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Does this belong in the books section? If so, then feel free to move it.
I read a book called "the sex god method". It describes what are essentially 4 pillars of great love making without going into too much detail about angles, positions, anatomy etc.
I "briefly" summarized those 4 core elements as they might be helpful to others as well.
The 4 key elements are: Dominance, Emotions, Immersion, Variety

Dominance:
Women love the idea of being dominated by a man in the bedroom. That's why after an intense session of love-making the woman might feel severe pain in her vagina or even bleed, however, it's absolutely fine because you asserted your will and dominated her like a true alpha. The author describes a scene in which he penetrates his chick so thoroughly and intensely that she says "make me your bitch". That is the extent to which she wanted to be dominated by him.

Emotions:
Women are more psychological beings than men. If you can stimulate a woman emotionally, you can give her even higher levels of stimulation during sex. If sex were simply about size, durability and penetration, then a dildo or sex robot would always get the job done. Emotional stimulation is the key.
This can be done by "teasing" the girl with your penis and possibly also with words. For example: instead of penetrating fully, just play around the entrance of the vagina with your jock. Enter only using the head or tip of your penis, then withdraw, tell her "are you sure you're ready for this?", go back in, this time giving her just a few penetrations with only a small part of your cock, then continue the talking (I'm personally not a big fan of the talking).
At some point the tension and excitement will be so high that all she will want is to have your whole penis inside her and feel a couple of strokes.

The 2nd aspect is that you have to fuck her "freely". Treat her like you would treat a woman you really love, no inhibitions and no mental blocks. Don't be shy to lick her, to try all the positions you want to try. When you're free, she will feel the same way and won't feel like you're "not sure about her". This will make the experience even more intense for her.


Immersion:
This simply means that you should only focus on sex during sex. Don't think about your next work assignment, about what you're going to cook, about the party on monday. Focus on the love-making session, on her body and you two just having fun together.

Variety:
"Too much of a good thing can be bad." Don't always do the same thing, even if it's great. She loves your tongue followed by doggystyle while you pull on her hair? Well, if you do it all the time, she'll get tired of it and so will you. Make slow love, hard love, dirty love etc. Mix it up a bit and keep her guessing.


Conclusion: I think the author nailed it pretty well. I'm not sure if I did too hahah. The part about emotions is the longest, but the author said that all 4 elements are equally important and when you put them all together, that's when you became a "sex god".