Post: #1

Matched with a girl on bumble a good few months ago and went out on a date. Date went really well and we made out a few times but she was reluctant for anymore to happen. A few days later she says she doesn’t see anything more happening between us and cuts contact, even tho the date went well etc. (I have a feeling it’s because I told her I had a kid)
Now we have matched again on tinder and I’m wondering how I should play this?
Act as if I don’t remember her? Or maybe play it as she’s come crawling back or something?
Thoughts?

Post: #2

So she didn't remember you in the half-second she spent evaluating your Tinder pic. Meaningless. Unless she's literally retarded, she's going to remember you once you meet up again (at the latest), and she's going to reject you again. If she was reconsidering her initial rejection she'd just shoot you a text, not wait to match with you on Tinder.

Sounds like a waste of time and energy. Next.

Post: #3

Move on

Post: #4

Why would you tell a girl you have a kid on a first date?

First date should be all about a sexualized emotional roller coaster...not an interview with the boring details of your normal life

And dont make-out unless your someplace you can go all the way.

You thought it was going well because you were making out and you thought you were making progress.

She thought it was "meh" because you and she didnt really "click" or have "chemistry" else it wouldve "just happened". In other words you failed to generate enough attraction turn her on to the point of arousal

All the above is for future reference. Also for future reference, for maximum chance of success follow this Tuthmosis Recipe For First Date Bangs. Its title as a firts date recipe but its applicable to any date.

In this case Id send " It must be fate" and see if she'll go out with you again. If she does then see above. If not, forget her move on and learn from the experience. Dont make the same mistakes

Post: #5

(05-22-2018 10:56 AM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  Why would you tell a girl you have a kid on a first date?

First date should be all about a sexualized emotional roller coaster...not an interview with the boring details of your normal life

And dont make-out unless your someplace you can go all the way.

You thought it was going well because you were making out and you thought you were making progress.

She thought it was "meh" because you and she didnt really "click" or have "chemistry" else it wouldve "just happened". In other words you failed to generate enough attraction turn her on to the point of arousal

All the above is for future reference. Also for future reference, for maximum chance of success follow this Tuthmosis Recipe For First Date Bangs. Its title as a firts date recipe but its applicable to any date.

In this case Id send " It must be fate" and see if she'll go out with you again. If she does then see above. If not, forget her move on and learn from the experience. Dont make the same mistakes

Agreed.

The first date needs to be like the honeymoon. All passion without logic or reason.

After the bang, usually women are much easier to deal with and you can get away with more.