Post: #1

Happened twice in the last month during the advanced seduction phase of our first meetup.

Was walking with a gorgeous girl in the buenos aires night and she asked me this...it had literally been that morning but I said last night cause I didn't want her to be grossed out my cock had been in another girls orifices a couple hours ago. Got a make out and sealed the deal on the second date.

Btw she told me it had been over a year since she banged because she was looking for a serious relationship and said i was really lucky I got laid and was a player... Told her it wasn't luck, it was a lot of help from above. She loved this reply.

Was walking with a bombshell in warsaw night and she asked me the same question. I didn't want to say but she pressed on and I told her less than a week ago. She was pleasantly surprised. In the uber to my pad she asked if it would get me hard if she told me she hasn't been penetrated in several months while holding onto my cock. Banged the fuck outta that russian girl.

Anyways, how would you reply to that question? I guess like everything you need to calibrate to the girl and get a feel for the context of the situation. Really curious to see how you guys would've handled it as I am expecting this kind of test will come up again.

Post: #2

Unless you have a really specific goal in mind (don't want to spook an innocent girl), just be honest.

Evading these types of questions never looks good if you don't know how to do it well and nothing beats the peace of mind that honesty brings.

G

Post: #3

Fuck around with her. Tell her you're a virgin with a smirk on your face and spin the conversation. Unless you look like a virgin, then you may have to come up with something else.

Post: #4

Right before coming to meet you.

Post: #5

Here are some of my favorites comebacks:
1. "What day is it today?"
2. "Guess"
3. "So I see you have something on your mind. Naughty girl. Keep it up"
4. "A gentleman never tells"
5. "You're funny. I can see I picked right"

I also use them when asked about my last LTR

Post: #6

This is nothing but a shit test. Diffuse with humor and sarcasm.

Post: #7

I only have two responses to something childish like that and the responses are equally childish.

Either "All the time" or "I've never had sex before".

If they push it more then give even more ridiculous responses.

Post: #8

Her "When is the last time you had sex?"

PT "Do you always wear white pants after Labor Day? That's kind of weird but I guess fashion isn't as important to girls as it used to be"

Shit tests are best dismissed.

Ignore direct questions.

Game 101

Post: #9

"I don't kiss and tell".

I used to be playful about it and it works for certain age groups but I usually just smother it with discretion and mention nothing.

When they probe again (and they usually will), it's a simple "a few weeks or so".

It's not too far away in the past and not imminent.

I told a girl once, "this morning", which was true but that pretty much turned her off.

Post: #10

Depending on the situation and if you can pull it off: Grab her tightly, look in her eys: "It's been a while, sex is something special for me."

Post: #11

I’d say, if she is asking, it’s a shit test, and her answer to the same question is most probably a lie. “A year”... my ass! She wants you to treat her like something special. - If I ask first, she may be telling the truth.
Call me cynical, but I would call it factual realism.

Post: #12

Cosign the replies about this being a shit test, brush it off, laugh it off, make a joke regarding the circumstance, be playful, she will forget about it in less than a minute. Don't be played

Post: #13

"Ask me again in x minutes."

Post: #14

How about,
I'm old and suffering from dementia, I can't remember if I had breakfast today.

Post: #15

Not a good sign if she asks that.

Post: #16

I tell her honestly and it never really affects my game. A lot of times I’ll ask her. Probably pretty advanced game to be able to pull it off correctly though.

Post: #17

Serious question, do you think a girl are put off by you being honest and if you say it's been forever since your last bang, or it's been months or even if you have a long dry spell of 1 year and say a year ago? Do they think of you as lower value because you're not having/getting sex? So if no girls are competing for you, why should she?

Or is it good in some cases because they think you're not a player and just a regular dude that can be trusted, and not someone that fucks around and disappears (if they genuinely believe your word for it).

Which one is it.

I wonder sometimes if it's good being honest and just telling it straight up that you're mostly a LTR guy and want some kind of feelings involved before fucking, or it will backfire on you. They might cross you off the list as "boring" since hookup culture is normal nowadays and one night stand is normal. And girls just wanna have fun without commitment most of the time.

Post: #18

Telling my last girlfriend the truth that "I lost count after 50 and think it is was now around 80." was the worst mistake I ever made in that relationship. She beat me over the head with it every chance she got. IRON RULE of Tomassi #2: NEVER (NEVER EVER) tell a girl how many people you have slept with. This not only keeps you in the clear, but also leaves their imagination to wonder and I have found to actually be a benefit.

Post: #19

(10-03-2018 02:58 PM)lifecrisis Wrote:  Serious question, do you think a girl are put off by you being honest and if you say it's been forever since your last bang, or it's been months or even if you have a long dry spell of 1 year and say a year ago? Do they think of you as lower value because you're not having/getting sex? So if no girls are competing for you, why should she?

Or is it good in some cases because they think you're not a player and just a regular dude that can be trusted, and not someone that fucks around and disappears (if they genuinely believe your word for it).

Which one is it.

When I was younger and didn't understand why I was having the successes I was having, I would have said "it depends".

Now I realize it's almost always the first case, and that the few women who fall into the second case are almost always very strange in other ways. If anything, trying to be kind and telling a woman it'd been a while probably gave a false sense of confidence that she had a man who needed her more than she needed him on the hook.

You don't have to come off as a "player" to come off as a guy who fucks. The possibility of other women, without making it explicit, adds a little danger, mystery, and emotional currency. The more she feels like she's trying to solve a Rubik's Cube the more she'll stick with it.

Honestly, some of the women who got the most hooked were the ones who knew damn well I was probably banging another woman the same day and there was nothing they could do about it. Never, ever let them be sure of it, though.

Post: #20

(10-04-2018 04:42 PM)InvoluntaryHermit Wrote:  Telling my last girlfriend the truth that "I lost count after 50 and think it is was now around 80." was the worst mistake I ever made in that relationship. She beat me over the head with it every chance she got. IRON RULE of Tomassi #2: NEVER (NEVER EVER) tell a girl how many people you have slept with. This not only keeps you in the clear, but also leaves their imagination to wonder and I have found to actually be a benefit.

That's not what this thread is about. That is the one question in game I don't answer unless I know I'm talking to a slut who won't care. Any LTR potential, that is a question I normally answer with one of the many scripts that are out there.

Post: #21

(10-03-2018 09:30 AM)Rocha Wrote:  Not a good sign if she asks that.

Why?

Post: #22

"Never, sex before marriage is a sin" with a shit eater grin on your face.

Post: #23

(10-02-2018 12:32 AM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  Her "When is the last time you had sex?"

Ignore direct questions.

Shit tests are best dismissed.



Game 101

Follow up: Nothing you can do or say will ever game a woman for you as much as her own imagination.

Post: #24

(10-05-2018 08:22 AM)Noir Wrote:  

(10-03-2018 09:30 AM)Rocha Wrote:  Not a good sign if she asks that.

Why?

Because a woman should follow not lead and that includes topics of conversations.

If she says something like that, she's not only dominating the conversation but making it vulgar as well. It's not something a respectable girl would bring up.

Only disgusting, sex and the city watching western sluts would say something like that in casual conversation when they're getting to know someone.

Also, she probably has other reasons for asking this. She suspects you have a lot of sex or don't have a lot of sex and is trying to find out in a very direct but socially awkward way. A girl with more social intelligence, manners and politeness would try to work out the answer to this in another more socially acceptable way.

Maybe it's part of the cultural differences between the UK and the USA. You guys ask people direct questions like "how much do you make?" Whereas in England we are more polite and avoid asking questions like that.

Post: #25

(10-05-2018 06:19 PM)RedPillUK Wrote:  

(10-05-2018 08:22 AM)Noir Wrote:  

(10-03-2018 09:30 AM)Rocha Wrote:  Not a good sign if she asks that.

Why?

Because a woman should follow not lead and that includes topics of conversations.

If she says something like that, she's not only dominating the conversation but making it vulgar as well. It's not something a respectable girl would bring up.

Only disgusting, sex and the city watching western sluts would say something like that in casual conversation when they're getting to know someone.

Also, she probably has other reasons for asking this. She suspects you have a lot of sex or don't have a lot of sex and is trying to find out in a very direct but socially awkward way. A girl with more social intelligence, manners and politeness would try to work out the answer to this in another more socially acceptable way.

Maybe it's part of the cultural differences between the UK and the USA. You guys ask people direct questions like "how much do you make?" Whereas in England we are more polite and avoid asking questions like that.

If you're discussing sex and certain topics, girls will prod and be curious. For me this falls into that category and I see nothing wrong with it.

You directing the conversation and holding frame and her asking these questions are not mutually exclusive nor do I view it as a negative thing.

Ironically, I got this question more from British girls in my years living there than outside of Britain.

Then you can dissect this into;

- post-sex question
- pre-sex question

If a girl is discussing sex and asking me these questions, she is interested PERIOD and I will play ball to see how she tries to play it.

All I see in your response is assumptions on her nature and that's fine, you have different experiences to me but I think it's silly to generalize and automatically categorize it as good or bad.

Certain women are socially calibrated, others are not but they could very well have good intentions.

Your mystery could be overwhelming that she is mining for feedback. It could be her being vulnerable wanting some validation.

These are my assumptions. Compare them to yours.

Glass half full vs half empty.

I have also banged every girl that asked me this with the exception of the one who I mentioned in my OP (I had sex this morning).

As for dominating conversation, I will let her dominate certain aspects if I think she has some good momentum and it's working for me. Then I will redirect if it's veering off course.

That's just my two cents, I think interactions are more dynamic than you and Rocha (given his like of your post) would allude to. I also want girls who are asking interesting questions, shit tests or not to add some spice instead of simply following.

My experience is such and doesn't always align with theory which seems to be thrown around all the time here without real life examples (not you personally).

You can sit and say what you think women should do but what they should and what they actually do are two different things and I wanna identify that and get laid off it.

For what it's worth, I am not American or British.

Each to their own.