@ Roosh,
How about creating a "forum directory" of sorts? Right now, there is absolutely no way to tell who is in your city or nearby aside from posting in the meetup forum and hoping people see and reply to your thread.
I think it would be a great feature to have a searchable database of members and their locations. So if I'm in LA, I could type in "Los Angeles," hit search and see which other RVFers are there that I can hit up via PM. This would come in especially handy for times when you're taking an extended trip and hitting up multiple cities and want to meet up with any members who may live there.
Of course, many people are justly concerned with privacy and may not want to share their location, so this would work on a purely opt-in basis. I don't know what kind of functionality the forum software gives you by default, but this kind of application would be trivial to write, even for a newb like myself. Basically just a single database table to store usernames and locations, 2 or 3 HTML forms, and some queries to input your username, set your location, and search for other usernames in a location.