Post: #1

Hey guys it’s like every time I ask for a number girls avoid it, how can I better move the convo to me meeting her or bringing over pizza.

Also on my bio should I leave out the list in sunset line or keep it?


Also she had to do a lot of googling to find my name to add me on Instagram which I brought up to her.

Any advice is great thx
Photo of my profile and a convo I’m having with a girl >>>>> https://imgur.com/a/X5XejeV

Post: #2

(05-25-2018 08:05 PM)Tod6264 Wrote:  Hey guys it’s like every time I ask for a number girls avoid it, how can I better move the convo to me meeting her or bringing over pizza.

Also on my bio should I leave out the list in sunset line or keep it?


Also she had to do a lot of googling to find my name to add me on Instagram which I brought up to her.

Any advice is great thx
Photo of my profile and a convo I’m having with a girl >>>>> https://imgur.com/a/X5XejeV

You're quickly becoming the Lloyd Christmas of this forum. You posted the same question in two different threads and given how you normally behave you're going to ignore the advice in both of them, so what's the point?

You need to get out of the house more and become a more normal person. If your communications with women are coming from a good place of confidence and normalcy you won't self sabotage so frequently by being out of touch. You're asking us for a fish when you clearly need to learn to fish. Read other posts and get real life experience.

Why does your profile start out with 6" and what did you scratch out after that?

Post: #3

You need to figure how girls are finding you and remove those details.

Post: #4

She must've found your Instagram via a reverse image search. Only way to prevent that is to have no overlapping photos. Probably not a huge deal.

Anyway I like your bio, your convo is fine, and your main pic looks pretty cool too. Your issue is simply that if you go for the number that soon, particularly on girls that aren't super into the conversation (notice her longest reply is only 7 words), it's inevitable that many won't give it. Either they were never seriously interested to begin with, or they were spooked at you going for it before establishing any semblance of a connection. I like to have at least 6-7 responses from the girl before going for a number, and only even that soon if she's clearly engaged, giving lengthy responses, asking me things, etc., but that's just my style.

Also, that followup message is a terrible idea. Never do that. Give her time to reply; don't look needy.

Post: #5

(05-27-2018 12:51 AM)Delta Wrote:  She must've found your Instagram via a reverse image search. Only way to prevent that is to have no overlapping photos. Probably not a huge deal.

Anyway I like your bio, your convo is fine, and your main pic looks pretty cool too. Your issue is simply that if you go for the number that soon, particularly on girls that aren't super into the conversation (notice her longest reply is only 7 words), it's inevitable that many won't give it. Either they were never seriously interested to begin with, or they were spooked at you going for it before establishing any semblance of a connection. I like to have at least 6-7 responses from the girl before going for a number, and only even that soon if she's clearly engaged, giving lengthy responses, asking me things, etc., but that's just my style.

Also, that followup message is a terrible idea. Never do that. Give her time to reply; don't look needy.

I thought IG made it so you couldnt do reverse image searching?

Post: #6

(05-25-2018 08:05 PM)Tod6264 Wrote:  Hey guys it’s like every time I ask for a number girls avoid it, how can I better move the convo to me meeting her or bringing over pizza.

Also on my bio should I leave out the list in sunset line or keep it?


Also she had to do a lot of googling to find my name to add me on Instagram which I brought up to her.

Any advice is great thx
Photo of my profile and a convo I’m having with a girl >>>>> https://imgur.com/a/X5XejeV

So I've read your bio and convo.

In my opinion, you beat around the bush too much. I like to go in more direct as to why I am in Tinder and why she's on Tinder and not waste time.

Altho this is only for my tastes. I am not sure if you're getting pretty consistent results with it so far but I think the beating around the bush also make her wants to "tease" you more about holding on to her number.

Post: #7

I'd say chat her up a little bit about something (sports, a conversation topic, a place), then ask if she wants to do that (watch a game, have a chat about the topic, meet at the place). Then she will give you the number and you can set the date if she's down. Inevitably there will be lots of girls kicking tires on there, especially the hotter ones, so if they avoid, just don't tinder message them for a week or so and just start up a new convo with different topic and ask for the number. If they avoid again then just move on to someone whos interested.