Post: #1

So basically I have known this girl for years. She knows my ex. I banged her last year and she freaked in the morning. A few days later we went for a drink and went back to hers. She knew shit was gonna happen and told me to leave her house there and then. I left but I wanted the bang so I called her and said I wanted to talk. Went back in, she got all emotional and basically told me she was in love with me for years. She then pulled the same shit and told me to leave but stopped me leaving. Banged her and she said some fucked up shit in the middle. Was all good but she freaked again and stopped talking to me. I tried to initiate again cos the sex was fucking hot but she wasnt playing ball, I think cos I just broke up with my ex. A little while ago I asked her for a drink and she agreed. After some time drinking she invited me to dinner and went. She was loving it but told me to go to her place to 'call a cab' and go home. Of course I didnt. We chilled for a bit then she turned to me and said 'I want you to call a cab and leave'. I did and I left. I say this was all a shit test to see if I would leave. Style a newb so would appreciate some pro input.

Post: #2

God loves paragraphs.

Post: #3

I had a friend like this in college, who confessed that she had been in love with me for three years and had suffered silently while I smashed all of our mutual lady friends.

Unsurprisingly to those who have lived this reality, this girl was a closet lunatic. Our only sex session was borderline unbelievable, and is still in my top 10 to this day. However, she proceeded to ruin my life afterwards, and actually succeeded in causing some serious damage.

Now, I'm not saying that this girl is as crazy, but if she's flipping between emotional extremes like you describe, you're better off actually leaving. Yes, telling you to leave can be a shit test. The fake breakup is another common one. Of course, these shit tests can be defeated with good game and strong frame, but is it worth it? You're better off investing your time in more stable women.

Post: #4

This is such a random grabastic clusterfuck of word salad, that no sense can reasonably be made of it.

Let's take this one sentence, for example:

Quote:So basically I have known this girl for years. She knows my ex. I banged her last year and she freaked in the morning.

1. You've known a girl for "years."
2. This girl knows your "ex". (What exactly the fuck does that have to do with anything?)
3. You banged "her" last year. (Who the fuck are you taking about, the girl you've known for years, or the "ex" included for no reason other than to confuse the story?)
4. "She" ("ex" or the other girl?) freaked out in the morning? (WHAT THE HOLY FUCK sort of time dilation lens are you looking through to connect "last year" to "in the morning"?)

Quote:Style a newb so would appreciate some pro input.

Sure thing. Retype your entire story.

1. As BB notes - Use paragraphs.
2. Stop using ambiguous pronouns.
3. Use complete sentences.

Post: #5

Very good topic that happens to the best of us. I had this happen in a case where the ladies were bipolar or fun drug sluts. She seems to need an ego boost. Also were you escalating before she had you call a cab to leave.

Post: #6

Sounds like she's low on hormones... you need to dump a load in her.

Post: #7

(07-28-2018 01:16 PM)Investment Bro Wrote:  Now, I'm not saying that this girl is as crazy, but if she's flipping between emotional extremes like you describe, you're better off actually leaving.

She is actually one the craziest bitches I have ever known! I'm out of it but I was curious if anybody experienced this. I actually think its a standard line she gives to a lot of guys.

Post: #8

(07-28-2018 07:23 PM)Supreme4ever Wrote:  Also were you escalating before she had you call a cab to leave.

She sat as far away from me on the sofa as she could. When shit happened previously she got all insecure and bitched about how I was using her because she is the easy option. I figured let her chill and get comfortable before escalating. I think it was a mistake

Post: #9

(07-28-2018 01:28 PM)Baphomet Wrote:  This is such a random grabastic clusterfuck of word salad, that no sense can reasonably be made of it.

Let's take this one sentence, for example:

Quote:So basically I have known this girl for years. She knows my ex. I banged her last year and she freaked in the morning.

1. You've known a girl for "years."
2. This girl knows your "ex". (What exactly the fuck does that have to do with anything?)
3. You banged "her" last year. (Who the fuck are you taking about, the girl you've known for years, or the "ex" included for no reason other than to confuse the story?)
4. "She" ("ex" or the other girl?) freaked out in the morning? (WHAT THE HOLY FUCK sort of time dilation lens are you looking through to connect "last year" to "in the morning"?)

Quote:Style a newb so would appreciate some pro input.

Sure thing. Retype your entire story.

1. As BB notes - Use paragraphs.
2. Stop using ambiguous pronouns.
3. Use complete sentences.

Just reading it back. I agree. I wrote it down then my friend showed up so I posted without reading it