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So confused, why does this happen?
Whenever a girl is interested in me, I flirt with them for a bit. Then I just in general stop talking - usually because I am busy. They then buy me a gift, and I usually reply with a thanks. But then afterwards they seem to be very frosty to me, like they hate me? This has happened 4 times now - and all 4 of those girls had crushes on me?
06-03-2018 08:45 AM
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RE: So confused, why does this happen?
Um we need more context. stop talking to them in person? Stop seeing them? Stop texting them? What do you do after saying "thanks"? Are you saying "What a thoughtful gift?" what are they giving you??

So many question dude.
06-03-2018 09:15 AM
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(06-03-2018 09:15 AM)Tytalus Wrote:  Um we need more context. stop talking to them in person? Stop seeing them? Stop texting them? What do you do after saying "thanks"? Are you saying "What a thoughtful gift?" what are they giving you??

So many question dude.

Like I respond less, if I see them I usually won't approach. I make myself unavailable - most of the times this isn't even on purpose I just have better stuff to do. They then give me a gift, and usually I give a hug and say thanks. I act the same still.

I get like chocolates and other things like that. Tbf I have been given a few odd gifts like mouthwash before - me and that girl were talking about mouthwash like 2 weeks ago...
06-03-2018 10:58 AM
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RE: So confused, why does this happen?
^ Maybe she gave you mouthwash because you have the breath of a troll?
06-03-2018 11:16 AM
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(06-03-2018 10:58 AM)N00B Wrote:  
(06-03-2018 09:15 AM)Tytalus Wrote:  Um we need more context. stop talking to them in person? Stop seeing them? Stop texting them? What do you do after saying "thanks"? Are you saying "What a thoughtful gift?" what are they giving you??

So many question dude.

Like I respond less, if I see them I usually won't approach. I make myself unavailable - most of the times this isn't even on purpose I just have better stuff to do. They then give me a gift, and usually I give a hug and say thanks. I act the same still.

I get like chocolates and other things like that. Tbf I have been given a few odd gifts like mouthwash before - me and that girl were talking about mouthwash like 2 weeks ago...

You respond less and don't approach when you see them and you're wondering why it fizzles out? You have it completely backwards, with women you like you're supposed to escalate not deescalate.

Sometimes when women are showing a lot of interest there's the temptation to just sit back and not reciprocate. You have to give a little back or they will eventually give up and disown you for being too cool for school.
06-03-2018 02:33 PM
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RE: So confused, why does this happen?
Because you are scared of girls and sex. I did this same stuff back when I was in middle school. If you are over the age of 16, there is no excuse for this - you just got to get over it. Girls don’t bite.
06-03-2018 05:55 PM
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RE: So confused, why does this happen?
Girls you haven't slept with buying you gifts? I smell the troll here.
06-05-2018 01:46 AM
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(06-05-2018 01:46 AM)BadgerHut Wrote:  Girls you haven't slept with buying you gifts? I smell the troll here.

Sure, It's happened to me more than once, but I think it's worth pointing out that these were very fat girls.

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06-05-2018 02:29 AM
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RE: So confused, why does this happen?
haha

what were these gifts?
06-05-2018 08:56 AM
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RE: So confused, why does this happen?
I am more interested in the gifts than anything else here. Really no joke and just respect. What were the gifts and what was the psychology behind in giving them? It is quite unusual for 4 girls to be giving a guy a gift especially nowadays where 3rd wave feminism dominates.
06-05-2018 09:25 AM
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(06-05-2018 09:25 AM)Bain Wrote:  I am more interested in the gifts than anything else here. Really no joke and just respect. What were the gifts and what was the psychology behind in giving them? It is quite unusual for 4 girls to be giving a guy a gift especially nowadays where 3rd wave feminism dominates.

My friend they were fucking ugly. Like seriously one of them once deep throated an ice lolly in front of me. And I swear to god, I almost was sick. Like I legit had to go toilet and everything....

Funnily enough the one who deep throated the ice lolly was also a feminist - ironic how she is the creepy one....

Those 4 girls were "nerds" I guess?
06-05-2018 12:17 PM
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(06-05-2018 08:56 AM)tobehero Wrote:  haha

what were these gifts?

The 3 girls bought me chocolate - none of them knew about each other. The slightly better looking one bought me that mouthwash.
06-05-2018 12:18 PM
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(06-05-2018 02:29 AM)Tex Cruise Wrote:  
(06-05-2018 01:46 AM)BadgerHut Wrote:  Girls you haven't slept with buying you gifts? I smell the troll here.

Sure, It's happened to me more than once, but I think it's worth pointing out that these were very fat girls.

Exactly they were fugly....
06-05-2018 12:19 PM
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RE: So confused, why does this happen?
Broader context needed.

Country? Socio-economic class within that country?
Your age? Their ages? etc etc

I could go on, but you need to paint a more accurate picture before you'll see any useful advice.
06-05-2018 09:26 PM
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(06-05-2018 09:26 PM)Sombro Wrote:  Broader context needed.

Country? Socio-economic class within that country?
Your age? Their ages? etc etc

I could go on, but you need to paint a more accurate picture before you'll see any useful advice.

Everyone is 16/17. Country is England - although most of these girls had ethnic/immigrant parents they were all born and raised in England like me. None of them are chavs or lower class. They are all middle or upper class. I am of a working class background - not a chav though.
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(06-06-2018 12:39 AM)tobehero Wrote:  T
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If you have nothing constructive to say, please waste your time elsewhere
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(06-06-2018 05:15 PM)N00B Wrote:  
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If you have nothing constructive to say, please waste your time elsewhere

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(06-06-2018 05:14 PM)N00B Wrote:  
(06-05-2018 09:26 PM)Sombro Wrote:  Broader context needed.

Country? Socio-economic class within that country?
Your age? Their ages? etc etc

I could go on, but you need to paint a more accurate picture before you'll see any useful advice.

Everyone is 16/17. Country is England - although most of these girls had ethnic/immigrant parents they were all born and raised in England like me. None of them are chavs or lower class. They are all middle or upper class. I am of a working class background - not a chav though.

"Everyone is Uk, everything is respect, ethnic/immigrant but also raise and born Uk like me. Not chav though (trans: I am not like one of those horrible indigenous British people)"

That thread by the seemingly autistic guy about not being able to cum, having to lower his standards, precise breast measurements he required, etc. etc. Couldn't type in English. I asked him where he was from.
His answer?
'West.'


OP - you sound like a fucking social retard.

You want my advice? Keep doing what you're doing and most of all stick to the ghetto-ised socially retarded categories that you are currently moving in (first, middle class, not chav, immigrant girls of respect)

in the future I expect to read such posts as:

"My cousin says he is first man but he is not first man but he says that he should be getting job and marriage with her rather than me because she is young and from the village and because he is more cousin than I am, what should I do? "

Or

"My uncle and I are finding it hard to set my sister's body on fire after she spoke to a Sikh boy at school. What is the best petrol to use for this? How do we buy more acid? Tips?"

Welcome to the forum OP.

Welcome to the Uk as well.. Smile
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(06-06-2018 09:43 PM)Bienvenuto Wrote:  
(06-06-2018 05:14 PM)N00B Wrote:  
(06-05-2018 09:26 PM)Sombro Wrote:  Broader context needed.

Country? Socio-economic class within that country?
Your age? Their ages? etc etc

I could go on, but you need to paint a more accurate picture before you'll see any useful advice.

Everyone is 16/17. Country is England - although most of these girls had ethnic/immigrant parents they were all born and raised in England like me. None of them are chavs or lower class. They are all middle or upper class. I am of a working class background - not a chav though.

"Everyone is Uk, everything is respect, ethnic/immigrant but also raise and born Uk like me. Not chav though (trans: I am not like one of those horrible indigenous British people)"

That thread by the seemingly autistic guy about not being able to cum, having to lower his standards, precise breast measurements he required, etc. etc. Couldn't type in English. I asked him where he was from.
His answer?
'West.'


OP - you sound like a fucking social retard.

You want my advice? Keep doing what you're doing and most of all stick to the ghetto-ised socially retarded categories that you are currently moving in (first, middle class, not chav, immigrant girls of respect)

in the future I expect to read such posts as:

"My cousin says he is first man but he is not first man but he says that he should be getting job and marriage with her rather than me because she is young and from the village and because he is more cousin than I am, what should I do? "

Or

"My uncle and I are finding it hard to set my sister's body on fire after she spoke to a Sikh boy at school. What is the best petrol to use for this? How do we buy more acid? Tips?"

Welcome to the forum OP.

Welcome to the Uk as well.. Smile

I was born and raised in the UK you dumb cunt. I meant that the girls were all 3rd generation immigrants.

What the hell do you mean "ghetto-ised social categories"? People of different classes act differently, the more chav girls would fuck any skinny rat looking white chav. I wasn't even hating on England, either I didn't communicate my message properly or you're connect dots that aren't there...
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RE: So confused, why does this happen?
Bye bye purple guy..

Troll

OP, only girls get gifts and gay guys.

So are you female or homosexual?

Let us know.

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