Post: #1

I'm specifically looking for songs and playlists that are NOT Rap or R&B....

I've searched Spotify and found a few Stripper rock play lists, and Country Sex playlists, but I'm still looking for that 80's/90's panty dropping playlist.

Post: #2

Don’t waste your time with this unless you just want background music to chat up a girl while drinking cocktails at home. DO NOT employ any fucking or sex playlists. Girls think it’s cheesy

Post: #3

There are some other threads on this topic but like you I'm to lazy to search for them

What you do is put this song on



Then smoke some meth with your lady friend and your guarantee to have a wild time..... not so much from the song.... mostly from the meth

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Post: #5

Old school Weeknd songs.

Post: #6

Music to seduce and music to bang to are very different.

If you've seen the film "10" with Bo Derek (recommeneded), then you know for fucking you can't beat some classical music, like Ravel's Bolero.





For seduction, something mellow like R&B is best but also Rock ballads. several of these are from the 70s but they'll do the trick.
Eagles I can't tell you why
Ambrosia - how much I feel
Bobby Caldwell - what you won't do for love
Gino Vanelli - I just want to stop
10cc - im not in love
Player - baby come back
Sade - anything
Janet Jackson, Anytime anyplace
Todd Rundgren Hello its me
Simply Red - holding back the years
Doobie brothers - what a fool beleives
Michael Mcdonald - I keep forgetting
Janet Jackson - Antime Anyplace
Sade - sweetest taboo, Is it a crime
Anita baker - rapture albun
Clapton - wonderful tonight
Bonny Rait - I can't make you love me
Wham Careless whisper

Post: #7

I wouldn't use some overt sexual music unless you're already fucking her. For getting her relaxed I'd use something more low key with some subtle sexy basslines.

Mac Aryes, Mac Demarco, Banes World are some my favs but thats just me.

Post: #8

Alina baraz is the GOAT in this area. Especially Unfold me

Post: #9

I also prefer background music, especially trip-hop.

Post: #10

(04-21-2019 06:26 AM)Hypno Wrote:  For seduction, something mellow like R&B is best but also Rock ballads. several of these are from the 70s but they'll do the trick.
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Sade - anything
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Bonny Rait - I can't make you love me

Agree 100% on anything Sade.

Post: #11

I've had good results with old rock bands like the Rolling Stones and The Doors. There's a seediness to a lot of these old songs that creates a nice vibe when you find yourself drunk and stoned in chick's apartment at 3am.

Post: #12

^^^

Side one of Led Zeppelin IV is solid too. (Demone's dating tip no. 5)

Post: #13

I've been digging lo-fi playlists for almost everything lately. Driving and talking, hanging out at the house, cooking, sex, a hot bath, etc.

Post: #14

(04-23-2019 05:33 AM)Hypno Wrote:  

Was waiting for that one. Of course, Kahmir isn't on Led Zeppelin IV.

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(04-22-2019 12:02 PM)Henry Chinaski Wrote:  I've had good results with old rock bands like the Rolling Stones and The Doors. There's a seediness to a lot of these old songs that creates a nice vibe when you find yourself drunk and stoned in chick's apartment at 3am.

The Scorpions are perfect for this.

Post: #16

(04-23-2019 09:08 PM)questor70 Wrote:  Was waiting for that one. Of course, Kahmir isn't on Led Zeppelin IV.

Yeah, I don't think Led Zeppelin would get you laid these days anyway, but Kashmir would be a good one to bang to. Demone's advice otherwise is pretty solid.

Post: #17

70s funk/soul. Al Green, Ohio Players, etc.

Post: #18

(04-24-2019 05:05 AM)Hypno Wrote:  

(04-23-2019 09:08 PM)questor70 Wrote:  Was waiting for that one. Of course, Kahmir isn't on Led Zeppelin IV.

Yeah, I don't think Led Zeppelin would get you laid these days anyway, but Kashmir would be a good one to bang to. Demone's advice otherwise is pretty solid.

Zep and the doors are to sacred for me to play while banging hoes. I just play techno or the equivalent of trap in colombia that's reggaeton. I would only play zep if I were to have a child with my wife haha. Tried one time to bang to kind of blue by miles davis but it didn't and we changed it.

Post: #19

I was once seduced by a woman with the album "Faith" by George Michael. I never really appreciated his songs until a woman was whispering them into my ear.

Post: #20

(04-21-2019 09:00 PM)5-7 Hedonist Wrote:  Agree 100% on anything Sade.

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There's a lot of love for Sade in this thread. I like Sade music for sex.

The Weeknd is good too.

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Post: #23

Over the years I've put together a 7 hour playlist for this. If I can't close the deal within that window, then it's not meant to be. Or she's on the rag.

First of all, lighting is probably an equally important element in getting the mood right. For this, I've found nothing better than overhead orange vintage lighting with Edison bulbs.



A single lamp + lampshade in a room with a standard yellow bulb is the next best option.



If you're trying to set a vibe and you've got overhead white fluorescent lighting, forget about it. You might as well bring her back to the reception area of a suburban Class B office.

On to the music... I go for a mostly slow, primitive vibe. Some songs are slightly upbeat. Others slower. It shouldn't reference sex explicitly. That's vulgar.

There is an art to this. There should be an overall 'je ne sais quoi' to the selection.

The playlist should ideally be mixed between lesser known indie songs and familiar songs, ideally barely remixed and never recent 'pop'. The reason for this is that it suggests you're plugged into clasically "cool" music and that you also have independent, discriminating taste.

I'll play a wide variety from acoustic to electronic to hip hop to psychedelic to beat tape tracks. I've also ripped songs from DJ sets.

Since the OP asked for songs that are NOT rap + r&b, here are some on my playlist that fit that criteria:

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The Cure
Close To Me [Closer Mix]





Note: this remixed version is nearly identical to the original, but the BPM is significantly slower.


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Alice in Chains
Nutshell (From MTV Unplugged)






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The Juan Maclean
Running Back to You






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Sophie Meiers
wish you still felt this way

Post: #24

Stormy Monday gets me ready to rumble. Not sure if it sends the wrong message though...

Post: #25

(04-24-2019 05:14 AM)ilostabet Wrote:  70s funk/soul. Al Green, Ohio Players, etc.