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Performance anxiety and balancing girls
Ok I need to vent

So here's a story of two chicks and I. One girl from okcupid whom I'll call dreamgirl. The second girl was a Hooters chick. Dreamgirl I met a couple weeks before Hooters. I went on 3 dates with dreamgirl and didn't bang. Right around this time, say Christmas I met Hooters chick and banged on the second date and the shot was amazing. I put dreamgirl on the backburner and she of course is texting me a lot while I'm now preoccupying myself with Hooters. Dreamgirl states now she wants to bang but wants it to be special, cook for me and wear lingerie. At this point I'm like cool but my interest has faded due to Hooters girl. Well dreamgirl comes over tonight, cooks, we're off to my bedroom and I'm rock hard until she puts on the lingerie. At this point I'm suffering from limp dick and nothing can save me.

She leaves and now I just want to Fuck Hooters chick.

I need help... Both girls are hot but I obviously caught feelings for Hooters whom I think is hotter. Any tricks or suggestions? I'm laying here in bed feeling like a failure. I totally lost interest in dreamgirl after meeting Hooters chick.

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(This post was last modified: 01-13-2018 12:26 AM by Manystyles.)
01-13-2018 12:20 AM
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RE: Performance anxiety and balancing girls
Stop watching porn and go NoFap for 90 days.
You have a "dreamgirl" which means you spend too much time fantasizing about women. This includes making up scenarios in your head about girls you barely know. Porn plays a big role into that. No more jacking off and watching porn.

Go to the gym, lift 3x a week or more.
You need to lift and get more active. You wont have that much time to focus on one girl.
Girls like muscular guys. Makes picking girls easier.

Get your diet sorted out. No pop, junk food. Cut back on the booze.
Poor diet can play with your emotions. Why? Because 85% of the brain chemicals your brain uses are created in the gut.

Go to a doc and get your T level checked and sorted out.
Optimizing your health will always be important. Depending on your age TRT/HRT might be recommended.

Come back after tell us if you still have these types of issues.

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01-13-2018 02:01 AM
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RE: Performance anxiety and balancing girls
That “nothing can save me” thought is all in your head.

The remedy is simple - if you suffer from limp dick (when you were hard moments before) get her to help you out by sucking your dick.

It may take a while to regain your composure, but you’ll get there.
01-13-2018 05:05 AM
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RE: Performance anxiety and balancing girls
Should've added that she did suck my dick. Got hard,I told her that I was ready to Fuck her and went limp again. Oh well, I'm going to Fuck Hooters girl tomorrow. I guess I just can't Fuck two girls at once. Idk... Still will be on the prowl
01-13-2018 10:16 PM
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RE: Performance anxiety and balancing girls
Like others have said, reduce watching porn. Besides the mental issues, another technique that might help you is get your regular girl (lets say hooters chick) and bang on most awkward places, positions and environment. Start with table, then chair, kitchen top, toilet stalls and car back seat with her in missionary position. Start banging outside in harsh environments. Any place where you are mostly standing, do not have any back support and with a environment that makes you uncomfortable. If you can maintain your stamina, erection and nut in these places, then you can easily bang other chicks in the bedroom.
01-14-2018 12:00 AM
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RE: Performance anxiety and balancing girls
But I've banged her in as many positions as you say. Standing, off bed, on bed, while holding her in the air, doggy, I've titty fucked her, had her suck my dick after fucking to finish me off. As far as stamina I have fucked her for pretty long periods last week I fucked her for maybe an hour, smoked a cigarette, then asked if she was ready for round 2. ?‍♂️Thanks tho
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