Post: #1

Been spoofing on Tinder getting more familiar with the landscape since apparently Brazilian women don't react well to direct game. No problem getting matches, but I found going direct is largely a suicide mission. What do you think about this approach? any suggestions to enhance?

Sao Paulo

1.) Open with compliment; flatter her. Ask her how she is. State I am from USA
2.) Tell her I am in Brazil and want to get to know her more and explore the city.
3.) Get her whatsapp to continue conversation.

On whatsapp:


Once I have her whatsapp, I can begin to escalate.

1.) Find out her logistics. “What part of Sao Paulo are you from?”
2.) Tell her where I am. Send her a photo of my apartment with view of Brazil
3.) Say lets go for a walk around the city/ get a drink, and we can return to my apartment to continue the date.

She agrees it sounds like a good idea.

Rio

4.) Open with compliment; flatter her. Ask her how she is. State I am from USA
5.) Tell her I am in Brazil and want to get to know her more and explore the city.
6.) Get her whatsapp to continue conversation.

On whatsapp:

Once I have her whatsapp, I can begin to escalate.

4.) Find out her logistics. “What part of Rio are you from?”
5.) Tell her where I am. Send her a photo of my apartment beautiful decor
6.) Say let’s go for a walk by the and we can return to my apartment to continue the date with a drink.

She agrees it sounds like a good idea.

For those that have been to Brazil, what strategy did you find worked best for you? Of course, still need to be on point in person, but this helps to set the frame

Post: #2

(02-20-2017 03:40 PM)NextStop100 Wrote:  Brazilian women don't react well to direct game.

That's just not true. Have you been to Brazil? You're about to step into one of the most direct cultures in South America and maybe even the world.

You'll see when you get there.

If you show up with inderct game in Brazil, you're going to get left behind real fast.

You may be under the assumption that direct game doesn't work due to Tinder, but the reality is a man swiping right in Rio and SP can get a few thousand matches very easily in the first few hours, and the women do the exact same, -- words are meangless there on tinder and BC. But make no mistake, reality there is very different there than Tinder. You do not need any games or what you guys call "frame", If you want to fuck, all you have to do is tell her. It'll happen if she likes you. Don't play the, "Aloof, I don't care if I fuck you or not" act. Those women do not like that. They've spent their whole life around a culture of men who told them exactly what they want.

You'll understand when you get there. But man-up real fast or you wont be getting laid by anything worth fucking.

Post: #3

@Linux - great advice. I will be making a Brazil trip sometime soon. I was talking to one of my colleagues who's been there as well, and what he said agrees very much with what you've posted.

Can't wait to find out for myself. The thought that there might be a culture where you don't have to pussyfoot around what you really want is exciting. Sounds like a no-bullshit scene to me, lol.

Post: #4

So you're saying women online in Brazil are more put off by direct game, but are more responsive to it in person?

Post: #5

I cosign what Linux wrote. Be direct in your intention and escalate quickly. Brazilian men are some of the most aggressive and direct men in the world.

You are overthinking it.

Post: #6

How about getting your feet on the ground to start with....

Post: #7

I don't see a problem with what @NextStop100 is doing though. If Brazil really is as you all say, best idea probably is to line up meet ups with women of his choice from Tinder (using the above) and at least he knows it's a guarantee when he meets them face to face. Saves time and effort later.

Post: #8

If you are located in Copacabana or Ipanema is easy, because you can move from the bar - beach - apt. Any excuse is good. Let's play volleyball, walk, whatever.

I used the same aproach in Rio.

Post: #9

I think Rio will be much easier than São Paulo. Not too worried about that. São Paulo is where I think the bigger challenges will be.

Post: #10

I personally did not use any online game in Brazil, so I can't really give an advice on that. However, from a game perspective I believe the approach you are using should be somewhat combined with an emotional spike. No matter what your choice is; direct or indirect. You want to spice the conversation with some teases and emotions. The sprinkle of emotion is what creates the tension and what differentiates you from the million guys who want to fuck her. It took me some time to understand this.

Another thing that is a little bit unclear is whether or not your plan is to tell the girl that you will be coming back at the apartment in whatsapp before actually meeting her. If that's what you are planning to do, then I would strongly advise against it.

Apart from these two things, I see nothing wrong with the approach you are using.

To finish, I'd recommend hitting chicks en vivo as they can be really receptive to game and are really fun to be around. Disclaimer: I am biased towards Brazilian women as they have been really good to me and I love the overall culture.

Boa sorte!!

Post: #11

a little update on this:

A few of the Brazilian women that were upset I was instantly direct are now talking sexual and sending nude photos after talking more and getting to know each other.

For a second I was starting to think Brazilian women were prudes - this is not the case. I believe they simply don't like the assumption that they are sluts and whores, so plan your approaches accordingly.

Post: #12

You will have to power through a lot of LMR if you are trying to get a bang on the first meeting. They are very aware of the "sexual tourism" industry and don't want to be seen as sluts. Generally I have had a 100% sex rate on the 2nd meeting with Brazilian girls.

I'm currently in Rio for a couple of weeks until the 24th. Send me a message if you want to run some game. Currently having a blast here, after spending time in Vitoria and BH.

Post: #13

(03-11-2017 11:13 PM)NextStop100 Wrote:  a little update on this:

A few of the Brazilian women that were upset I was instantly direct are now talking sexual and sending nude photos after talking more and getting to know each other.

For a second I was starting to think Brazilian women were prudes - this is not the case. I believe they simply don't like the assumption that they are sluts and whores, so plan your approaches accordingly.

Being Direct with Brazilian girls is the way to go. I assume you meant being direct verbally with them. Direct, I mean being physical. You should be kissing them quickly, although this will not always lead to sex the first time you meet them.

Post: #14

(02-21-2017 11:00 AM)Dantes Wrote:  I cosign what Linux wrote. Be direct in your intention and escalate quickly. Brazilian men are some of the most aggressive and direct men in the world.

You are overthinking it.

@ Dantes, not fully related to this Post but great job with http://www.themasculinetraveler.com site and Brazil datasheet there!
The posts section doesn't work on that site as it seems the value check fails on most browsers.

Post: #15

less talking, more agressive caveman type

Post: #16

(03-12-2017 02:55 PM)TripleG Wrote:  

(02-21-2017 11:00 AM)Dantes Wrote:  I cosign what Linux wrote. Be direct in your intention and escalate quickly. Brazilian men are some of the most aggressive and direct men in the world.

You are overthinking it.

@ Dantes, not fully related to this Post but great job with http://www.themasculinetraveler.com site and Brazil datasheet there!
The posts section doesn't work on that site as it seems the value check fails on most browsers.

Triple G,

Thanks for the alert. You should be able to comment now.

Post: #17

(03-12-2017 06:55 PM)Stakes Is High Wrote:  less talking, more agressive caveman type

Agreed but since I don't speak any Portuguese, that could be the barrier.

More physical, less verbal game