Post: #1

I met cute girl at yoga classes which occurs two times a week. She send me some IOIs (proximity, showing off her body). I spoke with her once -- it was fine. I am thinking how many times should I chat her during classes before asking her out. I am afraid if I ask to fast there is not enough attraction so she says yes. If I wait to long attraction can fade away.

Post: #2

1. Talk to her more.
2. Try to find out what type of a girl she is, what she responds to.
3. Suggest what you both can do together, where to go out, etc.
4. Watch her reactions to your suggestions. If she's OK with it set it up and take her number then. If she's not feeling it forget it.
5. Meet up when she's free. No duties or worries next day.
6. OK now you have her one on one, eager and available. Go for it tiger.

This is basic standard outline. Don't worry, unless you're boring time is on your side.

Post: #3

(02-15-2017 05:56 PM)XXL Wrote:  1. Talk to her more.
2. Try to find out what type of a girl she is, what she responds to.
3. Suggest what you both can do together, where to go out, etc.
4. Watch her reactions to your suggestions. If she's OK with it set it up and take her number then. If she's not feeling it forget it.
5. Meet up when she's free. No duties or worries next day.
6. OK now you have her one on one, eager and available. Go for it tiger.

This is basic standard outline. Don't worry, unless you're boring time is on your side.

Only things I am afraid of are:
1. that time is not on my side because in mean time she can spin her own plates and find some LTR material.
2. I am not sure when is right moment. I do not want to ask to fast (e.g. next classes. If it is to fast) or wait to long (how long is to long?)

Post: #4

Sniff sniff, is that oneitis? Of course she is spinning her own plates, she's a yogi qt. Nothing you can do about that but to get more leads and start working on them.
There's no right moment. I have banged a girl after a year of knowing her through social circle, I have banged a girl just after being introduced to me. What was the thing that was present in both these cases? Boldness. Just do what XXL said, talk to herand ask her out.

Post: #5

Your inner tension can only increase while you procrastinate. Meanwhile she will be able to 'see through you' via your vibe. What type of green light are you looking for.

Post: #6

You literally just ignored XXL's suggestions and repeated the same question.

Just talk to the damn girl next time you see her. She'll probably reject you but that's fine. Approach another girl, then the next.

Don't get caught up on one girl.

Post: #7

Yoga girl = probably into healthy shit.

Talk about a local place that has healthy shit that you can walk over to after class and invite her to join you for some healthy smoothie or acai bowl or some bullshit. Bring the topic up first casually see how she responds.

This isn't rocket science. Instadate is easiest way to get her out of the class environment and flirt with her.

You can do a slow burn too, but biggest thing is you gotta be fun/flirty without being dependent on her being your only option/interest.

Post: #8

Reread XXL's post and get out of your own head.

Worrying about how many other dudes she may be talking to or whether or not she is going to be snatched up soon is terrible scarcity mindset. There are 3.5 billion women on this planet. Chill.

Post: #9

You have no control of her and who she hangs out with. Why worry about that. Girls have their own issues as well. It's not that easy for a girl to make a guy commit.

Don't try to decide beforehand when is the right moment. You can't know that. Timing is very relative thing. So think on your feet and be responsive in the moment. When you find some commonalities (real or fake, no judging) come up with to something to do together related to that. That's a good moment. If she likes it ask her out. Or if she suggests something, go for it.

Post: #10

(02-15-2017 05:56 PM)XXL Wrote:  1. Talk to her more.
2. Try to find out what type of a girl she is, what she responds to.
3. Suggest what you both can do together, where to go out, etc.
4. Watch her reactions to your suggestions. If she's OK with it set it up and take her number then. If she's not feeling it forget it.
5. Meet up when she's free. No duties or worries next day.
6. OK now you have her one on one, eager and available. Go for it tiger.

This is basic standard outline. Don't worry, unless you're boring time is on your side.

You consistently put out top notch advice. Thank you good sir.

One of the things I've realized that I've been screwing up on most of my life is when it comes to gaming chicks, more effort does not equal better outcomes.

I just realized this earlier. For most things in life, you're taught that if you go super hard, give it your all, the results will come. And with game, I think this is true to a degree but after a very sensitive threshold, anything more effort, or trying to control an outcome just reeks of desperation and neediness.

Like point 4 says, you have to feel it out and see if she likes your offer. If she does, she will be enthusiastic. I've pushed too hard in the past. I won't be making this mistake again. First, you have to make a great product and yes, you have to dress it up, and advertise it. But if the product is truly sought after, it won't be smacking you over the head desperate info-mericial special offers hoping you buy.

Post: #11

^ Yeah the whole point of #4 is to see if a girl is open to the idea of hangout/date with you before offering her that. It's more natural this way.

You're curious about her she tells you what her interests are you tell her what's cool to you. Now it's very easy to suggest to go do something together related to that. Not asking for it directly (do you wanna...?) but playfully mentioning it as you speak, "I know this cool abc place I might take you there you will like it if you're not bullshiting me" (about something she likes related to that place).

Thats s call to action. She knows what's up.

Now if she is interested in you taking her there you play along and set it up then and there. Taking her number is only a formality now.

If she is not she will be hesitant will avoid eye contact and do something to let you know that maybe not. Congrats you nicely screened flake waiting to happen.

It's a reverse ingineering in practice. Screening for you end goal to know what strategy use to get there. Most men usually just go there blindly and just want to get to the next stage. They ask for number and try to game over phone. They push for the meet up not knowing if the girl is available and what logistics are. Etc. It's an uphill battle.

Why not apply some street smart to your game right?

Post: #12

My problem is I am new to the city and I do not know many cool places for date. Up to this point I mostly took girls to coffe shops. Main attraction was talk with me of course. I spent most time at the gym but it's not good place to take the girl there.

Do you have any suggestion for man from small town who now lives in big city?

Post: #13

(02-16-2017 08:11 AM)EmotionalGeek Wrote:  My problem is I am new to the city and I do not know many cool places for date. Up to this point I mostly took girls to coffe shops. Main attraction was talk with me of course. I spent most time at the gym but it's not good place to take the girl there.

Do you have any suggestion for man from small town who now lives in big city?

You are a little needy there, EG, you might want to check that.

New to the area? Two Options:

1. Explore the area. This will give you opportunities to meet OTHER girls.
2. Turn it to a connection point. "Hey cute girl, I'm new to the area and don't know any cool healthy places to eat yet. Any suggestions?"

Post: #14

What Baphomet said.

Explore the city and talk to girls as go about your day.
Play I'm new here card for now
Research cool stuff going on in your city online
Network as much as you can with people working in services.

Put in some work and soon you will feel at home

Post: #15

Is this social circle game or something different? Social circle game means you're a Hunter. Capital H. Like a Puma.

You wait in the tall grass for an opportunity to make your move.

If your instincts say to wait, you wait. If they say to pounce, you pounce.

Meanwhile, as you wait for a shot, become friends and introduce her to your friends. Meet her friends too. That's how the slow burn social circle business operates.