Road to my first bang

So I'm making this thread not as an approach log, but to document small successes throughout learning game up until my first lay. For background, I am a 21 year old who hasn't done anything with a girl(date, kiss sex). I realize that I will have to start at the bottom, before even doing approaches just learning to be more social. It's time to stop living my life pathetically on the internet and wasting my life like a loser. I hope to gain not just experience with women from this, but just improving my life in all areas, being a better son, brother, teammate. I'm tired of bieng the guy who awkwardly fades out of the conversation when the topic of banging girls gets brought up. I hope to inspire others to not go the incel route and give up while complaining. If I can do it, I'm sure you can as well. Here we go.

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Good luck. There's a wealth of knowledge on here that I wish I'd known about when I was your age. Make sure you spend at least twice as much time taking meaningful action (either improving yourself or practising game, ideally a mixture of both) as you do reading about it. The sheer quantity of information can be overwhelming, which can lead to over-analysis, but the core necessary tenets of game are pretty basic and can be quickly learned. Don't neglect the older threads on game/self-improvement, there is much value to be gleaned from them.

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I wish you good luck.
I've just been trying to do it as well and so far I'm happily surprised that it's easier than I thought, I just literally never tried.
My fear was not being sure I'd be able to hold a long conversation with women, turned out that was the easiest part.

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What steps are you taking to improve your life along with success with women?

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What challenges have you had on this path?

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(03-17-2019 01:52 PM)Remington Wrote:  What steps are you taking to improve your life along with success with women?

- I'm going to cut my internet usage out except for school related stuff and RVF.
- Luckily my parents cover most of my expenses so I'm going to save almost all of my income from my part time job so that when I move out after college I have a head start.
- I also plan on reading more and am currently doing convict conditioning.
- Dress nicer
- Apply for internships
- And finally just trying to be more social and get out of my head

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(03-17-2019 02:37 PM)Cobra Wrote:  What challenges have you had on this path?

I think just being from a conservative household where having a girlfriend in K-12 would've been out of the question. My parents believe in the you'll just meet someone narrative and no sex before marriage. It would be out of the question for me to bring a girl home, I just wouldn't happen. My mother is middle eastern so she has that cultures traditional views. If I got caught banging in my house like some American teens say happened, I would be boiled alive. Aside from this I just discovered RVF and the red pill about 6 months ago and I have learned a lot from here that I just need to apply. I spend way to much time online and not in the real world. I may be a shy introvert, but I can't let that be an excuse.

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Good to see OP.

Where are you on game, what have you read, and how many approaches have you done?
Fitness level?
Addicted to tech?
Introverted?
Hobbies?
In university?
What's your social circle like?

You mentioned your convos die out sometimes. What are you going to do to fix that, or become more social.

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Reply to Heuristics:
- read day bang, the game, zero approaches
- naturally strong but super lean/skinny
- yes
- yes
- hobbies are basketball, strength training
- yes
- have a few friends that I do sports with

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(03-17-2019 09:12 PM)a mans life Wrote:  Reply to Heuristics:
- read day bang, the game, zero approaches
- naturally strong but super lean/skinny
- yes
- yes
- hobbies are basketball, strength training
- yes
- have a few friends that I do sports with

-Ok good, watch a few youtube vids, maybe "london daygame model", and start approaching.
-sounds ok
-Minimize tech use (advise would be to get off social media or turn off notifications), but share updates with us
-Work on introversion. Go out 3 or 4 nights a week. If you find yourself still lacking in motivation, try nofap.
-Find a hobby that gets you close to girls. For me it used to be: going to raves, art and music. Masculine hobbies are good too of course.
-I'm gonna assume youre in uni in the US. even if you're not take advantage of it. Play proximity game. Go to all social functions you can, and spark up conversations with girls, with intent! With intent! That's crucial. Show some interest and follow up, that's all it takes in college if you're not trying to get a single night lay. It's just crucial you establish you have something in common, that's all it takes, then, just watch for IOIs. Enjoy your time in college and get some notches. It's easy.
-As far as social circle, find some drinking buddies/ gang, or find some people you can go out with at night. Company can be mixed, just important ya'll get along and support each other.

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I know I said I would post progress here but I had a wild night. Never been to a party so I crashed a college party. I hammered a bottle of Jack Daniels and took an Uber there. Barely held in my lunch throughout the ride. I yakked in these bushes outside the building. When I got in the place was packed. I could barely stand so I went to a corner and sat down. I must've been out for a while because I woke to a sharp pain in my ankle. The guys had thrown me out into the front lawn. I felt humiliated as I walked away, I had to get them back. So I came around the back and reentered through a door. I then noticed the punch bowl was unattended, the party had moved toward the front of the house. So I took a massive shit in the punch bowl and then urinated in it to add some flavor. After this I stirred it up to blend the shit. Just then some guys entered and I pretended to be drinking soda. They got some punch, and one of them was so drunk he just threw it back. He then gagged and screamed something about there being shit in the punch bowl. As he headed to scrape his tongue clean people started to head over and see what was going on. Did you shit In the punch brah? One of the guys who kicked me out asked. I confessed and asked him what he intended to do about it. He charged me and snapped my jaw with a clean right hook. My head was ringing as I stumbled back. Suddenly I got really angry. I smashed a bottle and cracked it into his forearm. He got me in the nuts with a low punch. By now I was pretty sure I was sterile. I knocked him to the ground and started wailing on him. Some guys came behind me and hammered me with what felt like chair legs. My knee made a loud pop and I collapsed to the floor. As I tried to get up one of the guys started peeing on me while others poured beer on me. I grabbed the chair leg from the ground and shoved it straight into his sack. It exploded and all kinds of nasty fluids covered my face. The guy went hollering out the door. The guys took my limp body and bashed my teeth into the countertop. My mouth exploded with pain. They dragged me into the garage and took my pants off. They then held me sideways and let my balls droop into a vice. One guy slowly cranked it until I howled with pain as my sack exploded open. I was barely conscious at this point as they laid me down and got out a switch blade. One guy put it to my dick and said something while grinning, before slicing my dick off. At this point I didn't wince because I was in so much pain, it didn't register. O couldn't believe nobody tried to stop these guys or call the police. They all noticed they had taken it too far and started to flee the scene. I grabbed the one guys ankle as he tried to run. He kicked me in the face, snapping my nose. I reached up with my remaining strength and grabbed his balls. He froze with panic. I then tugged as hard as I could and ripped his balls right out of the sack. He yelled like a coyote and fell to his knees. I started to beat the hell out of him. I broke all his teeth, busted his lip, broke his nose. He begged me to stop, but it was too late for that. I crawled over to the tools area and grabbed the ballpin hammer. I swing it and shattered both his kneecaps. He passed out at that moment. I crawled into the kitchen and lay there, unsure of what to do. I slowly started to loose consciousness as I heard blaring sirens closing in.

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Wow really good trolling. Very impressive. Try to find a job in Hollywood...you can write some scenarios for D grade films.

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(05-07-2019 06:36 AM)Pytonga Wrote:  Wow really good trolling. Very impressive. Try to find a job in Hollywood...you can write some scenarios for D grade films.

Its not trolling, He likely tried for abit and like most other things in his life, He just gave up. Sign of a deeper problem

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