Post: #1

Some girls just want me to be a jackhammer. That's actually quite boring for me.

With some girls on top of me it feels like I am just a giant dildo in human form.

With some girls sex is we are like on guy in the forums put it "masturbating into someone else's hole".

With a few girls sex is like dancing. Not from the actual movements but it's a mutal thing.

Is it possible to teach the former girls to be more like the latter girls?

Can you teach girls other sexual skills? How?

Post: #2

Sex is like pizza, even when it's bad it's good

Post: #3

Yes, of course you can. Just like anything else, some will just never be all that good, but in general you can teach girls how to have better sex, especially if they're just inexperienced or have never had a guy show them how enjoyable it can be.

Post: #4

For me, good sex is a product of a good connection and making an effort to ensure that she is properly prepped.

Post: #5

If she is inexperienced and shy try to open her up by making her feel better and better everytime you fuck her.
Take your time, talk to her, see what she likes and what she doesn't.
Give her mind blowing orgasms.
Every girl deep deep inside has a "whore" side hidden, you should bring it out of her.
You lead, you control, you dominate and she will learn.

Post: #6

Practice, practice, practice dude. The more you have sex with the same person, the better you guys will get both at fucking each other and at sex generally. Really the only way to get "good" at sex is by having a lot of it with the same person - if you're just hooking up with randoms all the time, the build up of sexual chemistry will always reset to zero, and neither partner will be able to develop or try new things out.

Post: #7

Unless she has underlying issues like childhood abuse, she can be taught.

Post: #8

I think it's a skill like any other. The dancing analogy is on-point. It requires a certain amount of physical coordination as well as a keen awareness of where the guy is on the sexual response scale. You'd think women know body language but they tend to be really bad at this. How many times have they not even realized you've cum in them, for instance, only to matter-of-factly ASK (which I find to be a terrible way to end a session). I just think most women expect to allow their eyes to roll back and just let things happen to them passively and not really concern themselves with the guy, or if they are giving a hj or bj they think applying some singular technique with no variance in speed, pressure, etc... is sufficient.

Post: #9

OP, as for the how, I'd get your hands on a copy of The Sex God Method.

Sure, the title suggests it will teach YOU to be a supposed sex god, but what it really comes down to is leading, training, and controlling the woman. The premise is that good sex isn't so much a consequence of physical technique as it is getting inside her head and emotions and liberating her through your dominance, as well as other psychological factors.

This will accomplish what you're after and lead to some mind blowing sex for both of you. Plus you'll learn to lead more and thus can set the pace you described (i.e. "the dance") when that's what you want instead of just accepting whatever it is she's into...Although, as the author will explain, variety is also very important; so you'll want to mix up your style and tempo on a constant basis to keep things fresh and exciting if you're banging her on the regular too.

Post: #10

I should have mentioned I am reading sex god method over and over again. It works for most girls to make them cum great and many times, to make them want more, to make them want to see me again and such. However, in this thread I guess I am trying to optimize my own enjoyment.

(07-03-2018 09:13 AM)Maistre Wrote:  Practice, practice, practice dude. The more you have sex with the same person, the better you guys will get both at fucking each other and at sex generally. Really the only way to get "good" at sex is by having a lot of it with the same person - if you're just hooking up with randoms all the time, the build up of sexual chemistry will always reset to zero, and neither partner will be able to develop or try new things out.

Not in my experience. I had girls which I had exceptional mind blowing sex with in the first, second or third sessions as opposed to a multi year good but not mind blowing high sex drive relationship.

Post: #11

(07-03-2018 04:34 AM)ShuaiGe Wrote:  Sex is like pizza, even when it's bad it's good

When you can mix both it's even better...

Post: #12

Being good at sex isn't hard, it just takes a bit of effort and some internet research.

Men and women are both guilty of not making an effort (from what my women tell me 3 pump chumps or porn imitators are everywhere)

A lot of women think they just have to turn up and say yes.

Its not a case of "teaching them" its a case of finding one that can be bothered to make an effort.

Simple as that.