Post: #1

Want to pick the brain of seasoned cats regarding strategies to maintain to plates (in before dishwashing jokes haw haw)

I see plate maintenance as predominately text game and date game given you would see them once a week or even less frequently. How do you maintain that connection and not have things go stale or her seek other guys?

Text Game
When you see a girl once a week or even less frequently, text game is the mainstay of maintaining status quo
I feel texts must be a mixture of vanilla texts mixed in with texts that have some purpose and hopefully create/maintain an emotional connection and ideally a push-pull effect

So how do the seasoned cats manage this? How often to text? How do you mix it up to maintain a connection

Vanilla Texts
-checking in - see how they're going?
-sorting out logistics for next date
-random jokes / memes

Texts to create a connection
-describe their ideal holiday
-ideal day
-what other questions can be asked to create / maintain a connection

Date game
-obviously most if not all dates should lead to sex
-but obviously it's good to pair it up with fun things to do when you meet up
-what are good date ideas?
*out to dinner then back to yours
*home cooked dinners
^above would be mainstays

what are others?
-bushwalks/hikes
-museum/art galleries
-photowalks
-gym dates
-those escape rooms
-bowling/mini golf/arcade games

anything else? movie dates seem relatively lame

Post: #2

Most all of my longer-term plates were little to no maintenance which is why I kept them on. Girls where we both were mutual booty calls mostly and could just hit them up to "come hang" once every other week or so. Maybe have some drinks and/or make dinner at my place/their place. Maybe text them a funny thing/gif/meme here or there to let them know I think about them. That's really it.

I had a couple plates where I would take them out to the club or some event to have something pretty on my arm but this wasn't necessarily for her sake to feel like she was more than just a bang, but rather just having fun going to something that was made more entertaining by bring a girl along.

My advice: filter the girls you keep on your roster so they don't really need maintenance (bearing in mind that virtually no casual bang relationships lasts forever, but some will lasts for years)

Post: #3

I kinda just use Snapchat for it. I send the same snaps to all the girls im maintaining. Maybe a snap from the gym, a snap of my car saying it needs a car wash, playing basketball, eating chipotle, watching netflix. Typically I aim for high value snaps, but depends how much 'maintaining' you want to do vs. wooing. High value snaps are those 'Date' game and the low value snaps are the 'text' game. I pick up convos based on snaps and comment on their stories etc.

However, the only problem with this is that when they don't use snapchat or never reply back, it kinda goes stale cuz theres too many to maintain between current plates and getting new ones.

Post: #4

Many of my plates have become actual friends after having sex, others our time together had too much love to maintain contact, still others we're just not a good match. A few tried to fuck me over.

The time is temporary but I cherish it.

I love this adventure of a life, I'm not sure what the future holds but I have a feeling it's full of good. I'm looking forward to the joy and the problems I'll meet and overcome.

I'm a player but usually our time together is mutually seen as a good experience. For many that experience is over, I wish every one of them a good life though, sincerely

Post: #5

1. Fuck em REALLY Good
2. Dont give a fuck what they do with other people
3. Get different area codes (different home bases so they always be missing you)
4. Never lie
5. Talk about real shit like kids and stds
6. NEVER let her affect your frame
7. No matter how much of an asshole you are always be kind
8. txt only for making plans. group msgs like memes for the harem
9. Over phone and txt very brief and unresponsive but 100% present when in person
10. Deny her sex
11. tell her to see other people when you are not around
12. get em on social media, fb/insta so as number change over the years you always there between her bfs
13. Educate her about health, wealth and love
14. Always be discreet
15. Always be willing to walk away