Post: #1

Timing and Logistics, two critical elements of the game. I'd like to thank the forum for bringing these factors to my attention because I totally neglected them in the past. You've really helped me.

This question is about timing. I feel that my leads go stale if I don't set up a date within one weeks time. But, I don't initiate conversation over text messaging unless I have an open day to set up a date I can at least attempt to close the deal on. With my schedule and other dates I don't always have time. Occasionally I'll talk very minimally over text messaging no content of real substance if I don't have time to set up a date in hopes that it will preserve the lead a couple days longer till I can act on the opportunity.

How do you prioritize which girl gets your time? Based upon hotness? Based upon a girl's level of interest? Something else? Many of my dates turn out to be fruitless which is a big reason it's hard to decide to go out on a date with a new girl who might not do anything and not to go out with a girl who wants to spend time with me after we've already had sex and would very most likely want to do it again.

On a more personal note

Does the effort required to spin so many plates at one time ever wear on you? even though sometimes I think it's stressful trying this hard all the time and basically always denying myself release through masturbation, I'm finding I really enjoy the drama and the process of it all, the happiness, sadness, frustration and varying degrees of satisfaction, overcoming problems and obstacles. it's been about a year and two months since I broke up with my girlfriend who was kind to me because I recognized my inability to be content in my nature. I was inspired to make the decision after reading Self Reliance by Ralph Waldo Emerson. I know it's kind of ironic to ask for your outside input after mentioning that, but I experience a spectrum of emotions regarding this next question and I'd like your take on it if you've read this far. Should one be able to be actually happy in a relationship long-term?

Let me know what you think and game on, Players.

Post: #2

I usually have a "main girl" and a few girls on the side.

I've recently left an open relo because she was being kind of petty, jealous and a little irrational. A bit of a shame but you need to draw the line.

I prioritised her because she was an 8.5/10 19yo, about 100lbs with C-cups, lived close-by and we gelled well whenever we hung out. Would she have been my priority if she wasn't as hot? Probably not.

I have two other rotation girls at the moment in my city, and one down the coast about an hours drive. I see the girls in my city every 5-10 days and the one down the coast whenever she's in town (once every week or two).

Guys who claim to run a 6-12 girl rotation like some PUA coaches... I just can't get my head around it. Way too much drama for me - especially when dealing with chicks that are 18-23yo.

I don't set up dates, I'll go to their place or they'll come to mine, we'll get some ubereats and have wine... and if we're up for it get some drinks out or breakfast the next day.

Key point is don't overthink this shit.

Post: #3

As far as established plates I don't prioritize any one of them over the other, they all have a place in the rotation. If we're talking new leads I prioritize by level of interest, I'll go for the ones who try to initiate and continue conversation and show a little personality over the ones who throw out 3 word responses.

Right now I've got a rotation of 4 with 2 leads (all between 19-23yo, with one 35yo in the mix) and for me it doesn't wear too much because I establish early on with them that with my job and my kid I don't have a ton of free time. So they understand they might only see me once every couple weeks and they don't act needy or demanding of my time.