Post: #1

Let me preface this by saying that my internal game is horrible currently and I have horrible logistics.

Anyway, I know that reading through the different threads this must've come up before, but the question just struck me because I'm in the clinic and I saw this fine ass girl. Then I started thinking of those of you in Brazil, Colombia, Moscow, Tokyo, etc. How do you keep from staring? (I'm curious if there are any varying answers.).

Post: #2

I don't. I'm still kicking myself about 12 hours later for not approaching a girl I was staring at on the subway today.

Post: #3

Staring? You mean rubbernecking.

Post: #4

Last time I checked you were in control of where your eyes look....

I always just think - there is much higher quality, variety, detail, zoomed in and not socially awkward opportunity to look at women on the net.

Real life is for approaches, conversation and courage to ask them out if the IOI you.

Post: #5

Stare at her. Hold your gaze unapologetically. You're a man with desires.

If she locks eyes with you make sure she looks away first. Then say something to her. Normalize this. It's okay to look at and admire a beautiful woman.

Post: #6

Wear sunglasses

Post: #7

staring is okay. murder is not.

Post: #8

I can only think of a few situations where staring might hurt your game. Stare away

Post: #9

You said yourself, your inner game needs work. That explains why you're not comfortable looking at a woman.
Staring is not the problem. Work on your inner game and how you feel about looking at women will fall in line.

Post: #10

swell, made my day.

Post: #11

Stare at that shit. And make sure she notices you staring. When she smiles go get her.

Post: #12

Another fine art is how to stare when you are already with a girl. Sneak some glances, or just let that first girl see you do it...
Recently I got caught and the girl I'm with says sarcastically, why don't you get her number? Maybe I should have.

Post: #13

(01-24-2017 08:02 AM)Jason55 Wrote:  Another fine art is how to stare when you are already with a girl. Sneak some glances, or just let that first girl see you do it...
Recently I got caught and the girl I'm with says sarcastically, why don't you get her number? Maybe I should have.

When that happens say, "I was looking at her,but I was thinking of you."

Post: #14

the difference when staring between creepy and flirting is whether you want her to know you are looking at her. Look at her and think to yourself, I want her to know that I am looking at her. That communicates dominance which is attractive to women. If you add a friendly smile its less dominant. If you add a smirk, evil smile, or tilt your forehead downward, it makes it more dominant.