Post: #1

Hello guys,
please give me a piece of advice.

I can't stand loneliness any more and the only possibility I see at the moment is to move somewhere for some time.

I have two places in mind - Russia and the Philippines:

advantages of Russia:
- I speak Russian, people realise immediately that I am a foreigner but I can communicate without problems
- beautiful and classy women, I consider Russian women as the best in the world and I really love blondes (years ago a few times I stopped dating a woman only because she was brunette, but right now I would prefer to be with a brunette than alone)
- if I choose Kaliningrad Oblast I could still keep my job in Poland (I have a job that needs only a few days of work a month)
- was there a few times so I know the country a little bit and I like the culture

disadvantages of Russia:
- can be too difficult for me to find a girl there
- I need to pay almost 400 EUR for a year visa
- high hiv prevalence, this is quite important, I know how people get hiv but I am very aidsfobic and just the feeling that every 100th person I meet on a street is hiv positive is thrilling me

advantages of the Philippines
- I do not believe anybody can fail in the Philippines, I have an account on the FilipinoCupid and I get a lot of messages an hour already
- very low hiv prevalence

disadvantages of the Philippines
- quality of women, not only beauty but just everything (???)
- I need to pay 500 EUR just to get there
- possible language problems, I know that they speak English but they have their own languages I know I will never learn
- cannot work there
- a developed, possibly dangerous country I completely do not know

Something that I do not care at all is the weather or food, just not important for me.

what your advice would be?

Post: #2

You sound like a guy who's a ton of fun to hang out with, and I'm sure you'll be wildly successful wherever you go.

Edit: Wait, you live in Poland?
Didn't Roosh write a whole book on sleeping with Polish chicks? What's wrong with the girls there? What do they have in Russia or the Phillipines that the Polish girls don't?

Post: #3

Without Game, Russian and Filipina girls will take advantage of you.

Learn Game.

I say that as an American in Gdansk, who's also spent a month in Kiev, and visited Manila.

Post: #4

(01-13-2017 04:42 AM)262 Wrote:  Without Game, Russian and Filipina girls will take advantage of you.

I am not afraid of that too much.
When I see that a girl is trying that I disengage without problems.
Finding a girl is a problem, nothing else.

(01-13-2017 04:42 AM)262 Wrote:  Learn Game.

I do not find that as a possibility in my current state of mind.
I need an easy win not another 11 years of struggle.

(01-13-2017 04:42 AM)262 Wrote:  I say that as an American in Gdansk, who's also spent a month in Kiev, and visited Manila.

Being an American in Poland is something completely different than being a Pole.
I would not be surprised if you score better than in the Philippines there and in the same places I would not be able to do anything.

Post: #5

If it's just to get laid, then obviously the Philippines since you can't fail. Russian girls would be difficult to pull

Post: #6

have you ever read a book on game out of interest? (i.e - people always say 'learn game', but I always assume that anyone who posts here has already done that!)

Post: #7

(01-12-2017 09:18 PM)SamuelBRoberts Wrote:  Edit: Wait, you live in Poland?
Didn't Roosh write a whole book on sleeping with Polish chicks? What's wrong with the girls there? What do they have in Russia or the Phillipines that the Polish girls don't?

That is wrong with Polish girls that they are mostly too difficult for me to get.

Russian girls are somewhat easier, I had 2 Russian girlfriends some time ago but it can be still to difficult now.

Filipino should be a piece of cake from what I read and what I observe on FilipinoCupid.

Post: #8

(01-13-2017 05:03 AM)subterfuge Wrote:  have you ever read a book on game out of interest? (i.e - people always say 'learn game', but I always assume that anyone who posts here has already done that!)

I am reading about game for something like 8 years and I have seen one guy doing it but I do not find a possibility to do anything practical, it is just magic for me.

Post: #9

Why are you lonely?

You sound like you would be eaten alive in Russia. Philippines won't make you happy either. I suggest start looking for jobs in America.

But what you actually need though is just a group of awesome friends. It's definitely easier to meet people like this if you are the foreigner, so again I suggest to try to find work in another country.

Post: #10

(01-13-2017 05:25 AM)Alche Wrote:  Why are you lonely?

If I had to give one the most important reason I would say that because I lack communication skills.
I do not know how to talk to poeple I do not know.
I am not afraid, I just have nothing to say.

(01-13-2017 05:25 AM)Alche Wrote:  You sound like you would be eaten alive in Russia.

Why do you think so?
As long as I avoid any fights and their medical service I should be ok.

(01-13-2017 05:25 AM)Alche Wrote:  Philippines won't make you happy either.

Maybe, I do not know the place, but why do you think so?

(01-13-2017 05:25 AM)Alche Wrote:  I suggest start looking for jobs in America.

No thank you, after what I have read just on rooshvforum America would not be a place I would like to go too much.

Post: #11

There are a lot of people giving you advice (you asked for it) and you keep rejecting it. So, just do what you want, either youll figure out what to do next after you move, or youll starve on the streets. Theres no point giving advice to someone who is just going to try to poke holes in said advice. So. . . just do what you want.

Post: #12

Reading your post I note the following:

1. You consider Russian girls the most beautiful
2. Being Polish, you have a decent grasp of Russian
3. You aren't too far from home if you jump to Russia and things don't work out in the way you want

On that basis, I would focus on Russia as opposed to the Philippines.

Post: #13

I know why OP is here.

He wants attention and sympathy, not advice.

We see it all the time here.

Best response is to ignore, so he has to take action.

The info he needs is already on this forum. He likely already knows what he has to do anyway.

Post: #14

(01-13-2017 05:54 AM)CJ_W Wrote:  There are a lot of people giving you advice (you asked for it) and you keep rejecting it. So, just do what you want, either youll figure out what to do next after you move, or youll starve on the streets. Theres no point giving advice to someone who is just going to try to poke holes in said advice. So. . . just do what you want.

I do not see rejecting any advice apart from advice to go to America.
This is the only advice I reject.

Post: #15

America is not bad.. but I understand why many forum members think it is. They grew up there, are used to the girls being a certain way and want something different. It's understandable.

I'm from Australia and felt the same way about aussie girls. I used to hate aussie girls, because they did not compare to european girls at all. Now though, I don't mind them. It's all about your perception.

I said don't go to Russia, not because of fights or medical service. Because the GIRLS will eat you up. This might be a hard pill to swallow, so make sure you are sitting down when you read this.

You are mentally weak. Girls there are mentally strong and you do not stand a chance. Especially if you struggle to talk for a few minutes to a stranger.

So ask yourself this. Do you want to lay in puddle of pity for the rest of your life? Or go after what you want? Grow some balls, go outside and start talking to people!

Post: #16

(01-13-2017 06:19 AM)Alche Wrote:  This might be a hard pill to swallow, so make sure you are sitting down when you read this.

You are mentally weak. Girls there are mentally strong and you do not stand a chance. Especially if you struggle to talk for a few minutes to a stranger.

Well, it is not a hard pill to swallow, it is something I know perfectly well.

(01-13-2017 06:19 AM)Alche Wrote:  Because the GIRLS will eat you up.

Please explain what do you mean?
I had only good experience with Russian girls so far.
With Russian men, generally quite ok too.

On the other hand I had mostly negative experience with Ukrainian people, both sexes, I find Russians and Ukrainians so different like if they are from different continents.
This is the reason why I do not want to go to Ukraine so much even though I do not need a visa there.
Maybe Eastern Ukraine is somewhat different, I do not know.

(01-13-2017 06:19 AM)Alche Wrote:  So ask yourself this. Do you want to lay in puddle of pity for the rest of your life? Or go after what you want?
Grow some balls, go outside and start talking to people!

And this I would find much easier in Russia than in my country.
For many reasons.

1. I do not like Polish girls too much, by default I consider most of them as bitches. On the other hand by default I consider most of Russian girls as nice and pleasant to be with.
2. Finding a subject of conversation.
In Russia that would be very easy because I do not know the place well enough.
I could ask anybody just for anything and it would be reasonable because I really do not know and I am really interested.
The same would be about the language, I am able to have a conversation but there are plenty of words I do not know and I could ask about.
In Poland this is absolutely not the case because I already know everything.

Of course both of this would be as true in the Philippines, so this does not answer my question where to go.

Post: #17

Hey,

Well to be honest your going to have to work on yourself and focus on inner game. Its a blessing you speak Russian and can get Russian women. There the best in the world IMO. But its not about the women, its about you. You need confidence, charisma, personal development, intelligence and style. If your a chump with beautiful woman, your still a chump. As a white guy you would have power in SEA so maybe thailand, phillipines or Vietnam would be a place to start to build experiences. These experiences should be used to lay down the infrastructure of your confidence,charisma, and intelligence. You say you dont have much to talk about? Well with life experiences you will. Women wont really fix your personal issues you need to go somewhere that will bring the best out of you. Becoming the best version of yourself should be your goal.

Also, personally im interested in Poland. Im looking to visit maybe in couple of years. Msg me in detail and ill try to help you out even more.


Peace,

Post: #18

Op

My advice is not to move to the Philippines. It's a great place to take a vacation and that is it. The poverty level, heat, humidity will get to be to much after awhile. Dealing with people with an average IQ of children will be enough to make you go crazy.

My advice would be Vietnam. If my memory is correct there is a strong Russian present in a city called Na Trang along the coast. You could game local girls, Russian girls and tourists.

Good luck

Post: #19

Do both, visit the philippines and see if you like it, it seems going to work in kalinigrad oblast seems like the best option as you'll be able to keep your job.

Post: #20

Phuket.

All the cheapness and livability of Asia, but the advantage of hot Russian tourists (and euros) to chase and bang.

Its also got a brilliant lifestyle, and you can always find love easily and cheaply at a local bar if you strike out with the Russian woman.

Post: #21

(04-10-2017 04:52 PM)Jack Of All Trades Wrote:  Do both, visit the philippines and see if you like it, it seems going to work in kalinigrad oblast seems like the best option as you'll be able to keep your job.

This. I wouldn't spend too much time in a place I've never been. BTW, both places are in my list, probably 2 weeks on each.

Post: #22

(01-13-2017 06:42 AM)aardwolf Wrote:  

(01-13-2017 06:19 AM)Alche Wrote:  This might be a hard pill to swallow, so make sure you are sitting down when you read this.

You are mentally weak. Girls there are mentally strong and you do not stand a chance. Especially if you struggle to talk for a few minutes to a stranger.

Well, it is not a hard pill to swallow, it is something I know perfectly well.

(01-13-2017 06:19 AM)Alche Wrote:  Because the GIRLS will eat you up.

Please explain what do you mean?
I had only good experience with Russian girls so far.
With Russian men, generally quite ok too.

On the other hand I had mostly negative experience with Ukrainian people, both sexes, I find Russians and Ukrainians so different like if they are from different continents.
This is the reason why I do not want to go to Ukraine so much even though I do not need a visa there.
Maybe Eastern Ukraine is somewhat different, I do not know.

(01-13-2017 06:19 AM)Alche Wrote:  So ask yourself this. Do you want to lay in puddle of pity for the rest of your life? Or go after what you want?
Grow some balls, go outside and start talking to people!

And this I would find much easier in Russia than in my country.
For many reasons.

1. I do not like Polish girls too much, by default I consider most of them as bitches. On the other hand by default I consider most of Russian girls as nice and pleasant to be with.
2. Finding a subject of conversation.
In Russia that would be very easy because I do not know the place well enough.
I could ask anybody just for anything and it would be reasonable because I really do not know and I am really interested.
The same would be about the language, I am able to have a conversation but there are plenty of words I do not know and I could ask about.
In Poland this is absolutely not the case because I already know everything.

Of course both of this would be as true in the Philippines, so this does not answer my question where to go.

When you say you consider most Polish women bitches, could you please say a little bit more about what you mean here? What's the main issue that you have with them? For example, when you approach them, do they not give you the time of day?

Nearly all of my interactions with Polish girls have been very pleasant, including quite a few that I cold-approached on the street when I was still living in the UK. Even if they already had a boyfriend, they were always at least polite and receptive to being approached.

As for Russian women, I second what has already been mentioned on this thread: Russian women will shit test you in ways that go way beyond Western women and the level of inner game you will require - which you seem to sorely lack at the moment, if I may be honest here - is also much higher than with Western women.