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The Approach Thread
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(09-02-2012 04:36 PM)starmaze Wrote: I liked when Giovonny once said that he doesn’t go out to collect numbers , he is going out to create connections.
(09-05-2012 04:59 PM)pitt Wrote: Great advice Gio but i think that alphamind line is way too straight forward, i am quiet sure the majority of girls will just say no thanks, even if they were interested.
(09-02-2012 02:37 PM)gandt Wrote: Got out of my comfort zone finally. Its good to feel alive again.
(09-06-2012 04:27 AM)starmaze Wrote: Me: excuse me, do you know where is street x?
Her: blab la
Me: btw you have unique style
Usually they say thanks and walk away.
Me: excuse me, do you know where is street x?
Her: blab la
Me: I don’t visit this part of the city too often
Her: oh, I see
Me: you know it’s funny, you remind me a girl from my yoga class
This one works a bit better.
I had a dates from both openers but I am looking for something better.
The one I want to try is:
Me: excuse me, do you know where is street x?
Her: blab la
Me: you looked like I have just interrupted you having some deep thoughts. As if you was thinking about meaning of life or fate of universe..
What do you thing about those ones?
(09-06-2012 04:27 AM)starmaze Wrote: Going direct and telling girl you find her attractive is one thing but asking for date/number right off the bat is other thing. You find her attractive, alright, but you still want to find out something interesting about her. Even if going direct alone can create attraction , by asking for date immediately you skip qualification and comfort phase.
(09-07-2012 01:55 PM)reino341 Wrote: A direct opener is only supposed to shock her the fuck out of her mind-numbingly boring reality (= auto-pilot).
(09-07-2012 01:55 PM)reino341 Wrote: You could argue she becomes more receptive to your game in general.
(09-06-2012 04:59 PM)Thatdude Wrote: Me: hey do you know where science north is?
Girl: yeah I'm actually going there right now
Me: you mind if I join you?
Girl: sure, do you have physics at 7?
Me: nah, I have Chem at 6
Girl: oh
Me: yeah do you go here full time? ( this is at a cc where I'm taking one of my classes cause its easier than at my actual college)
Girl: yeah what about you?
Me: nah I'm taking a class here I actually go to ***
Girl: really? Same here I went there last year but had to come here cause I was basically failing out
Me: yeah the science and math classes are easier at a community college, what are you studying?
Girl: yeah my dad told me to finish up these classes here before I go back to ******** and I'm studying arabic
(09-07-2012 10:01 AM)starmaze Wrote: Yesterday. 1 approach
I wanted to tested my New transition from asking for direction to normal conversation. It didn’t go smooth though. I approached her from behind asking about some street.
Me: excuse me where is street x?
Her: blab
Me: you know, you reminds me of I girl I met on my yoga class
Her: oh..
Me: have you ever taken yoga class?
Her: ( smiles), no…
I didn’t want to say next so she put her earphones back and walk away.
Today I made 2 approaches.
I saw a nice girl shopping in the mall. I hesitated but put myself next to her pretending I am checking some stuff. When she walks by me I asked:
me: excuse me, do you know if this fish ia any good?
I was smiling and possibly she sensed that it was just excuse to talk to her so she just smiled and said: her: sorry, I have no clue ( and walked to next isle)
I said to myself “fuck it” and decided to reopen her.
Me: I don’t really care about fish, just wanted to talk to you, you look cute.
She was very friendly and receptive. We had nice talk and she asked me some personal questions but it turned out she had a child and a husband. I wish her a good day and ejected.
I wanted t try my new street opener and stopped another chick in the street. I asked her where I can eat a good pizza around here but she said : I don’t know and kept walking.
I will try this opener again tomorrow.
(09-07-2012 12:35 PM)Lothario Wrote: Starbucks Approach : In line about 3-4 people in line, last person is a Girl with a leather shoulder bag, i couldn't see the face. I'm thinking the line is too short and i will not have time to finish and don't know how the girl looks like and ........just say Fuck it... i'm opening just for batting practice..
ME: Is that a Fossil bag you are carrying
She turns around smiling (Butter face 6.5, No ring on the finger, ok...)
Her: I got it at Macy's, they had a big sale labor day weekend.
Me: Oh yeah, I have only been to the Fossil store at the Mall where I got my Watch (show her my Watch)
Her: That's a cool watch, Fossil watches are really reliable , I had one that lasted 5 years.
Me: I like it too , This is my second Fossil watch and still have the first one.
Her: I spilled some paint on my bag and probably going to get another one.
Me: Are you a student here
her: Yes I'm doing PHD in Mineral Sciences, our classes/research is in such and such building....
Me: So you are on the other end of the spectrum from us...
Her: What do you do ?
and comes the cockblock , A young brother seemed bothered that i was talking to this girl and said the barrista is waiting for your order just when i got the signal to go GALNUC.
Her: Well it was nice talking to you and goes to order
I order my coffee and ask her to come join me for coffee and we can continue the conversation , she says she has to get back to her project and leaves.
(09-07-2012 12:35 PM)Lothario Wrote: 2nd Approach: That I didn't do....., I was leaving the building and see a latino girl dressed in formal pants and blouse, coming towrads me, we hold eye contact, I hold the door for her, she takes two steps forwards turns around and says thank you, I just say you're welcome and keep walking.... Ding it. There was something in her eyes, a spark something ........ On to the next one.......
(09-07-2012 02:21 PM)Giovonny Wrote: Thats a good start to your day game career. You do have to be careful about being too direct on a college campus. You are gonna see alot of these girls again. You can't be asking everybody for their number.
(09-07-2012 03:10 PM)lurker123123 Wrote: gio since you make a lot of your approaches on college campuses and you say you can't be asking every girl for their number, how often you do it? there's so many hot girls around how do you choose which to approach?
(09-07-2012 03:10 PM)lurker123123 Wrote:(09-07-2012 02:21 PM)Giovonny Wrote: Thats a good start to your day game career. You do have to be careful about being too direct on a college campus. You are gonna see alot of these girls again. You can't be asking everybody for their number.
gio since you make a lot of your approaches on college campuses and you say you can't be asking every girl for their number, how often you do it? there's so many hot girls around how do you choose which to approach?
(09-08-2012 07:28 PM)WesternCancer Wrote: I had a good night fun wise yesterday, but game wise I got fucked multiple times. I approached a bunch of chicks.but it never went anywhere because I kept getting interrupted by friends. I had 2 chicks approach me and got both of their numbers. One told me I was the "sexy guy from class" met up later at her friends house they got invited to a house party so the sure thing bang fell through
The only approach' I really did was these 8s friends of a friend. Spilled a drink on one and me laughing instead of apologizing made them angry I tried to get a normal convo going afyer talking to my friend for a bit. Asked them where they were from and teased them about their hometowns suddenly one just says "were too old for this shit" I agree and amplify and say they should go to a bingo hall instead. She starts screaming for me to get the fuck out and I'm a huge asshole. I get out of there right quick.
I think I can be too much of an asshole at night. I make fun of chicks or say mean things before they realize that I never mean any of it and that's just who I am
(09-08-2012 08:27 PM)NewGamer Wrote: Did my first approach today as well..forever 21.spent the first 20 min feeling awkward about being in a women's store. Then approached a girl asking for advice for my sisters b'day ( which was a lie obviously.I don't have a sister).Bantered a little bit about getting a casual top.dropped bait about just graduating from college and being on a budget.she didn't respond.eventually she just walked away.i didn't know how to sustain the conversation.
Same store, two hot blondes walk by me looking at the same tops that I'm looking at.I gestured with my hand and was about to say ' that would look nice on you' but the words didn't come out.It was funny.I moved my hands but my mouth didn't open.That wasn't an approach but I'm getting there.
Overall, it was a good experience.I see myself doing this much more often. Next time, just for fun,I'm going to use Alpha Mind's line on some chick on the street.We will see how that goes.
(09-08-2012 01:29 PM)Rosca Wrote: Last night was mad fucking fun. This is a fucking game highlight for me. Remember that bus approach shit? I made out with a girl that was on the bus.
Frat Party Game
So I had went to this American themed frat party with the wrong theme on. So throughout the party, I had gotten 3 makeouts pretty fast.
PROTIP #1: See, a good tip for dancing is to wear a hat. Then, when you dance with a girl you will be able to put it on her head. And depend on how long she has it on there you can guage if she wants to make out or not.
So the last chick I was dancing with, I made out with her and heres how the conversation started.
Her: Are you in this frat?
Me: You tell me *slides finger under her chin*
Her: Seriously, you tell me *Slides finger under my chin*
Me: No you tell me *slides it under her chin again*
Me: Nah, I'm a sophomore.
So we danced a bit again and we made out one more time. I was ready for the bang man. I don't know how to explain it, but I fucking felt it going down. So I had then began to ask her. "Hey, wanna smoke with me?". She said yes and we began to leave the frat party. Everything was good at this point. And we're walking back to her spot.
On the courtyard of her dorm place, we decided to chill and smoke cigarettes. While there we were talking about how freshmen guys are cool, but its hard as fuck for them because they're well freshmen. And here's how everything fucked up so bad.
And this is fucking crazy man! The bitches who cockblocked me were on the bus too! So her friends had kept calling her phone and shit. And like within minutes, they all began to came.
At that moment, I was just like "fuck it!" and made out with her in front of them. But they still did not get the fucking hint, these bitches still wanted to go to another party. So they took the girl I was with with them. And I was following suit. I did not want to give up on a bang.
Then come to find out some dickhead freshmen guy starts coming with us! And I was guessing that he was their friends and shit. Beta orbiter to the fucking max. He takes the girl I made out with phone and placed it in her pocket. He was like "oh well don't worry, i'll make sure you'll be okay". Like she would walk arm and arm with him. I was just pissed off, I had never been cockblocked this hard ever. One of her friends was like "Oh you can just leave. It's fine.". The fucking bastard guy was like "We're just gonna call it a night and go back to the dorms".
That's when I knew I was cockblocked to the max. She had given me her so called "number" and when I texted it, it was the wrong person.
So after that, I bonged up with these dudes i just gave a cig to. And now I'm still feeling that shit. Now I can't stop dancing for some reason. Its like I have a high hangover.
Lessons Learned:
+Cigarettes and zippo lighters are a great way to establish conversations.
+Don't give a bitch a cigarette if you're tryna bang. Just give her yours! Giving her one means you are taking longer to get to her room.
+Dance wise, the best way to make out with a girl is to first go for the neck. Then get in the lips.
+Slim fit V-necks are like good luck charms.
+Always answer a girl's question with some bullshit.
-Anytime a girl says "room" do not fucking decide to chill and smoke with her. Go to her fucking room.
-Cockblockers are the worst. But as a group, your chances to pull goes from fine to fucked within seconds.
-I'm going to have to see her again. This campus is small ):
But damn dude, my night game has went up so good it seems. I have a high hangover now, but I can say that game is really fucking cool once done right.

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