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girls that are neighbors, gym approaching
Similar to another recent post, I'm single as of last year and I'm 30. I had had a nonstop series on long-term gf's since about 2000, so didn't have much opportunity to work on my game since college.

So the gym approach - the issue for me is not so much being petrified of the approach itself - it's that my gym is in my super quiet megaplex apartment building rather than being a sports club somewhere external. So everybody you work out with is also technically your neighbor. And there is one particular neighbor I definitely want to meet, and who has given plenty of indicators she wants to meet me.

my questions are - How have you altered your game when working on a girl in your apartment building, if at all? do you view it just like any other scenario?

i guess this is somewhat similar to coworkers, but the aspect of familiarity/proximity has really made me hesitate here..
07-23-2009 12:03 PM
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If she has given you indicators, you don't need game to open. Something simple like "Another exciting workout huh?" Then just chat.

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07-23-2009 02:04 PM
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looks like i'm getting too cerebral here. thanks for your take on it. bought and read bang 2x in the past 3 days. into the field....
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07-23-2009 02:40 PM
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RE: girls that are neighbors, gym approaching
Never, and I mean never swoop on a girl that lives in your same building.

That is 101 stuff.

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07-23-2009 05:13 PM
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at first that was counterintuitive to me, but i see why you say that. and that's why i'm here. peace
07-24-2009 11:53 AM
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"at first that was counterintuitive to me, but i see why you say that. and that's why i'm here. peace"

No sweat.

Most solid Game is counter intuitive.

That is why I am here as well.

Obviously you understand, but if you swoop a girl in your building you are basically having a live in girlfriend.

Not a smooth move if you want to swoop mad amounts of girls.

The better move is to network with her, and get her to introduce you to other girls.

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07-24-2009 11:56 AM
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ever heard of the saying, "don't shit where you eat?"
07-30-2009 02:38 AM
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