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Matched a girl online and set up a date, but found out she has a BF
I matched a girl several months ago, both of our logistics didn't work out. Match was in February.
I message her first how she was doing this summer, we chat a little bit and decide to hang out.

On the actual couple days before we were supposed to hang out, I realized that she has a boyfriend according to her FB. This shit is in public. They became FB official in late April.
I just ignore and try to go for the meetup anyways, she postponed to the week after, which I thought is typical, but kinda weird because she was STILL on Tinder meanwhile having a boyfriend. I mean girls can cheat, I just wanted to fuck obviously.

I posted a pic with one of my fuckbuddies on FB of us having a good time, she posted a week later on her FB how she is in love with the BF. Didn't know she would get jealous, wasn't my intention.
Then again, she agrees to meet up, but never does, she says that she is tired and gives me some weird excuse, blah blah blah, then I cut her off, but she said that I am probably not into her as much as my fuckbuddy and complains...I told her I barely know her and never met her in real life, if I get to know her more, then we can be closer.

The BF of this tinder girl posts on FB as a public how he thinks that this girl is angel, caring, loving, blah blah blah...They are doing long-distance.

What should I do? I don't need this girl, I am fucking other girls and went on couple date recently, but I am just worried as a fellow Asian bro that this guy might not believe what I will tell him.
Do I call this out the guy seems super oblivious and too naive. He is a typical Asian watching anime or someshit. The girl is white with tattoos, highlighted pink hair and nose piercing. ( yeap. all red flags)
My friends told me not to bother, it's not my business, but I just have a soft-side for blue pilled guys.

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RE: Matched a girl online and set up a date, but found out she has a BF
(09-01-2017 01:44 PM)bgbusiness Wrote:  What should I do?

E. None of the above. Move on. Plenty of other women out there.
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(09-01-2017 01:48 PM)Baphomet Wrote:  
(09-01-2017 01:44 PM)bgbusiness Wrote:  What should I do?

E. None of the above. Move on. Plenty of other women out there.

I did, I am trying to help this poor guy out.
His FB post leaks desperation and one-itis.

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09-01-2017 01:51 PM
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(09-01-2017 01:51 PM)bgbusiness Wrote:  
(09-01-2017 01:48 PM)Baphomet Wrote:  
(09-01-2017 01:44 PM)bgbusiness Wrote:  What should I do?

E. None of the above. Move on. Plenty of other women out there.

I did, I am trying to help this poor guy out.
His FB post leaks desperation and one-itis.

So you're the Gamma White Knighter or something?

His life. His business. His problem.

Manage your own life.
09-01-2017 01:54 PM
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RE: Matched a girl online and set up a date, but found out she has a BF
This isn't your problem. I'd ditch her because she is only looking for attention. If you have tried multiple times and she keeps blowing you off, she only sees you as an emotional tampon or a guy that can stroke her ego.

From what you have described as her being tattooed with pink hair and a nose piercing, she sounds like a delinquent or an anime nerd's wet dream. I'd pass on a woman that looks like that.

Don't venture deeper into the rabbit hole. She is wasting your time.

Edit: Just saw the responses. You don't need to tell the guy anything. It's his problem. You're not the solution.

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RE: Matched a girl online and set up a date, but found out she has a BF
The guys above me have this right.

Do not talk to this hoe again.

Especially the dude, you don't know what he's capable of, once you find out he's got a GF.

Adding hoes to your FB is the dumbest thing you can do.

Because now you don't have plausible deniability that she has a BF, and you could've proceeded to bang her out.


OF COURSE she's making excuses dude, she wants the attention and you're just orbiting her ego.

BLOCK this bitch off FB and any social media.

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RE: Matched a girl online and set up a date, but found out she has a BF
Delete her details, block her and forget her

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