Post: #26

Okay she just responded at 12am last night to the text on Wed.

Basically we had the date planned for wed. but she said she had to reschedule because she was busy with something for her work which is true because I saw pictures on snapchat.

But I responded to her saying we could do something later that night but no reply and that was on Wed.

Today Friday at 12am in the morning she texts back saying

"LAWD"
"My life has been nuts. Just got an agent and met in XXXXX for a photoshoot yesterday! Just got off work. Sleep tight!"

Again this chick is an 8.5 and I think it'd be worth trying to see her again, but based on the last text I'm still supposed to go silent? It just isn't congruent with my shitty text style that was working before.

Post: #27

(04-26-2018 06:57 AM)Tod6264 Wrote:  Yes, I agree. I'm going back on Tinder and Bumble to date more woman.

For the future what would be best said if a girl posts a snapchat with another man. I mean she wasn't making it too obvious. She recorded the server pouring her some drink and across the table you could see a dudes hand and it is a 2 person table. So I could play it off like I didn't see it and thinking she could have been with her girlfriend.

But if that happened to you would you just send a text and straight up next the girl or what?

If I had to say something maybe it'd be like "what was that snap all about last night, if you're trying to make me jealous it isn't working. I thought you said you were looking for someone to have a good time with without all the games."

Just ignore it. She's either attention whoring or shit testing you, or both. How hard is that to understand.

Post: #28

(04-27-2018 07:06 AM)da_zeb Wrote:  

(04-26-2018 06:57 AM)Tod6264 Wrote:  Yes, I agree. I'm going back on Tinder and Bumble to date more woman.

For the future what would be best said if a girl posts a snapchat with another man. I mean she wasn't making it too obvious. She recorded the server pouring her some drink and across the table you could see a dudes hand and it is a 2 person table. So I could play it off like I didn't see it and thinking she could have been with her girlfriend.

But if that happened to you would you just send a text and straight up next the girl or what?

If I had to say something maybe it'd be like "what was that snap all about last night, if you're trying to make me jealous it isn't working. I thought you said you were looking for someone to have a good time with without all the games."

Just ignore it. She's either attention whoring or shit testing you, or both. How hard is that to understand.

You mean ignore what she texted in the comment I made above ^. Or in response to her snap?

In response to her not being able to make the date and me telling her we can do something later that night she didn’t text me until last night when I last texted her on Wed.

She said

"LAWD"
"My life has been nuts. Just got an agent and met in XXXXX for a photoshoot yesterday! Just got off work. Sleep tight!"

Post: #29

(04-27-2018 04:50 AM)Tod6264 Wrote:  Okay she just responded at 12am last night to the text on Wed.

Basically we had the date planned for wed. but she said she had to reschedule because she was busy with something for her work which is true because I saw pictures on snapchat.

But I responded to her saying we could do something later that night but no reply and that was on Wed.

Today Friday at 12am in the morning she texts back saying

"LAWD"
"My life has been nuts. Just got an agent and met in XXXXX for a photoshoot yesterday! Just got off work. Sleep tight!"

Again this chick is an 8.5 and I think it'd be worth trying to see her again, but based on the last text I'm still supposed to go silent? It just isn't congruent with my shitty text style that was working before.

Jesus. Why do you care now? Do you even have a life outside this girl? You're obsessed. Every single thing she texts, you come here wondering how you're supposed to reply even though it's very clear that she's just another hoe.

She took several hours to respond to your texts and even ignored your offers which she would not have done if she thought you were a man of very high value. Yeah, apparently she was a bit busy but if a girl cares enough about you, she will find time to send a text within an hour or two (at most) because girls check their phones constantly.

Best thing for you is to just suck it up and drop this girl now, you're too emotionally invested in this hoe and completely blinded by her pussy.

Cut her off. Either write a "I don't think we're the greatest match... lets be friends" message or go radio silence and drop her completely and move on with your life. Your future self will thank me.

Post: #30

(04-27-2018 04:50 AM)Tod6264 Wrote:  Okay she just responded at 12am last night to the text on Wed.

Basically we had the date planned for wed. but she said she had to reschedule because she was busy with something for her work which is true because I saw pictures on snapchat.

But I responded to her saying we could do something later that night but no reply and that was on Wed.

Today Friday at 12am in the morning she texts back saying

"LAWD"
"My life has been nuts. Just got an agent and met in XXXXX for a photoshoot yesterday! Just got off work. Sleep tight!"

Again this chick is an 8.5 and I think it'd be worth trying to see her again, but based on the last text I'm still supposed to go silent? It just isn't congruent with my shitty text style that was working before.

Lose the scarcity mindset. Is she the last 8.5 (arbitrary rating due to your thirst) you're ever gonna run across?
What's the worst that could happen? Ask yourself. Honestly. It's just a lost sale. And you've already fucked her. You've won.

Your entire sense of self is wrapped up in the fantasy of this chick.
You care too much what she thinks. Did she even bother to slip in how your day went? The text content is all HER. Generic hoe script.
She slips in just enough bait to keep you on the hook. Intermittent text responses mixed with silence from her side. Basic bitch play book.
You should ignore and stop responding like a well trained puppy.

Recognize what's happening and act accordingly or keep repeating the same moves while expecting a different result.

Post: #31

(04-27-2018 07:34 AM)Salvadore Wrote:  Jesus. Why do you care now? Do you even have a life outside this girl? You're obsessed. Every single thing she texts, you come here wondering how you're supposed to reply even though it's very clear that she's just another hoe.

She took several hours to respond to your texts and even ignored your offers which she would not have done if she thought you were a man of very high value. Yeah, apparently she was a bit busy but if a girl cares enough about you, she will find time to send a text within an hour or two (at most) because girls check their phones constantly.

Best thing for you is to just suck it up and drop this girl now, you're too emotionally invested in this hoe and completely blinded by her pussy.

Cut her off. Either write a "I don't think we're the greatest match... lets be friends" message or go radio silence and drop her completely and move on with your life. Your future self will thank me.

Don't do this, ever. That message closes off any potential bangs you could get down the road. Don't leave pussy on the table, no matter what your chances are of getting it again.

Just because she is texting while she is bored, doesn't mean there isn't a chance she feels horny and wants to get together.

As da_zeb said, she is being an attention whore.

"I just had a photoshoooooooooooot!"Look at me! Look at me! I'm so pretty that I now have an agent and all these guys wanna fuck meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee! I'm the best you will ever be able to obtain!!!"


If you had any frame with this woman, you could have made fun of her. Example:

Her: I just had a photoshoot in XXX
You: that's awesome! i didn't know hand models were still a thing


Since you have no frame, go radio silent. Don't respond to her bullshit that is being spewed out of her mouth. If you respond, you are just validating her attention whoring behavior. Have some other bitch boy do that job.

Post: #32

Hey Opie

Why do you come here for advice only to ignore or not even read it?

Post: #33

(04-27-2018 08:27 AM)Remington Wrote:  Don't do this, ever. That message closes off any potential bangs you could get down the road. Don't leave pussy on the table, no matter what your chances are of getting it again.

I don't agree. I've banged girls I've friendzoned a couple of times.

And OP is already too emotionally invested in this chick. If he keeps hanging out and having sex with the hoe that is just going to get worse. And for me personally, I would have a really hard time getting hard if I knew the hoe was banging some other guy. Especially after disrespectful behaviour. She's gonna have to go after that.

I'd say believe in abundance and focus on getting new prospects.

Post: #34

The next girl I meet I’ll follow you guys advice.

But I sent her a text saying no problem and to let me know when she’s free and we’ll go out for drinks

What’s the worst thing that can happen? She just doesn’t text back

Post: #35

That attitude is fine when you don't give a shit and aren't invested AND you're gaming/fucking multiple women.

The worst that could happen is she's going to suck you in more, you're going to invest more, get frustrated and fuck your already awful inner game up. When you ahould be finding new and better women for yourself so you can be happy and enjoy life.

This whole thread (and the other two) have been a waste of time. You're not listening at all. Like giving advice to a woman "yeah I'll totally do that" next day "so I did that thing you told me not to do and agreed on you with what now"?

Post: #36

(04-27-2018 11:51 AM)Tod6264 Wrote:  The next girl I meet I’ll follow you guys advice.

But I sent her a text saying no problem and to let me know when she’s free and we’ll go out for drinks

What’s the worst thing that can happen? She just doesn’t text back

For future reference then

To a girl's primal brain "Let me know when she’s free and we’ll go out for drinks" means:

"Im a weak guy with limited options so I'll defer all the power and control in our dynamic over to you because your sexual market value is higher value than mine so Ill take whatever you'll give me"

In her emotional brain it will translate as


"We just dont have chemistry...you know that spark"


In her panties it gets translated as



This is all involuntary response to the stimuli your giving her ( bad game) .

Good game is simply using the correct stimuli to illicit the involuntary response you do want.

Metaphorically

Post: #37

Okay so starting on a clean slate. What should I read and/or watch to help me with my game?

All in all I’m shitty at convo because my head is blank and I have nothing to say, and I’m apathetic. Could be due to my depression and/or bipolar meds but when I’m on the opposite side of the spectrum and not depressed I can talk all day so it sort of sucks.

But what do you guys recommend?

Also, I’m goin to LA, Vegas and a few other places next month so I guess learning good club game would help.

Post: #38

(08-25-2017 01:22 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  OP



As far as "gaming women" is concerned I'd suggest just reading more of the forum. Your threads and posts (and Ive read a number of them) seemingly have a common theme. You like many guys come looking for a "magic formula" or "secret combination"

The analogy Id use is youre looking to solve this:

(d-dx)x^m ~ m x^(m-1)... as if the solution = success with women

Put another way ...Its like youre looking for a "tactical" solution when what you really need is a "strategic" one

I suggest more this





And less this



I hope that makes sense and does'nt come across as excessively pedantic


Id suggest just spending more time reading the RVF game forum, The Rational Male, and Bang.

The more you expose yourself to the right "concepts" the less need you'll have for "formulas"

One tip I will add: is always remember "what" you say doesn't matter because no one remembers it anyway. What they always do remember is how you make them feel. This is especially true when it comes to the male / female sexual dynamic

Post: #39

(04-27-2018 04:50 AM)Tod6264 Wrote:  Okay she just responded at 12am last night to the text on Wed.

Basically we had the date planned for wed. but she said she had to reschedule because she was busy with something for her work which is true because I saw pictures on snapchat.

But I responded to her saying we could do something later that night but no reply and that was on Wed.

Today Friday at 12am in the morning she texts back saying

"LAWD"
"My life has been nuts. Just got an agent and met in XXXXX for a photoshoot yesterday! Just got off work. Sleep tight!"

Again this chick is an 8.5 and I think it'd be worth trying to see her again, but based on the last text I'm still supposed to go silent? It just isn't congruent with my shitty text style that was working before.

In your last thread you said: "I’ve been told I’m a 8-9/10 and this chick is maybe 7/10 face but 9/10 body so maybe my looks are a big part of why she’s with me but I’m not sure."

You admitted this girl is "maybe" a 7 in the face yet she magically becomes an 8.5 in your mind once she starts ignoring you and dating another guy. See how this works? If she were actually an 8.5 you would have scared her away long before getting a bang, I can assure you of that.

You're asking us what to do every time she texts you and then you ignore the advice 100% of the time and respond with the the antithesis of game. What good are game resources going to do if you're just going to ignore the most obvious stuff on the planet that we're for some reason taking the time to spoon feed to you.

Post: #40

What the fuck did I just read.

OP, your ignorance is appalling. Unless you're willing to talk to other women and ask specific questions about stuff posted in the forum already, please stop wasting our time.

You didn't listen the first time, or the second. Why should we help you?

Awaiting your response.

Post: #41

p.s. she banged/is banging the new "agent".

Post: #42

Damn we're good Dudes on this forum! We're actually giving tips after tips to a Bi-Polar poster who doesn't fallow it... and when he comes back for more... we keep on giving! Now's my turn! OP Read both Bang & Day Bang written by Roosh... and I also recommend a book from Wayne Elise aka Juggler named " How to Meet & Connect with women. We're trying to help you... but you don't even know the basic tenets of Game yet! Read & Read again... then you won't have so much questions!

Post: #43

Hey guys how’re my tinder convos going?

I’m just tryna bring pizza over and fuck but it’s harder than it seems. Any advice on what I’m doing or what to change in this example convo?


I asked her how she found me on Instagram because all my stuff is private. She’d have to google my name and my workplace to get that info.

https://imgur.com/a/vFTRELn

Also any advice on my bio?

Thanks

Post: #44

Somebody seems to be a candidate for a cuckold........ When you have 3 or for into rotation one girl on a date the guy is just helping to show words and actions are completely different