Post: #1

I have noticed an issue where I meet a girl, the interaction is great, but between the time I get her number and we set up a meet up, her buying temperature has dropped and she flakes. I realize there is something to be said for initially hooking so well that her interest does not wander in during the interval (ie. taking the attraction further, physically hooking, etc up creates cognitive dissonance and maintains attraction), but sometimes the initial interaction just isn't that long or it doesn't get physical. The ADHD kicks in and her attention wanders.

The day of meet up I have had some limited success with rescheduling slightly to avoid being stood up, but it seems to be a consistent issue.

Limiting the time between getting her number and meeting up would obviously help, but sometimes scheduling issues (either hers or mine) create a necessary 4-5 day delay.

How do you ping to maintain interest without seeming needy? I generally follow Roosh's idea that texting is more for logistics and not for building comfort or attraction, so I feel like my hands are a bit tied in these situations.

Post: #2

Something I've experienced too.

I can only say that this little trick helped myself out a little bit...
I was so against all this Snapchat bullshit at first (like most other social media stuff) but I guess you're forced to play by today's rules if you wanna get some nowadays. So adapt.

I usually send this recorded 6 sec video of me basically doing like Leo di Caprio 0-2 days before the date.



Basically I have a nice tan, all suited up and with a glass of what looks like a wine in my hand while I make a cocky ass smirk and raise my glass to the camera (guess it looks flirty, I don't fucking know). Then I'd send it (on snapchat, messegner, whatsapp or wherever the heck she chick was at).

Guess it gives off the impression that I'm a man of great style and taste or some shit because these girls pretty much always respond back with "lol" or a compliment or some shit with that video and I guess its a bit comforting for them (?), especially if it's a girl I've from online.

It keeps the interaction with the girl without boring chat and if you have one nice video like that you can use that one all the time and just copy/send instead of being too engaged in some conversation just to keep her warm.

Post: #3

Yep, snapchat. Or i just start messasing again 1-2 before. If she aint gonna be free for a couple weeks I just maintain on snap

Post: #4

The key to this game is Emotional Impression. Its why people move churches if their pastor leaves. Its why politicians and businessmen try to get endorsements deals with respected figures. They say a little wind puts out a flame but enflames a furnace. So I ask you, how are you seeking to make an emotional impact on the chick? What is Emotional Impact? It is what you say and do to make a chick WANT to please and validate herself to you. If you do this well enough, the time gap will be a friend to you. To move forward, could you post a summary of your approach? Otherwise we'd be beating blindly about the park.