Gilly
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Can't decide what to do with my life
These last few months I've been feeling paralyzed, unable to decide what to do with my life. I've been fortunate to have started a business when I was 18 which currently provides me with over $250k a year in passive income, however it's uncertain how long this will last. I've been diligently saving since I started and currently have close to a million. Not enough to retire on comfortably at age 24 but a good cushion nonetheless.
Due to this situation I've become lazy, unmotivated, and overly "comfortable". I feel as though I'm wasting time day by day not being productive or working towards something. I sleep in as long as I want, do whatever I want all day everyday with seemingly no responsibility. I have spent the last year or so being very unproductive and feeling without purpose.
I continue to lightly manage my business (maybe an average of 3-4 hours a month maximum) however it runs successfully without me for the most part. I have no intention to try to grow my business further, expand, etc as I simply don't like the niche for various reasons. In fact - I've found I have pretty much maximized the amount I can make off of it and would really like to diversify my income and efforts AWAY from my current business. So for this reason I would appreciate if the comments disregard that possibility.
There are three things I'm considering doing to break me out of this state:
1) Complete my degree - I dropped out of university after roughly 2 years to focus on my business which proved to be successful. However now that it's at a point where I'm not needed in the day-to-day tasks it may be a good idea to finish my degree while I'm still at a reasonable age and while it's still producing income. The degree is in business administration and if I went with this option I'd most likely major in accounting.
2) Start a new business - I've put a lot of thought and research into opening a pool hall / bar. I've become very passionate towards the game in the last year and a half. There isn't a pool hall in my city and I've talked to several experts in the billiards community who have given me a lot of advice. My first business was built on my passion towards the niche it's in which is why I came up with this idea after being into pool for awhile now.
3) Learn to day trade - Since I have enough money and time I could buy a course, read books, etc to learn how to day trade potentially on the side of whatever else it is I do. This is ideal because it's online, location independent, and could potentially take up less time. I'm also very interested in this however I understand the risks which is why it would most likely be on the side of whatever else it is I do.
So if anyone here would like to share their opinions on this it would be very appreciated.
Thanks a lot,
Gilly
(This post was last modified: 07-06-2017 02:10 PM by Gilly.)
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miggyme1
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RE: Can't decide what to do with my life
(07-06-2017 01:50 PM)Gilly Wrote: These last few months I've been feeling paralyzed, unable to decide what to do with my life. I've been fortunate to have started a business when I was 18 which currently provides me with over $250k a year in passive income, however it's uncertain how long this will last. I've been diligently saving since I started and currently have close to a million. Not enough to retire on comfortably at age 24 but a good cushion nonetheless.
Due to this situation I've become lazy, unmotivated, and overly "comfortable". I feel as though I'm wasting time day by day not being productive or working towards something. I sleep in as long as I want, do whatever I want all day everyday with seemingly no responsibility. I have spent the last year or so being very unproductive and feeling without purpose.
I continue to lightly manage my business (maybe an average of 3-4 hours a month maximum) however it runs successfully without me for the most part. I have no intention to try to grow my business further, expand, etc as I simply don't like the niche for various reasons. In fact - I've found I have pretty much maximized the amount I can make off of it and would really like to diversify my income and efforts AWAY from my current business. So for this reason I would appreciate if the comments disregard that possibility.
There are three things I'm considering doing to break me out of this state:
1) Complete my degree - I dropped out of university after roughly 2 years to focus on my business which proved to be successful. However now that it's at a point where I'm not needed in the day-to-day tasks it may be a good idea to finish my degree while I'm still at a reasonable age and while it's still producing income. The degree is in business administration and if I went with this option I'd most likely major in accounting.
2) Start a new business - I've put a lot of thought and research into opening a pool hall / bar. I've become very passionate towards the game in the last year and a half. There isn't a pool hall in my city and I've talked to several experts in the billiards community who have given me a lot of advice. My first business was built on my passion towards the niche it's in which is why I came up with this idea after being into pool for awhile now.
3) Learn to day trade - Since I have enough money and time I could buy a course, read books, etc to learn how to day trade potentially on the side of whatever else it is I do. This is ideal because it's online, location independent, and could potentially take up less time. I'm also very interested in this however I understand the risks which is why it would most likely be on the side of whatever else it is I do.
So if anyone here would like to share their opinions on this it would be very appreciated.
Thanks a lot,
Gilly
if u dont mind me asking, what is your business?
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philosophical_recovery
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RE: Can't decide what to do with my life
1 - congratulations! I hope to be there sooner rather than later myself
2 - have you secured a home so that you can afford to invest money on another business, fail, and still have a place to live?
3 - You've got to find out what motivates you. If I were in your shoes, I think I'd do the following. I'm not saying you should do this, but just use it as an example:
*Travel to another country long enough to be fluent in one of my secondary languages
*Get tutoring in a creative field that I enjoy, enough to build another business or to study under masters in that area
*Participate in a competitive sport, like boxing or bjj, on a regular schedule with solid training from a dedicated trainer
*Seek out like minded individuals and build something cool
*Get other income streams going, that are diverse enough that a single failure can't ruin me
*Avoid bad habits like drugs and alcohol
I already partially do this, but I'm not free enough to disappear for months on end. I could do that, dip into savings and risk my job, but I don't have that passive ability.
Try something that challenges you, that you know you're bad at, and struggle some. No matter how good other parts of our lives are, we get complacent when not challenged.
It sounds like you're letting your success handicap you from going further. This is normal. Recognize it, and keep pushing to continue improvement
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Gilly
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RE: Can't decide what to do with my life
(07-06-2017 02:29 PM)philosophical_recovery Wrote: 1 - congratulations! I hope to be there sooner rather than later myself
2 - have you secured a home so that you can afford to invest money on another business, fail, and still have a place to live?
3 - You've got to find out what motivates you. If I were in your shoes, I think I'd do the following. I'm not saying you should do this, but just use it as an example:
*Travel to another country long enough to be fluent in one of my secondary languages
*Get tutoring in a creative field that I enjoy, enough to build another business or to study under masters in that area
*Participate in a competitive sport, like boxing or bjj, on a regular schedule with solid training from a dedicated trainer
*Seek out like minded individuals and build something cool
*Get other income streams going, that are diverse enough that a single failure can't ruin me
*Avoid bad habits like drugs and alcohol
I already partially do this, but I'm not free enough to disappear for months on end. I could do that, dip into savings and risk my job, but I don't have that passive ability.
Try something that challenges you, that you know you're bad at, and struggle some. No matter how good other parts of our lives are, we get complacent when not challenged.
It sounds like you're letting your success handicap you from going further. This is normal. Recognize it, and keep pushing to continue improvement
Yes I have a home I purchased last year where I currently live. Prior - I did spend 2 years in South America and can speak Spanish quite well. I used to be very active in the gym but haven't consistently gone for a few years and it's something I'd like to pick up again soon. Although I play pool competitively now but it's not an active sport.
That's a good point made about my success handicapping me. I don't feel that "necessity" to act because my business is still profitable and supporting me. But at the same time now is the best time while I still have income coming in to start something new. I just can't decide what's best for me or worth committing to.
Thanks a lot for your reply.
@Captain GH
Thanks a lot man - I agree it's a good spot and it's been a huge accomplishment, but at 24 it's making me look at my future with less direction. I'm getting bored just doing nothing and living so passively. Kind of a blessing and a curse. I do like the idea a lot and I see the path to profitability but if it fails it will be more difficult to return to school at a later age than it is now.
(This post was last modified: 07-06-2017 03:03 PM by Gilly.)
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RE: Can't decide what to do with my life
You're 24 man. Go be 24 and stop carring so much about making money. It's obviously hasn't brought you any happiness.
If I was 24 and had your money, I would invite the coolest mother fuckers on this forum to Ibza, rent a yaht , a chef, a skipper hat, a go pro, a speaker system, and deck that boat with pussy, molly, and steak.
Go live and be happy. Make good friends. Make good memories. Once your youth is gone, it's not coming back. You got your whole life to work and make money to buy useless shit you didn't really need anyway.
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RE: Can't decide what to do with my life
If I had that sort of amount to play with I could buy 16 houses in my city (using mortgages) which after renovations would produce approx. £200k/year rented to students OR without mortgages, 6 houses making around £80k. The income is not completely passive and requires hard work, project management skills etc but is a really solid long term investment - you get regular income in rent and an asset that over time is almost guaranteed to increase in value. Another option would be doing something similar in a bigger city using Airbnb, I saw opportunities in Medellin for this - low property prices but good, increasing demand and rental rates, much more risk doing this in an area/country you're not familiar with though.
Here's a datasheet I did - /thread-60212.html I recently quit a very comfortable full time job to focus on this completely. After the end of this year I should complete by 4th house and will have nearly £4000k net income coming in each month. As said it's semi-passive, there are things that can go wrong or break down but the houses are completely renovated with new electrics, plumbing, appliances, everything so chances of this are low. I just got back from a 2.5 month SA trip and had no issues while away. I use an agency to deal with the tenants so the students don't have my number or any contact with me, I only speak to one person at the agency if there is an issue.
If you are not that motivated you can buy ready made or off plan property investments for reasonable returns but knowing the local property market is essential, there are lots of scams out there and it's something I've never invested or been really interested in.
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Gilly
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RE: Can't decide what to do with my life
I was working in a corner store in my small town in Canada and had played an online game for years. The coins within the game can be gambled, and when I was 17 I was lucky and turned roughly $50 worth of items to $3600~ (gambling essentially on a 50/50 coin toss). I found out I could sell the coins for real money, found a reputable buyer, and had $3600 in cash. Over the next few months I blew the money with my friends and gambling again a bit.
I then thought of the guy who bought the coins from me and realized I could make money by buying and selling them as well and just taking a smaller margin to be competitive from the beginning and build my reputation. I had $800 to my name at this time. The market was different at that time as everybody was operating through MSN and most were sole traders (like I was at the time), no websites, just buying and selling to individuals through forums and payment through PayPal. I worked extremely hard in my first year and was making good money, became one of the most reputable traders on the forum, and quit my job. I became good friends with a woman in China who worked for a company I did a lot of business with. She quit them and joined me. She worked 12 hours every night (her daytime) and I worked 12 hours each day to keep the business running.
The market was slowly shifting to traders beginning to operate through websites as opposed to MSN. After owning a couple of websites which both failed due to hacks, scams, etc, I started my successful website in 2013 which I've had until now. Throughout this time, my worker in China sourced new workers (her friends, family, etc) and eventually it operated 24/7 without me. My website also grew to prominence through SEO (a couple tricks I discovered which proved successful).
Two biggest struggles:
1) I hadn't planned for taxes as I was young, naive, received bad advice from friends/family, and didn't understand what I was doing until a year later when I was already too far in debt tax wise. I fled Canada and spent a lot of time in various countries in South America (Bolivia, Panama, Paraguay, Peru) and luckily my business was growing at this time so over a couple of years I saved enough money to come clean and file/pay the taxes I previously owed. I returned to Canada and resolved it with the help of my accountant and have been running properly ever since.
2) A few years ago when my computer/website was hacked repeatedly and in one case, infected with a java driveby exploit which ended up costing my customers to lose about $10,000 in game items which I had to refund. I barely had $10,000 at this time and if I didn't refund this I wouldn't have been able to continue with my business. I will never forget sitting in a hotel lobby at 4:00 AM while visiting my prior gf in Bolivia, calling up hosting / domain provider repeatedly trying to resolve this using my Canadian phone's roaming.
Of course there are many things I left out and I'm not sure if any of this makes sense but I hope you're somewhat satisfied.
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RE: Can't decide what to do with my life
Go back and finish college, with an emphasis on having fun rather than your academics (business degrees are not terribly demanding, anyhow). Transfer to a party school. Take three years to finish instead of two. Lift weights and do martial arts. Become friends with the coolest guys on campus. Instead of a pool hall, consider opening a college dive bar (note: do your homework on this idea, it could blow up in your face). Have fun, and as LINUX said, enjoy your youth. You're already way, way ahead of the game. Use your money to help establish yourself as a BMOC (big man on campus). There is no better bang for your buck anywhere in the world if your goal is to be surrounded by beautiful young women. A BMOC at a good party school will enjoy sexual abundance and female enthusiasm that usually requires A-list celebrity status.
Spend a few hours a week thinking about and working on new business ideas/websites. You made a million bucks online once. Maybe you got lucky, but maybe you're just that good. But frankly you'd be foolish to completely walk away from the online business game just because you're bored of your current site. Find a new business idea that you can scale up like your last one, and work on it in your spare time. Keep an eye open for other opportunities, but milk your current website for as long as you can, stacking up that cash.
But really, just try to have some fun. You're fortunate enough to enjoy an extremely rare combination: youth, wealth and free time. Don't be stupid about it, but have fun. If you don't, I can guarantee you that you will have massive regrets ten or twenty years from now. You don't want to look back at yourself at 24 with a million dollars in the bank and $250k in passive income and wonder why you didn't take full advantage of it.
"For I reckon that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us.” - Romans 8:18
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RE: Can't decide what to do with my life
(07-06-2017 01:50 PM)Gilly Wrote: Due to this situation I've become lazy, unmotivated, and overly "comfortable". I feel as though I'm wasting time day by day not being productive or working towards something. I sleep in as long as I want, do whatever I want all day everyday with seemingly no responsibility. I have spent the last year or so being very unproductive and feeling without purpose.
Thanks a lot,
Gilly
Hi Gilly, its important to of course keep saving and investing every year but other than that I would say do not become overly obsessed with money (because you are already doing well in this area). Instead focus on improving yourself.
You also mentioned that you can speak decent Spanish, the best time to learn languages is while you are still young. Why not live in another country for a few years (to immerse yourself) and learn Russian or French or Arabic? Having 2 important languages under your belt is good. Having 3 or 4 important languages under your belt is even better! Not too mention all the hot foreign girls you would get access to while studying said languages in other countries.
While you are doing that overseas, maybe read up (and take some cooking lessons) to improve your diet and cooking skills. Join a martial arts dojo and train a few times a week. Travel around different places (short trips) while you live overseas studying a language. Maybe take up one or two other new sports/hobbies. Get into a mini relationship with a quality foreign girl.
If you live overseas to study a language full time while doing all of the above you will most likely be busy and feel productive, while adding to your own long term value (becoming a guy that can speak multiple languages, is fit and can defend himself in a fight, can cook really well, etc).
For somebody in your situation you will get a lot more benefit out of learning new languages than you will from getting a degree. You really do not need the degree. Besides you probably know a lot more about how to run a business than a lot of the academics that are teaching/lecturing in these business administration courses anyway LOL.
Remember only boring people become bored, so do not be a boring person!
p.s. you are doing really well in life, I wish I was doing that well.
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