Post: #1

Hey guys I have a tinder match that’s DTF, we were gonna have chipotle and wine at her place but she’s in college and has a roommate so she wants to do my place instead so I agreed but didn’t specify where yet.

The issue is I live with my parents and I’m in the basement so if we are fucking then we’ve gotta be super quiet and I’ve heard living at your parents place is a super turnoff for girls especially being that I’m 25.

I can afford to rent on my own but I’d rather save up to own a place. And I’ve never needed my own place but now I can see fucking girls at my parents place might be an issue.

So what do I do?

Tell her to meet me at my place and she doesn’t know I live with my parents until she gets here and we just hang and fuck in the basement while being quiet.

Or

Get a hotel room, but what would be the excuse?

Post: #2

If you're that insecure about it, get a hotel room, and say it's more romantic or some bullshit.

I'd just fuck in the basement though.

Post: #3

She’s looking to fuck. Not for marriage. Fuck her in the basement. Believe me she doesn’t care.

Bro I’ve fucked girls on a blanket in the woods, in the cab of my old two seater pick up, in the front seat of a Supra with the seat laid back on an abandoned mini golf course. I’ve gotten head in my car in the parking lot of diners.

They do not care.

Post: #4

In the dungeon.

Post: #5

Buy your parents a gift certificate for a dinner out on the night in question.

Post: #6

Let your Dad take a run at her after you're finished and he won't complain about the noise.

Post: #7

Hotel for a freakier time. Then, when she goes nuts and tries to track you down she won’t be able to find you. Otherwise, bang her in your car or in some public place. You are obviously young (just an observation) go bang her now before someone else does.

Post: #8

Rent an airbnb, it's cheaper than hotels nowadays, and just pretend like it's your friends place or some shit.

Post: #9

At 25 you should really have your own place or at least be living with roommates.

What is your plan?

Post: #10

(04-30-2018 03:25 PM)Turnus Wrote:  At 25 you should really have your own place or at least be living with roommates.

What is your plan?

Fuck that. Stay home as long as possible. Save up a huge down payment for a house so your monthly expenses are super cheap. Then move out.

Post: #11

(04-30-2018 03:25 PM)Turnus Wrote:  At 25 you should really have your own place or at least be living with roommates.

What is your plan?

I don't agree with this if you're in the west. Especially if you have student loans to pay. I'm 24 and living with my parents because rent prices are very expensive where I am. The difference for me is huge. I'd be lucky to save 20% of my income living in an apartment with roommates. Living at home I save over 75% of my income. I'm personally motivated to build up a savings account so I can travel east for as long as possible. Why would you want to live with roommates? That is honestly the same thing as living with your folks. Live solo or don't move out at all.

Post: #12

(04-30-2018 05:10 PM)yankeetravels Wrote:  

(04-30-2018 03:25 PM)Turnus Wrote:  At 25 you should really have your own place or at least be living with roommates.

What is your plan?

I don't agree with this if you're in the west. Especially if you have student loans to pay. I'm 24 and living with my parents because rent prices are very expensive where I am. The difference for me is huge. I'd be lucky to save 20% of my income living in an apartment with roommates. Living at home I save over 75% of my income. I'm personally motivated to build up a savings account so I can travel east for as long as possible. Why would you want to live with roommates? That is honestly the same thing as living with your folks. Live solo or don't move out at all.

Staying at parents to save money for a down payment on your own property/ start a business / pay student loans is a winners move

Staying at parents to save money for an extended vacation until the money runs out and then come back to mom and dad's basement is a chumps move

Post: #13

(04-30-2018 05:27 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

(04-30-2018 05:10 PM)yankeetravels Wrote:  

(04-30-2018 03:25 PM)Turnus Wrote:  At 25 you should really have your own place or at least be living with roommates.

What is your plan?

I don't agree with this if you're in the west. Especially if you have student loans to pay. I'm 24 and living with my parents because rent prices are very expensive where I am. The difference for me is huge. I'd be lucky to save 20% of my income living in an apartment with roommates. Living at home I save over 75% of my income. I'm personally motivated to build up a savings account so I can travel east for as long as possible. Why would you want to live with roommates? That is honestly the same thing as living with your folks. Live solo or don't move out at all.

Staying at parents to save money for a down payment on your own property/ start a business / pay student loans is a winners move

Staying at parents to save money for an extended vacation until the money runs out and then come back to mom and dad's basement is a chumps move

Who says I'd be going back? I'm not stupid enough to go abroad long-term without some steady income...

Buying property for anything other than flipping in the US is a chumps move when you can live abroad on a fraction of the price and keep your freedom of movement....

Post: #14

(04-23-2018 08:23 AM)Tod6264 Wrote:  Hey guys I’m 24 and have bipolar depression. When I’m not depressed I feel passionate about doing things but when I’m in a depressed state for 3-4 months which I currently am nothing really interests me except this girl I’ve been seeing and sex.

I'll be empathetic to a guy with bipolar, since most of us here don't have to deal with alternating periods of real depression:
OP, have you sought out professional help? I ask because I look at the threads you've started and think it might be helpful for you to figure some bigger picture shit out.



Now I'll be straight up with a guy like me who just wants to get laid:

Quote:The thing is that I’m 100% available and never really busy since I don’t have a job, and don’t need one because I’m making a good amount of passive income ~60-100kyr from affiliate marketing. Also, I have no real hobbies except playing video games to pass time especially when depressed.

MOVE OUT OF YOUR PARENTS PLACE, THROW OUT YOUR VIDEO GAMES, AND GO START BEING A MAN.

Post: #15

(05-01-2018 06:32 AM)yankeetravels Wrote:  Buying property for anything other than flipping in the US is a chumps move when you can live abroad on a fraction of the price and keep your freedom of movement....

Property costs everywhere in the world are based on their proximity to things that people like.

For example, a condo close to popular nightlife is going to have a higher price tag than a much larger house 200km from the nearest general store.

You'll find that desirable housing in many parts of the third world is actually more expensive than similar housing in the USA.

Sure, living in the 3rd world is cheaper, if you live like an impoverished third world local. And also stupid, because now you're a person from the first world who is surrounded by people who might happily kill you just for whatever pocket change you might happen to have on you.

Post: #16

I had a buddy in your situation when we were in our early 20's. He was a bit stressed about it and brought it up to us. Another friend who was a player just laughed at him and gave him the following advice. "Tell her to be quiet because your parents are visiting". Bang her in the basement, it worked then and will work now.

Post: #17

(05-01-2018 10:40 AM)Suits Wrote:  

(05-01-2018 06:32 AM)yankeetravels Wrote:  Buying property for anything other than flipping in the US is a chumps move when you can live abroad on a fraction of the price and keep your freedom of movement....

Property costs everywhere in the world are based on their proximity to things that people like.

For example, a condo close to popular nightlife is going to have a higher price tag than a much larger house 200km from the nearest general store.

You'll find that desirable housing in many parts of the third world is actually more expensive than similar housing in the USA.

Sure, living in the 3rd world is cheaper, if you live like an impoverished third world local. And also stupid, because now you're a person from the first world who is surrounded by people who might happily kill you just for whatever pocket change you might happen to have on you.

Again, no it's not. I know my local property market, the third world is A LOT cheaper than where I live. You haven't seen the first tier city US market if you think the third world is even close to as expensive. Also, I'm well aware it's more expensive to live in the city center than it is in the middle of nowhere.

You don't need to live impoverished, but I get what you mean about some locals wanting to make a move. But honestly, I've had locals want to make a move on me in Japan and the US, so I don't think you can fully escape that anywhere. This is usually neutralized if you stay in the bigger cities and out of the seedy areas of them, where you have a much better chance of being anonymous. But anyway, the bigger counter I'd give is that this whole forum is about escaping the west, and now you and papaya are saying to stay in it? You've done that yourself and I know China isn't third world, but it probably came with its own set of challenges.

Post: #18

(05-01-2018 02:28 PM)yankeetravels Wrote:  

(05-01-2018 10:40 AM)Suits Wrote:  

(05-01-2018 06:32 AM)yankeetravels Wrote:  Buying property for anything other than flipping in the US is a chumps move when you can live abroad on a fraction of the price and keep your freedom of movement....

Property costs everywhere in the world are based on their proximity to things that people like.

For example, a condo close to popular nightlife is going to have a higher price tag than a much larger house 200km from the nearest general store.

You'll find that desirable housing in many parts of the third world is actually more expensive than similar housing in the USA.

Sure, living in the 3rd world is cheaper, if you live like an impoverished third world local. And also stupid, because now you're a person from the first world who is surrounded by people who might happily kill you just for whatever pocket change you might happen to have on you.

Again, no it's not. I know my local property market, the third world is A LOT cheaper than where I live.

It's obvious that you read what I wrote but failed to comprehend it. Your local property market is in no way representative of every US housing market.

In an apples to apples comparison, there's a reason why certain places are more expensive than others.

There are plenty of places throughout the third world that are as expensive as fuck. Do you want to live in the part of Nairobi that has a high level of safety and amenities? Guess, what? Now you're paying first world prices for housing.

If you account for all the differences, you'd probably quickly establish that most third world locations are not amazing deals.

Here's a sampling of factors:

• Amount of trash on the streets
• Relative risk of being a victim of crime
• Cost of flying home to see family if they are live in the USA
• Inferior Internet speeds
• Traffic conditions
• Money lost from being ripped off by swarmy locals
• Pollution
• The human component: the quality of the people you can meet and befriend
  

(05-01-2018 02:28 PM)yankeetravels Wrote:  You haven't seen the first tier city US market if you think the third world is even close to as expensive. Also, I'm well aware it's more expensive to live in the city center than it is in the middle of nowhere.

So, your argument is that 1st tier US cities are more expensive than 3rd world cities in general?



If we are comparing first tier US cities with first tier cities in the third world, the cost comparison would be closer than you think, especially considering the limited employment options available to an American in those cities.

If we compare 2nd and 3rd tier US cities to 2nd and 3rd tier cities in the 3rd world, you might find that to get the same value, you're paying about the same.

(05-01-2018 02:28 PM)yankeetravels Wrote:  You don't need to live impoverished, but I get what you mean about some locals wanting to make a move. But honestly, I've had locals want to make a move on me in Japan and the US, so I don't think you can fully escape that anywhere. This is usually neutralized if you stay in the bigger cities and out of the seedy areas of them, where you have a much better chance of being anonymous.

But anyway, the bigger counter I'd give is that this whole forum is about escaping the west, and now you and papaya are saying to stay in it? You've done that yourself and I know China isn't third world...

It is.

(05-01-2018 02:28 PM)yankeetravels Wrote:  ....but it probably came with its own set of challenges.

Most guys who have grand dreams of "escaping the West" never pull the trigger.

Most guys who do escape the West, come back with their tail between their legs well within 4 years.

I guess those lower housing costs weren't all they were cracked up to be.

The reason people think living abroad is cheaper for the value offered is often because they give the foreign location extra value points for local charm. Once that charm becomes the norm, they realize it's a raw deal and head back to the comfortable embrace of the USA.

There are plenty of reasons to live abroad, but doing so because buying a house in the US is stupid is not one of those reasons.

You could solve your local housing market problems by simply moving to a cheaper, lower tier city. But people usually don't want to do that because they'd have to take a pay cut to do so.

I suppose that if someone's income is location independent, there could be a case to be made for moving somewhere where one of the main reasons local housing is cheap is because local wages are so low.

But you might find yourself lonely pretty quickly in a place where the locals aren't known for creative thinking.

Post: #19

Some people have a really hard time grasping the concept of cost vs value, especially when it comes to quality of life.

Similarly independent wealth vs location independent income.

Post: #20

I’m bipolar. Get on medication. Lithium 900 mg is the only thing that worked for me well enough to live a normal life. No idea what will work for you but you need some sort of medication