Post: #1

Anyone got any ideas on a creative/non needy way to get online girls to bypass drinks/coffee and come swim at my place. I've pulled this off maybe around 10 times in a year but its hit and miss, my go to is something like come checkout my backflip etc.

Post: #2

During a non-plans text exchange, send a pic of something interesting with the pool in the background - ostensibly she'd comment on the thing but really the pool looks fun.

Also context-dependent -- are you in an area where few have access to a private pool? Or is it old hat?

"Going for a walk today, wouldn't mind some company ... maybe a dip after" [as a response to her asking you what you're doing today]

or if you want to tone it up, "Going for a walk today -- come with me. ... maybe a dip after." [hah @ dip but mean it like the pool]

Really depends on your status with the girl. If she likes you (i.e. she is respondent and non-ambiguous), the above line has worked for me [replace "dip after" with "j on roof" or what not]. Because why not? If not, who cares.


Speaking of Yes Girls, I notice that even the most aloof of pretty girls will text like a beta male if she genuinely likes me, before and well after the bang.

I.E. if I had sent a short text mentioning a few things, she'd use punctuation and acknowledge and respond to each item, with an interested question at the end! Like she read some girl game or something. (Sweeter girls and 'colder' girls alike, haven't seen a difference. If we aren't close or it was always on-the-fence, I do not notice this.)

Girls being masters of ambiguity and flakiness, when they really like you, they seem to love to demonstrate the opposite.


Anyway, I'd keep things at the "level of game that appears to be no game" and assume the sale, for now.

Post: #3

I have tried to get girls to go swimming with me 3 times and each time they didn't want to do it. I think they're shy about showing knowing they're going to be showing off their body and I will judge it. I'm done asking for this kind of date myself. At least for the first date I'm just not going to propose it anymore.

Post: #4

Do you have a hot tub? Drinks in the hot tub is much easier to pull off.