Post: #1

I've never been much of a spray and pray guy using pickup lines in approaches ect...

Post: #2

It works too.

Even a basic: Hi, my name is X. Works too. If a women likes your look, and your vibe she'll stick around. Just keep that good vibe going and keep her talking.

Post: #3

Well I'll try to kick off this thread with a rant based on some experiences I've had with western guys "trying" to approach girls lately. Maybe this applies more so to EE but this was the way I operated in the States as well.

I don't use pickup lines, approach girls much nor do I even play direct game that often when I'm out. I personally find large groups of people and just inject myself into whatever the fuck they are talking about. Half the time I end up talking to some guy that is really into whatever the topic is and because he's with a group he'll start introducing me to everyone he knows. This leads to more guys and girls joining in. Next thing I know I'm in one on ones and debates or conversations about random topics with all kinds of people which includes girls I'd like to fuck.

Usually if a bar is packed enough, cockfest or not I can infiltrate 1 - 4 social circles in a matter of and hour or two depending on the venue layout.

More often than not...... if there is no language barrier this results in action that leads to the type of girls I want at any given venue. My Social Status is elevated artificially because while I'm talking to a girl or set outside the circle random people are coming up to talk to me making me look local and safe.

I've been watching a lot of guys around my parts just cold approaching women and getting blown out hard. I actually hate going out with guys that want to just approach girls. It fucks my vibe up bad. I'll be making head way in a group and then a guy will feel safe and just come in and start trying to isolate a girl out of desperation and destroy the vibe of the whole group. I've had too many instances meeting guys (wanting a wing) that don't know how to socialize in groups.

I think if some guys could learn how to carry on and start 2 - 5 conversations at once this would not be a problem.

Another silly note I'd like to make is winging with guys dressed like they are going to church then talking with their hands like they are pitching the idea of a conversation with a girl in a group is fucking annoying.

It's weird, I'll roll into a social circle get a conversation going with the group and everything is relaxed then the a mother fucker I'm winging with will start talking to a girl in the group like he's doing a venture capital pitch. Once everybody notices the slow polite get the fuck away from us process starts.

So conversation skills.

Apologize in advance if the above comes across as a ramble, I'm 4 drinks in and I'm about to go play some blackjack at the Radisson in Chisinau. I might be exfiling Moldova and driving to Odessa if anyone down that way has anything interesting happening PM me.

Post: #4

hey how are you going? wow, you are so beautiful what's your name?

*said genuinely, maybe mention a particular part of her that's nice (hair, shirt, etc), relaxed, confident calm, with a smile

It blows my mind how much guys overthink this...

It's one of the simplest openers, but it MUST be genuine, and smooth, with confidence.

If you don't know what to say next, just keep complimenting her. Sometimes I ham it up if she's an 8/9 and tell her she's got great style/she should model/why doesn't she have a boyfriend/she's the hottest girl in the club etc.etc.

Of course, it's gotta be from a genuine place, and you shouldn't be putting her on a pedestal, acting like a perceived pervert or being weird. You're just appreciating the beauty in the world and smiling as you express it.

Girls love attention. They love to be told they're special. Don't pretend to be anything. Just appreciate her. And if you're really being straight up and unapologetic about how she blows your mind, she will want to stick around.