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Getting this a lot after setting up a potential date, usually from older 30 plus women.
Any insight?

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Post: #3

Good chance she means "I expect you to buy me dinner"

Post: #4

(08-06-2017 04:26 PM)Jetset Wrote:  Good chance she means "I expect you to buy me dinner"

yeah was expecting this.

Post: #5

Could very well mean that they used to drink a lot in their 20s and are now not able to handle the sauce so well. Is there any more context you can give?

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(08-06-2017 04:52 PM)Tytalus Wrote:  Could very well mean that they used to drink a lot in their 20s and are now not able to handle the sauce so well. Is there any more context you can give?

After few texts replies she demands to meet at her bar and order food.

Delete her number

Post: #7

Thats the right call. If a girl truely doesn't drink, and I've experienced this before where they were actually serious, don't take them to either a bar or restaurant for a date. Do something fun instead. If they insist, their lying.

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One reason I dislike meeting Asian chicks is because a lot don't drink because they flush.....but they're happy if you're feeding unhealthy ass food.

Post: #9

"I'm not excited by the idea of you fucking me"

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(08-06-2017 09:52 PM)TrifeLife Wrote:  "I'm not excited by the idea of you fucking me"

lol some chude will be

Post: #11

It doesn't matter what it could possibly mean.

I've scored make-outs after coffee dates in USA. You should assume she's down to fuck if she's meeting up with you.

Since coming to Asia, most of my dates are alcohol-free, but they still come to my apartment after the fact.

Game accordingly.

Truth be told, I love sober dates for a number of reasons:

1. my morning ritual stays intact
2. lighter on the wallet.
3. you get to see what the girl is like without the social lubrication of alcohol.
4. harder for them to claim date rape if they came to your spot sober.

Post: #12

(08-07-2017 04:23 AM)Fortis Wrote:  It doesn't matter what it could possibly mean.

I've scored make-outs after coffee dates in USA. You should assume she's down to fuck if she's meeting up with you.

Since coming to Asia, most of my dates are alcohol-free, but they still come to my apartment after the fact.

Game accordingly.

Truth be told, I love sober dates for a number of reasons:

1. my morning ritual stays intact
2. lighter on the wallet.
3. you get to see what the girl is like without the social lubrication of alcohol.
4. harder for them to claim date rape if they came to your spot sober.

you never dated russian women

Post: #13

Plenty of women just don't drink that much.

A lot of other women would like to drink less. And quite likely every woman who is a total drunk, aside from the extremely trashy or young and naive ones, would rather you thought they drank less.

Most women are at least somewhat intimidated by the idea of losing their inhibitions around a guy they don't feel safe with yet.

In other words, it's really hard to know the answer. You'll have to get to know her more and find out which is true in this case for yourself.

Beyond All Seas

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling

Post: #14

It means she is ready to have sex with you without numbing her consciousness. Good!

Post: #15

"I dont really drink" = "I dont want to drink with you", maybe with "...yet"

If she really want you she would do this, and more. "you're too far away" turns into "i'll be there in 30 mins", "i hate sushi" turns into "i love raw fish", "i hate anal" turns into "fuck my ass"

she does not want you, at least now. maybe you can build up to that, get closer

Post: #16

"Come out and have a coffee then"

Game on.

Post: #17

Coffee or a walk in the park is way cheaper than beer and mixed drinks at a bar. Game on.

EDIT: Have her come over and cook a fun dinner together with you.

Post: #18

The key is the "really." I've gone out with girls who don't drink at all. They don't use "really." They say "I don't drink." These girls have abstained from alcohol their entire lives, usually for health reasons or strict parental control. Another is "I've stopped drinking." This means she's a recovering addict/total slut.

If a girl said, "I don't really drink," I'd know she's lying, especially if she's washed-up and over 30. That response means she's not interested in your offer, but would gladly down an entire bottle of distilled liquor in the company of another man.

Because I've gone out with girls who really don't drink, but wanted to hang out anyway. They'll take three sips the entire night and laugh that they "don't really drink." But they won't fuss about it beforehand. Then I'll tease her about being a "total lightweight" (to use President Trump's memorable phrase).

Post: #19

i should of saved the texts convo

Post: #20

If a girl ever suggests or insinuates dinner, I'll send her this text:

"Eating out isn't really my thing. But down to meet up for a drink if you're still up for it."

Post: #21

Yeah, the 'really' is the giant weasel-word here. Plenty of girls don't drink.

These girls will say, "Oh, I can't drink much I'll just have one," and then you get themout and if they like you they have 2-3 drinks easy.

Post: #22

To be fair, it's not uncommon for fitness chicks to drink on very rare occasions. And a random date with a random dude isn't one of those occasions.

I've encountered this in CZ relatively often, they may drink a glass just once or twice per year (Christmas etc) because "calories".

I find it a bit extreme but I respect their commitment.



Still, apart from fitness nuts and Asian girls, 99% of girls who say that are lying. you may still bang them, but why bother?




EDIT: man.. I love czech girls, but I do miss those crazy asian girls. They are so fun just after one cocktail.

Post: #23

(08-11-2017 10:37 AM)Stallion Wrote:  Still, apart from fitness nuts and Asian girls, 99% of girls who say that are lying. you may still bang them, but why bother?

Why not? If you cannot pull a girl without alcohol then you're missing out on bangs. I imagine most day game SDL (same day lays) are without alcohol.

What's wrong with girls who don't wanna drink with you but are willing to get coffee or food with you and then bang?

Post: #24

I don't drink so I love linking up with women who don't drink as well.
I used to think it was necessary to get a few drinks in a chic to smash until I had a woman tell me, "C'mon, I know your game is better than that."
Personally, gaming and smashing sober is a whole other league. Big boy shit.

I know alcohol gives folks plausible deniability but honestly, it made me give my dyck away for free to bishes who didn't deserve it. Then I'd have way more work on my hands trying to shake those bishes.

Post: #25

(08-11-2017 11:37 AM)Fortis Wrote:  

(08-11-2017 10:37 AM)Stallion Wrote:  Still, apart from fitness nuts and Asian girls, 99% of girls who say that are lying. you may still bang them, but why bother?

Why not? If you cannot pull a girl without alcohol then you're missing out on bangs. I imagine most day game SDL (same day lays) are without alcohol.

What's wrong with girls who don't wanna drink with you but are willing to get coffee or food with you and then bang?

In Asia at least, I find alcohol gives them a way to save face "plausible deniability"