Post: #1

Hey fellas,

First thread, so I'll make this quick. I've been chatting this girl for a while and we have already gone on two dates (low cash-investment, she paid for first date). I've already gone second base with this girl and she's already told me she likes me. I have a third date planned, but there's a problem. She's a virgin. In fact, she told me that I was her first kiss and that she has had a bf before. She comes from conservative, catholic family with strict parents so I guess that makes sense.

I'm approaching the third date and I feel like at this point, I need to go for the bang. She has mentioned that she has some interest in losing her virginity and I teased her about it. I can see a potential LTR coming from this and I'd prefer to get a bang out of it prior to that kind of commitment.

Any advice on how to lower her virginity guard and get the bang? Or am I rushing things? Your thoughts?

P.S. she's 20, so bars are out of the question.

Post: #2

A 20 year old virgin, and you were her "first kiss" even though she's had other "boyfriends."

Is this the best you can do?

Post: #3

My mistake, she never has had a boyfriend before, forgot to put "never" in the previous post

Post: #4

What's second base to you? Has she given you a blowjob? If so, great indicator of potential bang.

Unrelated question. Are you really a bartender? There is a forum member that is looking into this as a pussy slaying profession. So maybe you can add some insight.

Post: #5

(08-09-2018 09:25 AM)Cobra Wrote:  What's second base to you? Has she given you a blowjob? If so, great indicator of potential bang.

Unrelated question. Are you really a bartender? There is a forum member that is looking into this as a pussy slaying profession. So maybe you can add some insight.

1) I guess I must be old fashioned, I always figured that 2nd base was just making out in public and groping. That's what I did.

2) I was a bartender once, it definitely depends on where you live, I was one in some rural country town and it's not so good over here.

Post: #6

I (personally) do not condone virgin pump and dumps. That's what sluts are for. You mention a "potential LTR" but since you seem bent on a formulaic third date bang, I doubt you're serious about any LTR possibilities.

Plenty of good men are looking for family oriented, low/zero notch, traditional women for LTRs leading to starting a family. What's the real benefit to you for helping to add one more of the aforementioned sluts to the human race?

No one's going to die if you take a bit more time with her to decide if she's a LTR/Wife prospect.

Post: #7

There are tons of ladies out here that are willing to drop the panties on the first or second date. If you only want to get your d*ck wet, I would personally leave the virgins and the religious women alone.

Post: #8

Have some values, don't take her V card unless you in for a proper LTR.

There are enough sluts in the world, no need to damage and create another one.

Post: #9

I'd just go for it slowly.

Look, the odds are that if you don't do it, the next guy will. And he could have even worse intentions. If you think she'll escalate that quickly, the days of her v-card are numbered and that fruit will wither. Get it while it's ripe.

Post: #10

the odds of you banging this girl right away is pretty slim.

I dont condone this method because theres definitely more girls that are not "Virgins" out there.

But i would just play the boyfriend role to the very end. Might be 6th or 7th date you get the bang and decide what you want to do from there.

Post: #11

Your chances of getting a bang are not too great unless she is the type of girl who really doesn't want to be a virgin anymore and is just looking for a normal, relatively good-looking guy to pop her cherry. I would advise you to find the balance between being persuasive and creepy about it - just make as many openings for a bang as you can (e.g. hang out at your place instead of a bar, be provocative, don't be afraid of initiating physical contact) without making her think that you are attempting to force her to do it.

Post: #12

*Update*
Sorry for not updating you guys earlier. I've decided to take your advice and take my time with this girl, she has been proving herself to be a high quality girl. And to be realistic, I don't think I'm gonna find another one like this anytime soon.

Post: #13

Don't ever limit yourself by saying "I don't think I'll be able to find a girl as good as my current one". There are around 3.5 BILLION women in this world and you won't have a problem banging/dating beautiful and relatively sane girls if you follow the principles of the game and learn from the more experienced guys on this forum. Also, your reason for going into a serious relationship should be liking the girl, not thinking that you can't find anyone who is better. If you really think she is so great, I wish you the best of luck!