Post: #1

I thought this video was interesting, wanted to share it, enjoy

This is that Todd guy that someone mentioned on the last call-in show

Post: #2

This guy's advice definitely resonates - I've observed much the same in my interactions with American vs European women.

Post: #3

It just really seems to vary per girl where I'm at.

Like he says you just need to size her up first or listen to what she's saying and calibrate accordingly.

I have heard someone else say the same thing about Swedish girls though. He told me that sit back and relax and let the girls choose type of game blew his mind.

Post: #4

I found a good way to game both American and European chicks without changing much is to just be really sarcastic about your American cockiness.

"Where you from?"
"Im from the Greatest country in whole entire world!"
...Then I just talk about when I visited their county.

The thing is Swedish girls do want guys with a lot of confidence, just not "IM THE BEST EVER" type confidence. A lot of American dudes usually do pretty well in Europe.

Post: #5

I have a dream, that one day Americans will stop to compare American girls with European ones.
Europe it's a continent, not a country.
Inside Europe there are many nations, and all them totally different from each other.
Talking about "European girls" it's without sense, Italian girls are totally different from French ones, and both are totally different from German ones.
So next time, please, say "American vs Swedish girls" or something like that.
Thanks for attention and good luck.

Post: #6

Wow looks like RSD discovered rooshvforum.com.

Post: #7

Exactly. Portuguese, Italian, Swiss totally different from German or even French, and even more from Scandinavia

(03-03-2018 01:09 PM)traveler97 Wrote:  I have a dream, that one day Americans will stop to compare American girls with European ones.
Europe it's a continent, not a country.
Inside Europe there are many nations, and all them totally different from each other.
Talking about "European girls" it's without sense, Italian girls are totally different from French ones, and both are totally different from German ones.
So next time, please, say "American vs Swedish girls" or something like that.
Thanks for attention and good luck.

Post: #8

Not many differences actually. In 10 years maximum they will be exactly the same product.

Post: #9

Being both European and Swedish myself, and having lived for a year in the US, I can say that he is superficially right in his comparison. Where he goes wrong is in thinking status isn’t as important - it is. But, we see status differently, not the same things give you status in Sweden as in the US. And the way you convey your status is different. Being low key and humble, and let your status come through between the lines is considered much more attractive than bragging about it (which is what Swedish people generally think Americans do, and bragging is in itself conveying low status in Sweden).

As others have said - there is no such thing as a European culture. You have regions/clusters of similar cultures within Europe: Scandinavia, German speaking countries, Mediterranean, Eastern Europe, Balkans... But for example Balkan and Scandinavian culture have more differences than Swedish and American.

Post: #10

I was reading this article today on peoples innate sense of a persons socioeconomic status. link below

https://www.cnbc.com/2018/03/02/study-mo...-face.html

If a woman (any country) can with 68% accuracy tell what your status is just by looking at your face. I think it gives a PUA reason to pause and re evaluate their approach.

Just like you don't shop for groceries on a empty belly....do you approach when internally your stressed out or in a bad mood (a given for failure..like stuttering shyness). Stuff going on inside shows up on your face and your general demeanor. (closed movements rather than open gestures...just as in the video guy above)

IMO a girls mind is made up about a guy in under 1 second...strong direct eye contact is another plus....before the PUA even opens his mouth.
I know girls are sharp on the facial expressions they are searching for "does this guy like me"

One example of this (for me) is I met this girl for the first time we had met online. She pulled into my drive way and from 10 feet away we looked at each other, I didn't' like her and I thought I was good enough to hide that fact (go for the fuck and dump) but she saw something. We had the date but it was stale and later she left. That evening I actually reflected on what"gave me away" did I wince did I blink to fast or not at all, I gave the fake smile and a hug. Curious stuff for me.

The challenge for me even in a Euro country is to put myself in a place where I genuinely like people not just girls but everybody, this is tough to do.
I cannot put "the game face on" be aggressive because I know it ain't me and shows up to people/girls as a bad act.

The video guy said he toned it down in Sweden and became more inclusive and non competitive and got the lays. I don't think it has anything to do with culture or socialism or politics for any woman in any country all he did was relax and enjoy himself IMO

Lastly I think I found my issue/nervus tick from the date I mentioned above. I looked away
This came to me in a bar as I was just starting my routine with a girl, she looked away. To me that's a death sentence
Looking away is basically a person trying to throw the image away of the person in front of them.
I had to watch people to figure out what to do during the start of a Pick Up (basically introductions) I look down which I call self depreciating and I look up which I call looking for a thought. This keeps me directly facing the target and in the center of my attention. I never look away until later when a connection is built.