Post: #1

Started talking with this “girl” from Guayaquil, Ecuador on Latin Cupid, I give her my whatsapp (i know big mistake) which happens to be the same number I use in USA.

10 min into the conversation she says Im mean, Im a womanizer, she will report me. She even says Im gay and ugly lol which leads me to believe its a guy. I block her whatsapp. She, or whoever, then message me on whatsapp from another number and says she has found my FB and will tell all my friends. Sure enough the person either logged into my facebook through my cell phone number? or tried to? Within 1 hour I received 10 different texts:

XXXXXXX is your Facebook password reset code or reset your password here:

does this mean they got in the account or just tried to?

When i logged in I was friends with this woman on FB and I had all these weird ecuadorian people as suggested friends. Im not sure if my account just automatically accepted her friend request? (I have very little knowledge of FB as you can see). I changed the password, and implemented a two factor authentification. I also later deleted the account completely. Also within the hour I receiced a facetime audio call on my iphone which I blocked.

I deleted latin cupid, facebook, and my whatsapp. (The FB actually isnt too revealing because I have 0 friends and its a fake name I would use to look up people which I know is weird haha)... But I am concerned they have my phone number now.

Post: #2

(06-11-2018 01:46 AM)Westcoast99 Wrote:  10 min into the conversation she says Im mean, Im a womanizer, she will report me. She even says Im gay and ugly lol which leads me to believe its a guy.

Post: #3

(06-11-2018 01:46 AM)Westcoast99 Wrote:  Within 1 hour I received 10 different texts:

XXXXXXX is your Facebook password reset code or reset your password here:

does this mean they got in the account or just tried to?

They are BS links designed to get you to log in and give them your login details. No one is ever auto added as a friend so I'm guessing you clicked on one of this links which took you to a site which you then put your log in details?

NEVER UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES CLICK ON A LINK UNLESS YOU DID SOMETHING TO CREATE THE LINK. EVER.

Soon you will probably start getting spam messages about your bank accounts being hacked and you needing to login to verify the details.

Post: #4

Is this not reason enough to stay away from all these god-forsaken personals sites? These scammers are on all of them.

Post: #5

(06-11-2018 06:54 AM)NightVale Wrote:  NEVER UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES CLICK ON A LINK UNLESS YOU DID SOMETHING TO CREATE THE LINK. EVER.

Never under any circumstances click on a link?

Post: #6

This was definitely Facebook and not a fake site.

Post: #7

The real issue is that you showed weakness, and it's pretty obvious you're a rookie. Laugh about, live and learn.
In the future, you should know a few things:
1. You are not ready for latinas. They are all more aggressive than every other kind of girl save for blacks. It's their culture, there are extremes, but you can generalize them as being fiery, which takes balls.
2. If you get a password reset link, it means someone unsuccessfully tried to get into your account. Again, you seem new, or else one anonymous "girl" never could have caused so much stress.
3. If your goal is easy or otherwise casual sex, you must have burner emails, phone numbers, profiles, and aliases. Sad, but this is 2k18, and such precautions are a minimum.

Post: #8

(06-11-2018 01:46 AM)Westcoast99 Wrote:  XXXXXXX is your Facebook password reset code or reset your password here:

If one finds your phone number, or facebook login (without password) you can try a password reset. Facebook then send you a password reset link to your phone number.

As long as you keep that code secret (never tell it is 449200!!) there is not a problem.

you might also get reset codes in the mail.

tl; dr. Don't worry.
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in facebook settings -> security and login you can check for any suspicious succesful logins.

If you value your facebook very much you can enable 2FA 2 factor logins, for extra security.
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Post: #9

(06-12-2018 06:10 AM)Martin_l Wrote:  

(06-11-2018 01:46 AM)Westcoast99 Wrote:  XXXXXXX is your Facebook password reset code or reset your password here:

If one finds your phone number, or facebook login (without password) you can try a password reset. Facebook then send you a password reset link to your phone number.

As long as you keep that code secret (never tell it is 449200!!) there is not a problem.

you might also get reset codes in the mail.

tl; dr. Don't worry.
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in facebook settings -> security and login you can check for any suspicious succesful logins.

If you value your facebook very much you can enable 2FA 2 factor logins, for extra security.
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I deleted my whatsapp, but that first night "she" from Ecuador tried to facetime me.

Also deleted my facebook, and my latincupid profile, but I am still getting emails saying I have new messages on latincupid from her today so maybe my profile isnt completely removed? I have not received any new texts from facebook notifying me of login attempts.

Just worried these people have my number now.

I was on latincupid for like 18 months on and off, experienced a lot of interest initially, but later flakiness when I tried to pursue the higher value girls. I am not sure if this is due to chatting online, Latinas in general, not enough experience with the culture/game, or a combination of factors.

Post: #10

Usually bro I try to stay away from putting real life personal information.... always ends up to no good.

Post: #11

Stop online dating !

Post: #12

Don't use your real name on FB. Matter fact delete FB. Or use pseudo acct.

Post: #13

This thread needs more cowbell.

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Post: #14

Cool story bro, needs more dragons.