Post: #1

My sexual expectations from women are definitely skewed by it. Girl I've fucked who did so closest to one was seemingly aware of that fact, and used it to tease (i.e. first person to deepthroat the entire thing, but only did it once-twice).

Should I become more realistic? Or should I just keep trying to treat these girls like how I see they are treated in these videos.

Post: #2

The thing most important is when your having sex is it pleasurable to you.
Is she doing things you like?
Is she doing things you don't like?
My advice is to tell her what you want done during sex.
Be physical with her if you like that kinda thing.
Be gentle with her if you like that as well.

If your sexual expectations are that most women you meet should fuck you like porn stars then perhaps you watch too much porn. Although high N count women tend to be over acting during sex in my experience. (These women tend to have some type of mental health issue, however minor)

Post: #3

There are a couple things that need to be.mentioned here:

1.) You have porno-brain and need to fix that. It is ruining your perception of what real life sex is and what it should look like and how it should feel.

2.) The way adult film actors and actresses have sex is purely for entertainment. It's not glamorous and does not feel great. It's like anything else in entertainment. Real life isn't like the movies, and real sex isn't like pornography.

Figure out what you like in bed and get girls to do that. Forget porn and stop watching it so much.

Post: #4

Your the one who should be fucking like a pornstar (figuratively speaking because in all honesty a lot of the sex in porn looks good but isn't necessarily good sex).

If you fuck her good and turn her on you will in the process push her to unleash her primal fuck energy.

Every girl is a dirty slut the key is being the guy she wants to be a dirty slut for.

Post: #5

To OP: what exactly are you expecting real women to be doing that you see in porn?

Post: #6

I'd like to add that I fucking hate it when a girl is a try-hard with dirty talk and it just comes out forced and clunky, like she's putting on a performance or trying to emulate something she heard in a porno.

"Yeah baby, fuck that pussy, fuck that pussy!" in her best (read terrible) porn star voice.

Those are the ones I tend to choke the hardest.

Post: #7

Thanks for the input everyone. I definitely think my perceptions are skewed.

Post: #8

Why would anyone want a woman who has sex like a porn star? The things women say in porn are so unnatural and forced. Harsh, "give it to me" attitudes do nothing for me. Whatever happened to actually enjoying sex without the phony dialog?

Post: #9

I definitely had a chick ride my dick like a porn star once, but it was a one time deal and never saw her again. She could also deepthroat and let me do first date anal. I think I loved her.

Post: #10

(01-17-2017 05:15 PM)Serious Sam Wrote:  I'd like to add that I fucking hate it when a girl is a try-hard with dirty talk

I personally love dirty talk as long as the woman seems turned on enough while she's saying it. The longer and more coherent the sentences the more it tells me she's just lent me a numb body to use while she roots me on from the sidelines.

Post: #11

I only care that she rides it hard and sucks me off good when I cum. There's no better feeling than a girl sucking and stroking while you're cumming in her mouth. It's enough to make you pass out

Post: #12

Porn is not remotely connected to real life sex, obviously.

Most chicks are rubbish at sex, thinking all they have to do is turn up and say yes.

Some older ones have been around the block, and they know how to please a man.

Post: #13

Kind of depends what kind of porn you watch

Post: #14

I used to watch porn, but it certainly makes me feel lazy and unmotivated. It is a habit I've worked hard to kick.

Post: #15

(01-17-2017 07:23 PM)questor70 Wrote:  

(01-17-2017 05:15 PM)Serious Sam Wrote:  I'd like to add that I fucking hate it when a girl is a try-hard with dirty talk

I personally love dirty talk as long as the woman seems turned on enough while she's saying it. The longer and more coherent the sentences the more it tells me she's just lent me a numb body to use while she roots me on from the sidelines.

I'm talking more about the forced dirty talk. It's not naturally flowing, and she's saying it because she thinks I'll think it's hot. It's annoying more than anything, and I've told more than one girl to cut it out. They've watched some porn and figured, "hey, that's what guys want," so they copy the porn stars.

Dirty talk that is genuine and fits with the flow of what we're doing is hot and does turn me on.

Post: #16

MaceTyrell,

I do not know what your specifics are when you say "fuck like a porn star."

All I can do is share some circumstances that have lead to my most erotic experiences.

1) The woman has to trust you and believe you are completely NON JUDGEMENTAL. Even if she reveals something you are completely turned off or disgusted with. Just say "Thats cool, just not my thing"

2) She must not think you are LTR material. If she thinks you would be great catch. Chances are she is not going to blow it by behaving like a dirty little slut. I dated an ex of a while, who was good in bed but did not come off as too freaky. Once we broke up, time passed and we started messing around again she revealed a whole new freaky side.

3) Stimulate her mind before you touch her body. Talk to her about her fantasies. She maybe reluctant and you may have to coax it out of her. Ask her "What is the fantasy you would most like to try but are too chicken to do?" This will give you insight into what she is into. Listen very carefully. Dont just pay attention to the big details, the little ones are equally as important! Minor details like what she is wearing or location or time of day can make a huge difference to her!!! By listening to and catering to those details, you can cause her let go of restraint and caution and to behave like the primal animal she truly is but society says she cant be.

4) Sense of Urgency - I have only had a handful of ONS but every time I did there were the most fulfilling and satisfying experiences. Most were because one of us was leaving soon (day or two) to another part of the country/world and we would not be able to see each other or easily keep in touch. When we fucked. We fucked like there was no tomorrow! Our intertwined bodies were our parting gifts to each other. And memories of those gifts were something we wanted each other to remember for a lifetime.

I dont know if any of this hits your "Fuck like a pornstar" target. Each of these circumstances have provided me with memories that I will carry for a lifetime. I really cant say that I have seen any pornos I remember more that few minutes after seeing.

Post: #17

Delete.

Post: #18

I've had porn star sex in Vegas before. Holy shit I'll never forget that fuck sesh. Can't remember the girl's name though lol but man that was wild.... We tore that hotel room up.

And by porn star sex I mean wild, raw, passionate, and intense. We 69d, I pounded her hard from every position, I threw her down on the bed, fucked her ass, she did ATM oral, we fucked all over the entire room, we were sweating all over each other holy fuck that was crazy.

That shit was relentless.

Post: #19

This. This is what I was trying to talk about but couldn't articulate.

Post: #20

After long period of no porn, most of that shit looks pretty fake, in terms of girls face expressions etc. I cannot look at it anymore the same way as I did as a virgin.

They are out there, and even probably better. Depends if you behave in that way and just enjoy the stuff and do whatever you feel like or you are up in your thoughts thinking about if she fuck like this or that porn star.

Post: #21

Sluts and milfs are perfectly capable of what you ask, it is up to you to "inspire" them to act like it.
You can fuck a girl like that but you must be able to put your pleasure first and be able to see them in a detached way, male pornstars don't exactly respect their partners.

Intense sex takes effort, a young girl in her prime and in a relationship wil not easily open up, I mean it's not that irrational to make the connection "fuck like a slut=>are a slut".
The more baggage a woman has, the easier it is for her to act like a porn star in sex. Maybe it's some kind of escape from their feelings or something, good sex is liberating in this sense for both men and women.
And imagine how much emotional baggage a porn star has to fuck like that.

Well, as an esteemed poster before me put it

(01-17-2017 03:12 PM)aeroektar Wrote:  Every girl is a dirty slut the key is being the guy she wants to be a dirty slut for.

Cynical but true if you stay long enough with any girl.

Post: #22

Porn by and large is sex altered to create openings for camera shots of penetration where the same position is held for 2 or 3 or 5 minutes or more.

Most of the time that rules out most of the best actual real world moves that you'd want each other to pull. If all you ever saw was porn then you'd think that the standard missionary position was a myth, despite the fact that done correctly it's a really good position.

There are plenty of girls out there that will fuck wildly like animals, particularly if under the sway of various mood altering substances, but "porn sex" is nothing to aspire to specifically.

Hit up some amateur vids of late teens on hard drugs fucking each other to death and aspire to that instead.

p.s. A lot of the time the only thing standing in your way of getting a woman to do some crazy shit is simply your willingness to physically manipulate her body into the desired position or tell her with command voice precisely what you require her to do.

I've found that during sex women are far more compliant than they would otherwise be. That bitch that gets uppity when you tell her to make you a sandwich will melt to your touch when you're fucking her doggy style and you pull her arms out from underneath her and push her torso down flat against the bed.

Post: #23

A girl I fucked 2 weeks ago did it exactly like a pornstar. Amazing deep throat, crazy loud moaning, I spanked her raw you could see my handprint, choked her and pulled her hair HARD like hard enough to really hurt, all the while she was calling daddy. I asked what her favourite fantasy was and she said getting a facial, so I gave her one. I asked if she'd ever done anal since I haven't and she said she would have been down to but didn't have time to prepare.

Personally it was all too much for me. Maybe because I don't watch porn. I like rough sex same as everyone else but past a certain point it just didn't feel right anymore. I know a lot of guys say they want a girl who fucks like a pornstar. Seems like this girl has been watching porn and actually trying? Or maybe she's just that much of a skank. She seems like one of those corn fed country girls who spent all of high school riding dick because there was nothing else to do. And now she's moved to the big city.... Hit her up again just to smash and she got pissy because I just wanted to chill instead of taking her out on a real date. So she flaked, as if she didn't realize what this was... Strangely enough, I didn't feel like I was missing out on anything.

Post: #24

^Method acting is fun. Just make her every annoying bitch that ever pissed you off with their basic bitch bullshit, and then go to town.

Sounds like that's what she wants anyway.

I get what you mean though. There's a point where you sort of stop and look around for the camera. When you realise there's literally nothing that this bitch wont do then you're like the guy that's circumnavigated the globe and realised there's nowhere else to go.

Post: #25

Piling on here: Porn is just a XXX way of method acting and as fake. If you met a woman who fucked like pornstars then presume she is acting.