Post: #1

Alright..I'm kinda in a relationship. But this doesn't stop me from meeting other women. In a way I guess its like 'keeping my options open"
And its not even like im purposely doing it..I just naturally meet other people.
which usually ends up with them calling.texting me. or the main problem. finding my facebook...

I(of course) don't mention im having a relationship..when it comes to facebook. i set certain girls under setting so they cant see that basic info area.

my question is; I kinda wanna get rid of of this privacy..but im concerned if most women care that im openly flirting.seeing them when its not even hidden that im in a relationship. (referring to roosh's blog) my girlfriend is more on the needy side..and feels good knowing facebook says we are together...
I just like the challenge of other girls.

Post: #2

Not sure what you are looking for us to tell you.

Are you asking for advice for your Facebook settings?

Not really my area of expertise.

- MPM
The Guide to Getting More out of Life
http://www.thegmanifesto.com

Post: #3

I guess ill rephrase my bold writing.

Should I care whether the girl knows I'm in a relationship when i /attempt/ to pick her up?
Do women /on average/ care that the guy may be in a different relationship while he is with her?

Post: #4

"Should I care whether the girl knows I'm in a relationship when i /attempt/ to pick her up?"

Should you care? No. Should you advertise that you are in a relationship? No (in most cases).

"Do women /on average/ care that the guy may be in a different relationship while he is with her? "

On average, yes.

- MPM
The Guide to Getting More out of Life
http://www.thegmanifesto.com

Post: #5

This is where you really have to feel the girl out. Find out whether she's looking for a relationship or a hookup, and if she's looking for a hookup, she probably won't care.

A lot of this has to do with a girl's age, what she wants at that point, etc. It's hard to tell "generally" what "most" girls want.

Post: #6

Lol..any ideas on what to say if i get called out by the girl when she realized i do have a girlfriend?

Post: #7

Make yourself completely non-boyfriend material. If you want to fuck around, this is the best option, because no girl will want a relationship with you, but they will still want to have fun with you. This is the route I've taken recently, and for the most part, has made things very friendly.

Post: #8

I see absolutely no reason to show whether you are in a relationship or not on facebook. I have 400 fb "friends"... why the fuck would i want any of them to know exactly who i'm seeing/fucking, especially since many of them are girls i will mostly likely have sex with in the future

Post: #9

The guys I've known that were/are cheating on their girlfriends the most, definitely do not list their relationship status on facebook. Some even set their stuff to not let anyone post on their wall, not for fear of another girl finding out about their girl, but for their girl finding out about these other girls.

After I finished my last relationship (3.5 years) I decided that I'd never be in another relationship again in which I did not sleep around. I had so many golden opportunities at pussy that I blew off because of morality issues. Nuts to that! When I got out of the relationship those leads had long gone cold, I'll never put myself in that position again.

My opinion now is, you wouldn't go driving without a spare tire right? So why get in a relationship without a spare girl on the side, just in case? Although, I advise you only store one in your trunk.

Post: #10

When I had a fling while with my current gf I straight up told her. She's still with me and realizes that I can get other pussy when I feel like it and respects that.

Post: #11

(08-12-2009 10:25 AM)Trotter Wrote:  When I had a fling while with my current gf I straight up told her. She's still with me and realizes that I can get other pussy when I feel like it and respects that.

Ha.

Strong Game.

- MPM
The Guide to Getting More out of Life
http://www.thegmanifesto.com

Post: #12

"Are women turned off by a man already in a relationship " not if the gf in question is hot/way above average.

a man with an attractive women attracts other attractive women.

Post: #13

Excellent point metalhaze. The hotter your girl, the more intrigued other women will be.

Which girls you can bag while in relationship also depends where they stand on morality. If she herself would cheat, than yes, being in a relationship is a turn-on given you're dating a good looking girl. Otherwise don't say anything. Now, she might claim she never cheats, but one can generally tell between a cheater and a non-cheater early on, like within the first five minutes (see roissy's love test).

Post: #14

Some girls initially are attracted to married or taken men because it makes you seem stable and "mature", desired etc. But after a little while and depending on if there are a group of girls that know you're taken (local bartender/waitresses..co-workers, FB friends) then you might start to get the cold shoulder once they start talking and letting others know you're taken but still out and about, looking, cheating etc.

In short its really better to let girls know less about your personal life.

Post: #15

lets go at it from what happened last night.... I was at a bar, I went out with Rosalyn a few times shagged once, I tried to hook up one of rosalyns hot friends(tatiana) with my buddy but she wasnt interested. When I go out, Rosalyn and I act as friends. I met up with Tatiana one night and went out with her bad time of the month but she told me she wants me next time we are out alone(but not to say anything to rosalyn).

2 other chicks show up 1 who I messed around with before Andrea. oh wait, then 2 other chicks I shagged were at this bar. Another female friend shows up who is mostly lesbo, with her boss, so 5 girls and 2 guys. So some crazy dynamics.... now I all but ignored Rosalyns calls and messages over the past week because she acted jealous and was talking shit about how I flirt too much.

Andrea, and her friend are dancing and grinding on me... so then rosalyn decides she wants to show them up, the girls each escalate all night (tati, rosalyn and andrea), I am flirting with all of them but not giving either too much attention throughout the night. Competition my man!

I wish there was a good end to the story, I did take 5 girls back to my place but we got drunk, and passed out. Oh well.

anyway girls are very competitive by nature, they want what others have or are perceived to have. I would keep my facebook wall private, (but I dont because I dont care) if you mention you have a girl friend fine but dont keep bringing it up. and dont let her either.