Post: #1

Any recommendations for resources, articles, threads, advice... on moving things forward, sexually with women? I don’t have a problem meeting women, but I seem unable to push things forward sexually, like with flirting, conversation or dating. So what happens is either the girl gets bored and moves on, or she gets real aggressive verbally or physically (if she’s horny). I can’t seem to get beyond polite, bland conversations, unless she initiates it.
To make matters worse, I, apparently, look
‘very sexual’, so the women seem to think I’m leading them on or I don’t find them attractive,
as I’m not sexually pursuing them. This has resulted in anger or frustration on their part.
I haven’t even attempted to kiss on first dates.

Post: #2

There are many threads about kino and escalation on these forums. It sounds like it's more an issue of you being nervous? Start with small kino, touching her back, hands etc in conversation. If you're getting a good vibe and she isn't resisting your touch keep escalating.

If this is truly nerves from your end I wouldn't suggest going for the first date bang so maybe you're better off just going for the makeout at the end if the kino goes well. Key take away is to make small advancements every time you're out. Soon it will become second nature.