The exceptions were the rare few who came during the fingering foreplay (who were more sexually open types). Adding to the confusion though were the girls who said 'make me cum' as I was fucking them, as though that's just something I can do to them by my choice. Is it? In some way that is universal to women I don't know of?
- I rarely use oral, usually because they aren't comfortable with it. I do however do a good amount of foreplay with fingering/clit massage etc.
- There is no problem with size, girls generally report I am 'big' but I put that in inverted commas since they are obviously comparing with local men. Based on the condoms in Australia I'm slightly bigger than the average there, and based on Japanese condoms I'm 'elephant sized' . Any size problems have been due to them being too small (discomfort, pain or bleeding), but that is only very occasionally.

So far my wild guesses are that I'm not muscular enough to visually/physically stimulate her, that the relationships are not long or intimate enough, that I'm too nice (which helps get them comfortable enough to come home with me on a short timeframe) which is reducing perceived dominance, or that I'm simply not banging long enough without pause (although when I've tried just banging really long without pause they've seemed to start getting bored or started wondering why I won't come), or that I both need to bang them crazy hard with all my might and for an extended period without pause (in which case that's a physical fitness issue).

Anything in there stand out as a potential problem to you guys? It bugs me that girls never come due to my fucking, when it seems by every other guys self-report that they do for them with a high frequency. Pisses me off actually, because them coming gets me off too. I have read the famous 'sex-god method' book, and have tried to apply some of the advice (dominant language etc), but it hasn't done much.

You have to fuck their mind as well. A lot of sex is psychological.

You should try to strike the balance between comfort/familiarity and variety/excitement. A good way to do this is find her sexual limit and just flirt with it and bump it a little bit.

So you have a girl that's only had sex in a bed. When you're driving with her just start rubbing her pussy see how she reacts. At first it will probably be a no. Try it again 30 seconds later. She will probably receive it much better. Then play with it for most of the ride home. Build that sexual tension HIGH. She will want to to fuck you right there, right now. Then you pull over to find a spot and start the process again. Then pull back and say "no. You have to wait till we get home." Next time you're in the car I guarantee you get that car fuck and she will be dripping in anticipation and sexual tension for it.

The goal is to build the sexual tension. When that sexual tension is high you can get chicks to cum very quickly as long as you provide familiarity (you) and variety(some change).

For the solely physical part, figure out which positions make most girls cum then adjust for each girl to her favorite.

Post: #24

Agreed.

Fucking a girl without sexual tension = she won't come.

I was cheating with this girl on her boyfriend. He is a typical Indian male (a beta loser). Told her to come to my apartment and started having sex with her. I looked at her face while fucking her and concluded that she wasn't 100% aroused.

So I switched things up. Instead of trying to thrust her hard and continuous, I said something along the lines of "what if your boyfriend catches us?" and "I bet he doesn't satisfy you" (not the exact lines but you get the idea). She came like a truck. The next day she messaged in hindi " I'm your bitch from today. Send me a text whenever you are horny."

Hey phoenix,

Putting all the morality of cheating aside, I think some women repress their sexual desires. This is why they don't cum. It has nothing to with your physique or the rough sex.

Once you mentally touch the pleasure spot in her brain with some talk, she's yours in bed. Then you fuck her tight and rough.

Post: #25

Women are not easily reverse-engineered. You can not make simple reductionist arguments like this. It's more complex and variable from woman to woman. That doesn't stop articles like these from coming out because men are always searching for simple ways to understand women.

These examples are from personal experience (not mentioning them to brag, just to pass along info).

There are women out there who are highly orgasmic. It's just part of their physiology. If they cum that easily it really won't matter if it's their own fingers or an inept beta between their legs. Technique and story context doesn't matter for women like this. They are wired more like men and therefore sex with them is an effortless endless spigot. (Based on my personal experience with one, they don't make good LTR material, but boy do I wish they did.)

On the other side, there are all these studies that talk about how infrequently women cum from traditional intercourse. These studies tend to boil this down to physiology and not technique. Personal experience leads me to believe it is simply a matter of technique.

The thing with women, at least a significant chunk of them, is that they will develop their own sense of their sexual response solely based on how they've been moved by the men in their life. They can read all this mindblowing stuff in Cosmo but if reality doesn't match the fantasy, then these kinds of women blame their bodies and just assume that's as good as it's gonna get.

I don't know if this is the case with the younger hookup culture crowd. This just tends to be what I'm running into with 40+ women who keep telling me boring tales of turn-taking--where the guy gives her 1 orgasm with simple finger on clit technique and then hops on for 5 minutes or less of missionary and then roll over and go to sleep. But just because younger women are on the cock carousel doesn't necessarily mean the younger guys they're with are so much more skilled. If younger guys are emulating porn, it might make for more vigorous and kinky sex, but still far shy of what it takes to max out her potential.

If I write more than this it will be well into TL;DR territory, but generally speaking guys want to go too rough and too fast, since that's what they're used to from spanking the monkey. What works for me is to err on the side of being slower, gentler, maintain more sensual touch and kissing, more full body contact, shallower thrusts with more pelvic-bone on pelvic-bone mashing. And most of all, you have to become a jedi at evaluating her body language while not becoming so focused on her that you lose your own arousal.

Also, I've taken it as a given that a woman is going to have at least a 2:1 ratio of orgasms to mine, and those extras are going to happen either during foreplay or anytime I've lost my erection, either because of the refractory period or because I allowed myself to focus too much on her. So I try to do it in a way that makes it feel seamless when in actuality there are periods of time where I'm getting frustrated by the limitations of male physiology.

The fact is that women have much greater potential for sexual pleasure than men. So I try to console myself by sort of living vicariously through the extra orgasms she can have that I can't. I definitely do NOT subscribe to the notion that some women can't have multiple orgasms. That's bullshit.