Post: #1

Something interesting I've been thinking about cold approaching lately about how far to push:

I've recently been cold approaching a lot on trains and been getting girls good initial reactions (think smiling/happy faces) responses then eventually asking me personal questions in the interactions BUT bailing shortly after:


- As an example today a girl asked me what I studied and how old I was while jiggling her leg towards me and smiling etc. When we both got off the train (we were going the same way) she immediately sped off increasing her walking speed to the extent that I'd literally have to chase after her while saying over her shoulder that it was nice talking and she'd she me around.


My question is, in the event of 'disinterest'/lack of 'interest' (by her walking off quickly/putting earphones back in the ear etc.) should I have called after her to hang out since she asked personal questions (ie better than nothing) rather than just letting her go? I'm just confused as to why she'd ask personal questions if you're not interested...

Similarly I've had situations where she gave me great IOIs and asking me personal questions but when I message her to hang out she doesn't reply. Thanks!

Post: #2

I wouldn't call after her if shes walking away, but did you try to get her number or push for the insta date before she left?

Sometimes their just making conversation/being friendly. Don't expect her to just hang with you for a bit just because you made small talk. Your job as the man is to escalate things. As far as girls not responding, thats just part of the game, all you can do is try to connect better with her initially.

Post: #3

(03-23-2017 05:07 PM)Repo Wrote:  I wouldn't call after her if shes walking away, but did you try to get her number or push for the insta date before she left?

Sometimes their just making conversation/being friendly. Don't expect her to just hang with you for a bit just because you made small talk. Your job as the man is to escalate things. As far as girls not responding, thats just part of the game, all you can do is try to connect better with her initially.

In the public transport example I wanted to wait till we got out the train make a bit more convo so she was more comfortable with me and less likely to flake then go for it but maybe I should have gone for the number to avoid this happening again.