Post: #1

OK, guys, here's the deal: I moved to Hamburg, Germany around 3 weeks ago and started to dip my toe back into the waters of daygame soon after I arrived, although I've only racked up a modest 20 approaches since then. So far, I've gotten a couple of numbers, one of which didn't respond at all after I texted her and the other girl was texting me back and forth but who kept putting off a date because of work, she claimed and who I then wrote off as somebody that was simply trying to give me a gentle blowout. Other than that, they've just been blowouts, although I would say that the vast majority of these have been hotties in their early 20s and, as I'm almost 44, I wasn't exactly expecting to be scooping up young pussy left and right. OK, so dismal, I thought ...

Today, on my way back to my flat, I notice a flyer attached to a traffic light signal post near to the main tube stop where I'm living. After inspecting it closely, it was addressed to me in terms of my address and nationality (I had told some of my sets which part of town I'm living in), and gave a very basic description of the girl who'd penned it, in terms of eye colour and dress. Anyway, she goes on to ask whether I'll meet up with her at the same place that I opened her, which was in a completely different part of Hamburg. And this is where it gets interesting ...

Although I can't remember which of the sets this was, I know that she must have been at least bangable, otherwise I wouldn't have been motivated to approach. But, a part of me is wondering whether this request to meet up might not be some sort of trap. For example, what if she's some sort of radfem nutjob who, after marinating on her pent-up anger that a man had had the temerity to approach her, has now decided to "teach me a lesson" by making a false allegation to the police who will also show up with her when I arrive. Or, alternatively, I might arrive only to find a welcoming committee of her and her nutjob feminazi crew or, more menacing still, a couple of heavies (the latter scenario, though, I regard as highly unlikely, for German girls). Yes, I know this might sound paranoid, but as somebody that's experienced some bizarre situations in the course of daygaming, such as having security detain me and the police later arrive to interview me at a shopping mall in the UK after I opened a set with an innocent comment on a girl's dress, I don't rule anything out these days.

So, my question is: How would you guys play this situation? Has anybody had anything similar happen to them in terms of a girl initially giving you a blowout in set, only to later want to meet up? I can say I've ever had that happen, so I'm naturally suspicious.

Post: #2

Assume she’s sincere... would she use this method to contact you? She doesn’t have your number or facebook? What happened when you met? I assume she’s a waitress or a sales assistant?

I agree that it’s a bit suspicious, unless you are a 9...

Post: #3

(07-18-2018 08:29 AM)Montrose Wrote:  Assume she’s sincere... would she use this method to contact you? She doesn’t have your number or facebook? What happened when you met? I assume she’s a waitress or a sales assistant?

I agree that it’s a bit suspicious, unless you are a 9...

Well, after a I delivered my opener and, I assume, a bit of comfort running game, she must have bailed, so she wouldn't have had my number and I wouldn't have had the chance to either get hers.

Post: #4

20 approaches in 21 days is very little. Go get enough leads to pursue that you don't even feel like pursuing strange flyers posted on traffic lights. Why are you giving out your address? Is this story true? If it is I'd tear that flyer down and keep walking if I were you.

Post: #5

(07-18-2018 10:09 AM)ShuaiGe Wrote:  20 approaches in 21 days is very little. Go get enough leads to pursue that you don't even feel like pursuing strange flyers posted on traffic lights. Why are you giving out your address? Is this story true? If it is I'd tear that flyer down and keep walking if I were you.

I think you've got the wrong end of the stick - I didn't put up the flyer myself. One of the girls I approached on the street whilst daygaming, but who I didn't number close with, put up the flyer in a part of town that I told her I was living in to try to get in touch with me.

Post: #6

I'd pursue at least for the story if nothing else. Sounds like an interesting and compelling scenario. Does the flyer give details on where she hangs around and what time of day? If you saw her again would you recognize her?

Post: #7

(07-18-2018 08:29 AM)Montrose Wrote:  Assume she’s sincere... would she use this method to contact you? She doesn’t have your number or facebook? What happened when you met? I assume she’s a waitress or a sales assistant?

I agree that it’s a bit suspicious, unless you are a 9...

I concur; Spidersense tingling on this.

Post: #8

Women do wierd stuff all the time, it might be legit. In the old days the personals had a missed connections column.

As for personal safety, trust your instinct. Are you new to day game where you might be offending a small percentage? Or do you charm them even if they hey are not interested? I try to talk to everyone, old ladies etc just to practice being social/friendly/light. Being in a foreign country you might not be calibrated yet.

ShuaiGe has a good point. You are better investing your time in more day game than making exceptional effort to follow up a weak lead. Don’t get too attached to any lead

Post: #9

I'd honestly go for it. If you have reason to be suspicious, send in a friend first.

Post: #10

(07-18-2018 12:39 PM)General Stalin Wrote:  I'd pursue at least for the story if nothing else. Sounds like an interesting and compelling scenario. Does the flyer give details on where she hangs around and what time of day? If you saw her again would you recognize her?

I'm also curious how this will play out. Use any recollection you have of what happened and her behavior to decide. You must remember something if it hasn't been that long ago and she's 1 of 20, not 100.

Post: #11

(07-18-2018 08:21 AM)Feldeinsamkeit Wrote:  OK, guys, here's the deal: I moved to Hamburg, Germany around 3 weeks ago and started to dip my toe back into the waters of daygame soon after I arrived, although I've only racked up a modest 20 approaches since then. So far, I've gotten a couple of numbers, one of which didn't respond at all after I texted her and the other girl was texting me back and forth but who kept putting off a date because of work, she claimed and who I then wrote off as somebody that was simply trying to give me a gentle blowout. Other than that, they've just been blowouts, although I would say that the vast majority of these have been hotties in their early 20s and, as I'm almost 44, I wasn't exactly expecting to be scooping up young pussy left and right. OK, so dismal, I thought ...

Today, on my way back to my flat, I notice a flyer attached to a traffic light signal post near to the main tube stop where I'm living. After inspecting it closely, it was addressed to me in terms of my address and nationality (I had told some of my sets which part of town I'm living in), and gave a very basic description of the girl who'd penned it, in terms of eye colour and dress. Anyway, she goes on to ask whether I'll meet up with her at the same place that I opened her, which was in a completely different part of Hamburg. And this is where it gets interesting ...

Although I can't remember which of the sets this was, I know that she must have been at least bangable, otherwise I wouldn't have been motivated to approach. But, a part of me is wondering whether this request to meet up might not be some sort of trap. For example, what if she's some sort of radfem nutjob who, after marinating on her pent-up anger that a man had had the temerity to approach her, has now decided to "teach me a lesson" by making a false allegation to the police who will also show up with her when I arrive. Or, alternatively, I might arrive only to find a welcoming committee of her and her nutjob feminazi crew or, more menacing still, a couple of heavies (the latter scenario, though, I regard as highly unlikely, for German girls). Yes, I know this might sound paranoid, but as somebody that's experienced some bizarre situations in the course of daygaming, such as having security detain me and the police later arrive to interview me at a shopping mall in the UK after I opened a set with an innocent comment on a girl's dress, I don't rule anything out these days.

So, my question is: How would you guys play this situation? Has anybody had anything similar happen to them in terms of a girl initially giving you a blowout in set, only to later want to meet up? I can say I've ever had that happen, so I'm naturally suspicious.

What did the flyer say?

Post: #12

(07-18-2018 12:39 PM)General Stalin Wrote:  I'd pursue at least for the story if nothing else. Sounds like an interesting and compelling scenario. Does the flyer give details on where she hangs around and what time of day? If you saw her again would you recognize her?

No, but she suggested to meet up in the same place where I originally approached her at a particular date and time. I wrote back on the flyer that I was up for it, left my mobile number and asked her to confirm by sending me a text.

Anyway, in for a penny, in for a pussy; we shall see, what will come of this.

Post: #13

(07-18-2018 03:36 PM)Eugenics Wrote:  

(07-18-2018 08:21 AM)Feldeinsamkeit Wrote:  OK, guys, here's the deal: I moved to Hamburg, Germany around 3 weeks ago and started to dip my toe back into the waters of daygame soon after I arrived, although I've only racked up a modest 20 approaches since then. So far, I've gotten a couple of numbers, one of which didn't respond at all after I texted her and the other girl was texting me back and forth but who kept putting off a date because of work, she claimed and who I then wrote off as somebody that was simply trying to give me a gentle blowout. Other than that, they've just been blowouts, although I would say that the vast majority of these have been hotties in their early 20s and, as I'm almost 44, I wasn't exactly expecting to be scooping up young pussy left and right. OK, so dismal, I thought ...

Today, on my way back to my flat, I notice a flyer attached to a traffic light signal post near to the main tube stop where I'm living. After inspecting it closely, it was addressed to me in terms of my address and nationality (I had told some of my sets which part of town I'm living in), and gave a very basic description of the girl who'd penned it, in terms of eye colour and dress. Anyway, she goes on to ask whether I'll meet up with her at the same place that I opened her, which was in a completely different part of Hamburg. And this is where it gets interesting ...

Although I can't remember which of the sets this was, I know that she must have been at least bangable, otherwise I wouldn't have been motivated to approach. But, a part of me is wondering whether this request to meet up might not be some sort of trap. For example, what if she's some sort of radfem nutjob who, after marinating on her pent-up anger that a man had had the temerity to approach her, has now decided to "teach me a lesson" by making a false allegation to the police who will also show up with her when I arrive. Or, alternatively, I might arrive only to find a welcoming committee of her and her nutjob feminazi crew or, more menacing still, a couple of heavies (the latter scenario, though, I regard as highly unlikely, for German girls). Yes, I know this might sound paranoid, but as somebody that's experienced some bizarre situations in the course of daygaming, such as having security detain me and the police later arrive to interview me at a shopping mall in the UK after I opened a set with an innocent comment on a girl's dress, I don't rule anything out these days.

So, my question is: How would you guys play this situation? Has anybody had anything similar happen to them in terms of a girl initially giving you a blowout in set, only to later want to meet up? I can say I've ever had that happen, so I'm naturally suspicious.

What did the flyer say?

It suggested a time/place to meet up with her in the near future, but didn't leave her contact details.

Post: #14

(07-18-2018 03:26 PM)Trent W. Wrote:  

(07-18-2018 12:39 PM)General Stalin Wrote:  I'd pursue at least for the story if nothing else. Sounds like an interesting and compelling scenario. Does the flyer give details on where she hangs around and what time of day? If you saw her again would you recognize her?

I'm also curious how this will play out. Use any recollection you have of what happened and her behavior to decide. You must remember something if it hasn't been that long ago and she's 1 of 20, not 100.

Strange as it might sound, I'm simply not sure. There was one really cute, mid-to-late 20s blonde with a bike that I eye-fucked for a minute or so before approaching.
But - and I still kick myself here - when she said that she had to go, I took this as a blowout and didn't go for the number, even though the eye contact and rapport felt really good with her. I just hope it was her, since she was very attractive. I've checked the date in my daygame diary and it's in the right ballpark, but there were some other sets on that day and I also can't rule any of those out as a possible candidate for this mysterious flyer action.

Anyway, I'm going roll with this and report back if/when the meet up takes place.

Post: #15

(07-18-2018 04:12 PM)Feldeinsamkeit Wrote:  

(07-18-2018 03:26 PM)Trent W. Wrote:  

(07-18-2018 12:39 PM)General Stalin Wrote:  I'd pursue at least for the story if nothing else. Sounds like an interesting and compelling scenario. Does the flyer give details on where she hangs around and what time of day? If you saw her again would you recognize her?

I'm also curious how this will play out. Use any recollection you have of what happened and her behavior to decide. You must remember something if it hasn't been that long ago and she's 1 of 20, not 100.

Strange as it might sound, I'm simply not sure. There was one really cute, mid-to-late 20s blonde with a bike that I eye-fucked for a minute or so before approaching.
But - and I still kick myself here - when she said that she had to go, I took this as a blowout and didn't go for the number, even though the eye contact and rapport felt really good with her. I just hope it was her, since she was very attractive. I've checked the date in my daygame diary and it's in the right ballpark, but there were some other sets on that day and I also can't rule any of those out as a possible candidate for this mysterious flyer action.

Anyway, I'm going roll with this and report back if/when the meet up takes place.

Feld, I concur with what Stalin expressed - pursue even just for the story. People change their minds in the course of their lives, don't they? Probably she consulted her girlfriends and decided to give it a go?

However, given you had an unpleasant experience in a shopping mall (you're not the only one - I had security approach me and my wing in M&S that I frequented in the UK and we were told to stop "bothering" women because there were some verbal complaints (yeah, sure). However, that was all, I can't imagine that in your case the Police was called!

Given what you've said, I highly recommend (and that's what I do every time, no exception) to safe-guard yourself from potential misunderstandings, especially in a foreign land:

- Always wear headphones with a mic (or fix a proper lavalier mic undershirt) and audio record your sets (I use Recordr for Android, works well). Ideally, in this age of false allegations, audio record dates and further action as well so you could sleep sound and well each night.

Post: #16

(07-20-2018 01:50 PM)ksbms Wrote:  

(07-18-2018 04:12 PM)Feldeinsamkeit Wrote:  

(07-18-2018 03:26 PM)Trent W. Wrote:  

(07-18-2018 12:39 PM)General Stalin Wrote:  I'd pursue at least for the story if nothing else. Sounds like an interesting and compelling scenario. Does the flyer give details on where she hangs around and what time of day? If you saw her again would you recognize her?

I'm also curious how this will play out. Use any recollection you have of what happened and her behavior to decide. You must remember something if it hasn't been that long ago and she's 1 of 20, not 100.

Strange as it might sound, I'm simply not sure. There was one really cute, mid-to-late 20s blonde with a bike that I eye-fucked for a minute or so before approaching.
But - and I still kick myself here - when she said that she had to go, I took this as a blowout and didn't go for the number, even though the eye contact and rapport felt really good with her. I just hope it was her, since she was very attractive. I've checked the date in my daygame diary and it's in the right ballpark, but there were some other sets on that day and I also can't rule any of those out as a possible candidate for this mysterious flyer action.

Anyway, I'm going roll with this and report back if/when the meet up takes place.

Feld, I concur with what Stalin expressed - pursue even just for the story. People change their minds in the course of their lives, don't they? Probably she consulted her girlfriends and decided to give it a go?

However, given you had an unpleasant experience in a shopping mall (you're not the only one - I had security approach me and my wing in M&S that I frequented in the UK and we were told to stop "bothering" women because there were some verbal complaints (yeah, sure). However, that was all, I can't imagine that in your case the Police was called!

Given what you've said, I highly recommend (and that's what I do every time, no exception) to safe-guard yourself from potential misunderstandings, especially in a foreign land:

- Always wear headphones with a mic (or fix a proper lavalier mic undershirt) and audio record your sets (I use Recordr for Android, works well). Ideally, in this age of false allegations, audio record dates and further action as well so you could sleep sound and well each night.

Aside from her being an older set - around my age - she turned up and was really legit, with no hint of crazy. (She also doesn't have any kids). For her age, she's also really attractive with Latin blood, which is no doubt a part of what motivated me to open her in the first place. Anyway, long story short, we were together for about 2 and half hours, with her very receptive to increasing kino escalation and when we parted she seemed keen for another meet up. But, as always with the Game, you never know who's going to flake and who isn't, so I try to stay as outcome-independent as possible. But, I'm pleasantly surprised so far, especially as I had to put in less than 10 approaches to get my first daygame date in Hamburg where my set, after initially bailing from the interaction, later tracks me down through a well-targeted flyer campaign.

Post: #17

(07-20-2018 04:42 PM)Feldeinsamkeit Wrote:  Aside from her being an older set - around my age - she turned up and was really legit, with no hint of crazy. (She also doesn't have any kids). For her age, she's also really attractive with Latin blood, which is no doubt a part of what motivated me to open her in the first place. Anyway, long story short, we were together for about 2 and half hours, with her very receptive to increasing kino escalation and when we parted she seemed keen for another meet up. But, as always with the Game, you never know who's going to flake and who isn't, so I try to stay as outcome-independent as possible. But, I'm pleasantly surprised so far, especially as I had to put in less than 10 approaches to get my first daygame date in Hamburg where my set, after initially bailing from the interaction, later tracks me down through a well-targeted flyer campaign.

I'm disappointed, I was expecting an espionage thriller.

Just kidding, that's great. I hope it plays out the way you want it.

Post: #18

Wow.

This has amazing potential.

No question, you gotta pursue this.

Sure, it could be a trap of some sort, but that's vanishingly unlikely.

Cats spend too much time on RVF/TRP and get their priors all messed up.

(Myself included.)

You probably have a strong Yes Girl on your hands, with the lay being yours to lose.

Less likely, you have a girl who, like us, is also a connoisseur of experiences and is just curious.

No matter what happens, this ought* to be a great story. Possibly one that will pay far greater dividends in future mirth and pussy than the event itself will furnish.

Your frame for the situation should be that you've already won and it's just playing itself out with you going through the moves like you've been here before. BUT also that even if somehow things do go south (e.g. her buying temperature goes down or she shit tests or comfort tests you a bunch), you're still loving life because you're getting a great story.

This shit is straight out of a rom-com, so keep it light and ethereal.

(* Of course, having said that, and with the forum on tenterhooks for how this fairy tale plays out, it'll be a complete anticlimax and she'll just ghost.)

EDIT: Had not seen your post #16 when I posted that.

Sounds promising. Try to keep the rom-com fairy tale frame alive, and make sure it stays light. Given her age and given the context, she might require quite a bit of comfort IN ADDITION to heavy flirting and mild physical escalation and chatting up, and this might be one of those cases where shooting for a bang before the third date will backfire.

Post: #19

Did you try to push for the bang on the first meet? If so why not?

If she's a yes girl you had a great chance even on the first meet.

Post: #20

Stay safe brah

Post: #21

(07-20-2018 04:42 PM)Feldeinsamkeit Wrote:  Aside from her being an older set - around my age - she turned up and was really legit, with no hint of crazy. (She also doesn't have any kids). For her age, she's also really attractive with Latin blood, which is no doubt a part of what motivated me to open her in the first place. Anyway, long story short, we were together for about 2 and half hours, with her very receptive to increasing kino escalation and when we parted she seemed keen for another meet up. But, as always with the Game, you never know who's going to flake and who isn't, so I try to stay as outcome-independent as possible. But, I'm pleasantly surprised so far, especially as I had to put in less than 10 approaches to get my first daygame date in Hamburg where my set, after initially bailing from the interaction, later tracks me down through a well-targeted flyer campaign.

I want to know more details about the logistics of how you met up with her and how the date went. You said you wrote you contact info on the flyer. Did she call/text you a day later or something? What did you do for your date and why only 2.5 hours? did one of you have other engagements, just not feeling it, or was she tryna be a "good girl" and not go home with you?