Post: #1

I've caught this terrible disease.
While my previous love was gained over months, this happend on a tinder date saturday.
I met this girl I've been small talking with for about two weeks. She texted me saturday night. "I'm outside place XX. Wanna come? You can go home with me if you want" I went, bought her a drink and we were out in 15minutes walking towards her place.
She's 152cm tall with average looks, and I'm 182cm. I look huge next to her. The pussy is the tighest, best I've ever had, and she's inexperienced. Never had an orgasm from sex.
I made her bust 4 times while fucking her.
We spent 15 hours in her bed sleeping, cuddling and fucking. She kept asking for spooning and for me to put my arms around her.
She talks alot, and basically told me everything about herself, life, every detail.
I've put her messages on ignore until I figure this stuff out.

Post: #2

(10-02-2018 07:40 PM)nordicplayer Wrote:  Never had an orgasm from sex.
I made her bust 4 times while fucking her.

Did she say anything along the lines of:

"I've never done this before"
"Nobody has ever done that to me"
"This is my first time"

If yes, and you believe it then you are being fooled.

Example:

I have memories of a chick who I decided to "date" after getting out of a long relationship, she was in her early 20's and said all of those things...

The more I got to know her socially, the more Eskimo brothers I met

After the haze cleared, I took everything a lot less seriously, not that it was serious to begin with, but it definitely put things into perspective and solidified some knowledge and experiences.

Oh yeah, and she had a great feeling pussy too, real perfect fit. One of the best ever.

Post: #3

She didn't say never done this before. She had only cummed from getting fingered before. I fucked the living daylights out of her and she came 4 times

Post: #4

What I'm saying is that she is telling you this stuff. Doesn't mean it's true. I'm sure you fucked the living daylights out of her and it was great, it's also irrelevant to whether she's lying to you or not.

Women love to pump up guys egos to get the living daylights fucked out of them. It works and you are hooked

As long as you're aware of the oneitis that's cool but from this point on keep your eyes and ears peeled and keep the brain operating!

Post: #5

Thanks Jack. Even if that doesnt apply to her, it's very calming on my mind.
I'm doing radio silence for a few days, and see how she reacts. Gonna try hooking up with a girl from before, tomorrow. Clear my mind.

Post: #6

(10-02-2018 07:40 PM)nordicplayer Wrote:  I met this girl I've been small talking with for about two weeks. She texted me saturday night. "I'm outside place XX. Wanna come? You can go home with me if you want" I went, bought her a drink and we were out in 15minutes walking towards her place.

So she texted this to you before youd ever actually met in person for the first time?

Post: #7

(10-02-2018 07:52 PM)JackinMelbourne Wrote:  After the haze cleared, I took everything a lot less seriously, not that it was serious to begin with, but it definitely put things into perspective and solidified some knowledge and experiences.

Oh yeah, and she had a great feeling pussy too, real perfect fit. One of the best ever.

This is what I'm reading. Good sex soaks our brains in feel good neurotransmitters and makes us doped all to hell too.

Radio silence can work. Measured teasing can work. Those big height differentials can amplify that effect. Back in old country at 5'7" my height was a handicap. Here I'm plenty tall enough. But the bigger thing is...

Girls need to feel. Ignoring them makes them feel, but if you enjoyed the sex and want more of it you only gotta ignore her long enough to fix your head and hold frame. Play her, tease her, and exercise her fun bone. Draw out some of her flaws to give yourself perspective and rail her again. You like the sex, she likes the sex... don't fear the sex. Fear the pedestal. Flirt with other girls.

Fart in her face.

This is how you get a plate, mini-relationship, or even LTR if she passes the background check and continues to bring you joy. You have a situation that warrants your own investigation. Don't work yourself into a case of dry dick because a night of good sex with a comfortable girl made you feel good.

Post: #8

(10-02-2018 07:40 PM)nordicplayer Wrote:  best I've ever had, and she's inexperienced. Never had an orgasm from sex.

Girl game recognised

Post: #9

(10-03-2018 12:02 AM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:  

(10-02-2018 07:40 PM)nordicplayer Wrote:  best I've ever had, and she's inexperienced. Never had an orgasm from sex.

Girl game recognised

I don't know why every woman doesn't say this.

Post: #10

What if i told you girls tell you shit like "never had an orgasm" or "never been fucked good" in order for you to qualify for them and pleasure them the best you've ever done with a girl. You subconsciously put your best effort into it. It's like when we hook up with a new girl and tell her shit like "that's the best blowjob i've ever had" just to encourage her to keep it coming. She will automatically put in that little extra effort for each time to keep up the "high standard". Even when the blowjob is average at best.

RatInTheWoods knows what's up - it's girl game. Something tells me this isn't the first time this girl used this line to get a guy in the sack. I think you're being fooled by the sweet talk and the good pussy. But at least you are somewhat aware of this already. Tread carefully.

(10-02-2018 09:09 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

(10-02-2018 07:40 PM)nordicplayer Wrote:  I met this girl I've been small talking with for about two weeks. She texted me saturday night. "I'm outside place XX. Wanna come? You can go home with me if you want" I went, bought her a drink and we were out in 15minutes walking towards her place.

So she texted this to you before youd ever actually met in person for the first time?

Something smells fishy here. I would like an answer to this as well.

Post: #11

(10-02-2018 11:46 PM)BBinger Wrote:  Fart in her face.

...

If you're gonna go through with it, make sure you follow forum member AntiTrace's example.

Took me a while to dig that up from the depths of the forum archives.

Post: #12

Inviting home a guy that doesn't know in person yet... And then says she has never had an orgasm...

I'd say she does this stuff every weekend.
And, at least for me, red flags work as good cure for oneitis. Keep that on mind OP.

Post: #13

(10-02-2018 07:40 PM)nordicplayer Wrote:  I've caught this terrible disease.
While my previous love was gained over months, this happend on a tinder date saturday.
I met this girl I've been small talking with for about two weeks. She texted me saturday night. "I'm outside place XX. Wanna come? You can go home with me if you want" I went, bought her a drink and we were out in 15minutes walking towards her place.
She's 152cm tall with average looks, and I'm 182cm. I look huge next to her. The pussy is the tighest, best I've ever had, and she's inexperienced. Never had an orgasm from sex.
I made her bust 4 times while fucking her.
We spent 15 hours in her bed sleeping, cuddling and fucking. She kept asking for spooning and for me to put my arms around her.
She talks alot, and basically told me everything about herself, life, every detail.
I've put her messages on ignore until I figure this stuff out.

Lol.

Post: #14

I think it should be pointed out she's pretty insecure.
Her facebook pics dosent have a lot of likes or DHV. she keeps teksting me everything she does.
She's affraid of doggy style and jerks off with her panties on.

Post: #15

(10-03-2018 01:19 PM)nordicplayer Wrote:  Her facebook pics dosent have a lot of likes or DHV.
She's affraid of doggy style and jerks off with her panties on.

Nice green flags.

Post: #16

(10-03-2018 01:19 PM)nordicplayer Wrote:  I think it should be pointed out she's pretty insecure.
Her facebook pics dosent have a lot of likes or DHV. she keeps teksting me everything she does.
She's affraid of doggy style and jerks off with her panties on.

(10-02-2018 09:09 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

(10-02-2018 07:40 PM)nordicplayer Wrote:  I met this girl I've been small talking with for about two weeks. She texted me saturday night. "I'm outside place XX. Wanna come? You can go home with me if you want" I went, bought her a drink and we were out in 15minutes walking towards her place.

So she texted this to you before youd ever actually met in person for the first time?

OP

Please clarify. Was this the first time you had met her? Did she send you that text before you'd ever met?

Post: #17

Falling in love with a Tinder girl screams BETA.
Op needs to be in the Newbie forum with this playground game.

Post: #18

Test her for congruence. Don't let her words get to you, let her actions show you.

She can't possibly keep up the "good girl" facade forever if it's not genuine.

Watch closely how easily she bonds with you. I girl that isn't a slut, is relatively nubile in affairs of the heart and of good character will bond with you not neccicarily quickly, but very intensely. She will use some of her creativity, resources, and effort to find new ways to please you so you'll like her more.

Watch how she deals with other men. A non-promiscuous woman when fully engaged with you will barely look at other men. Of course hypergamy will rear it's head but that's not what I'm saying. She'll likely elevate your value in her head, and nothing but the highest value men will make her head turn.

Don't lose your leverage, dont "fall in love" with this girl and fuck your frame up by thinking she's the prize. That's one of the quickest ways to put an end to her affections, virgin or slut it doesn't matter. A good girl may give you slack and appreciate it from time to time but all women will slowly resent you if you don't flaunt your value or start seeing them as above you.

A lot of what you said she said is cliche. And frankly when I hear it nowadays I do double, triple, quadruple takes. I almost never believe it because it's almost never true. I may be jaded, and it is cliche for a reason. But be aware the things you mentioned are some of the most common lies to tell men to impress them. If you could say "I have a 8 inch dick, make 200k a year, and have a house on 3 continents" and by virtue of you saying it, it was effectively true to the opposite sex - would you do it? It's tempting. Women are tempted also and they know men value chastity, loyalty, and purity. They know those types of words will appeal to your ego and give them salvation by no other merit than their lips moving. It's tempting, but use standard operating procedure to check for lies.

It's nice she wants to impress you but never let a woman get away with lying to you, that will be the beginning of the end

Post: #19

I know what to do. Been texting me everyday now. I take time to respond to her and sometimes I dont.
She's going to her hometown for the weekend, and I'll be hitting the club for fresh stuff.