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Quick intro for the story

I've been sleeping with this western born and raised Japanese girl. I hurt myself at work a week or so ago bad enough to go to the hospital. I say to myself - Lets see if now that I am hurt and off work what she will do.

After a few days on pretty strong pain killers I couldn't remember all the details from the day the last 2 days. She starts beating around the bush about what do I and don't I remember. I can tell she is going somewhere. I just say I barely remember anything. She finally gets to the point saying we had sex sheepishly. I do remember that but I said - "I was stoned on pain killers and you took advantage of me Mrs Cosby..."

Holy shit you could see her freaking out. I was dying inside. She immediately turned it back on me saying things like that I was the aggressive one. I just counter that I wasn't in my right frame of mind. Not once was there any kind of remorse or even a "I'm sorry" or shit like that - not that I expected one.

We had plans on Sunday to hang out but I had to change them today and she tried a little guilt trip on me even after I said I was free in the evening just not during the day.

I've already "nexted" her in my mind so no issues there but I have zero experience with these types of girls and need the practice as it were. I was considering just going silent for a few days and when she springs back figuring out a way to say that was unacceptable.

Guess I'm asking if I should even bother and if so how I should handle it?

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(05-04-2018 12:32 AM)Doogie Wrote:  Quick intro for the story

I've been sleeping with this western born and raised Japanese girl. I hurt myself at work a week or so ago bad enough to go to the hospital. I say to myself - Lets see if now that I am hurt and off work what she will do.

After a few days on pretty strong pain killers I couldn't remember all the details from the day the last 2 days. She starts beating around the bush about what do I and don't I remember. I can tell she is going somewhere. I just say I barely remember anything. She finally gets to the point saying we had sex sheepishly. I do remember that but I said - "I was stoned on pain killers and you took advantage of me Mrs Cosby..."

Holy shit you could see her freaking out. I was dying inside. She immediately turned it back on me saying things like that I was the aggressive one. I just counter that I wasn't in my right frame of mind. Not once was there any kind of remorse or even a "I'm sorry" or shit like that - not that I expected one.

We had plans on Sunday to hang out but I had to change them today and she tried a little guilt trip on me even after I said I was free in the evening just not during the day.

I've already "nexted" her in my mind so no issues there but I have zero experience with these types of girls and need the practice as it were. I was considering just going silent for a few days and when she springs back figuring out a way to say that was unacceptable.

Guess I'm asking if I should even bother and if so how I should handle it?

I have no game advice to offer you. I have more practical advice. I assume you are in the West. Keep all of your conversations with this girl on messages or email. If you talk to her, figure out a way to record it. If this was me, and a girl I have only been messing with for a while turned a "you took advantage of me" joke back around on me (and she seemed serious or pissed or even slightly crazy), I would be concerned. In the modern West, it only takes one word from one woman to ruin a man's life.

Edit: I just looked at your profile and I see you are in Canada. For the love of God I hope you aren't in Ontario. I'm going to go ahead and second my own advice from above. People may think I am overreacting, but where you are, you have to be careful.