Post: #26

I have tried the facebook route when I had it... and was into it, got to meet some girls that I connected through friends that I haven't seen in a while. Led to some action. However, meeting girls and exchanging facebook didn't really work out for me. One time, met a cute blonde at a club, talked a bit, got her facebook. Few days later sent her a message, whats up etc... lets meet up sometime... No response.. But then, I look at her friends 600+ and the majority were men. So,,, good for her, but I felt I was lost in the sea of men at her disposal. She's not the only one, others in the 1000s ... So, eventually deleted my FB and rely on cell phone.

Night game from my experience always had more guys than women. A few times I have seen a lot of women were at latin salsa bars. When night game is optimal imho are on 3 dates.... Halloween, Valentines and New Years Eve. A lot of girls go out on these days (even to clubs). These dates they don't stay in at a gf's house to have a girls night in... doesn't happen. Plus if you don't have an opener, just say happy halloween, happy valentines or happy new year.. Voila..

Post: #27

Spinaroonie has offered some great insight into a social shift that I am sure many of us have perceived in 2010. I see more cows and Shaneequa-Taneekwa, baby-mama types when I go out clubbin in ATL. I go out more on "off" days during the week to get at the more desirable honies. Also, since I go to the mall about everyday for my lunchbreak, that offers me great opportunities to talk with nice lookin gals. I don't approach all of them as I am still easing myself into a daygame mindset but I have seen the benefits of this first hand ( this past thursday at the mall) and have come to my own realization that a guy should not rely on the weekend to pickup shorties.

Post: #28

Facebook...I never really had a lot of success with the whole 'Give me your FB...' thing; I'm more of a 'I'm thirsty, let's get a drink...' guy, or if that's not possible, 'Do you have MSN, give me your email and we'll chat some more...' type.

Next time a girl asks if you have facebook, try saying 'Actually not anymore; I used to but it just caused too much drama in my life.', even if you do have it.

As has been said, do I really want someone I barely know crusing through my personal data? I know that 97% of women will use facebook as a screening method for guys.

Not having Facebook is the new Facebook. In university it helped me keep track but I rarely messaged them, except when plans were set and I needed to switch something up on the fly or something. Why bother? When you go to a small(ish) school, it won't be long until you run into them in the halls again.


I've read that article over at Inmalafide, and while for the most part I do agree with it, one thing about it doesn't apply to my scene; the so-called '8-1 dicks to pussies' ratio that Ferdinand states. Maybe because he lives in what's probably a weak scene (I believe he's based out of Upstate NY, has anyone ever partied in Buffalo-Niagara Falls [US*]? You might as well be gaming in Siberia), or maybe its because in the 5-6 times I've actually gone to the club this year I hit a lucky night; where I'm from, there were always more girls than guys clubbing.

Club game is shitty for other reasons though; the music sucks, the music is too loud to get a conversation going, the drinks are too pricey, girls have their bodysuits jacked to max. defense because chances are I'm the 50th guy to approach, girls always have a few fat or ugly friends in tow, the lighting is bad etc., etc.,

Day Game...it's an adjustment and you'll likely struggle at first, but learn it. Not just because you tend to meet a woman of better character who isn't hiding behind pounds of makeup and low-light in the day, but also because it's a useful skill to have. Clubs have a very low 'cut-off' age (as in the age that people will think you're 'weird' or 'creepy' for clubbing with the young people), so after that age hits (it's probably about 32-35 for both sexes), if you don't know how to day game and have a small social circle, you aren't going to be getting laid as much as you want.

Night game isn't dead, but it's slowly being revealed for what it is; yet another charade where you have to pay to play and the odds are heavily slanted in favor of the women. Day game is real, costs nothing and comes with a heady element of surprise.

* - Canadian side is still pretty dope though.

Post: #29

(12-29-2010 01:53 PM)Nonpareil Wrote:  * - Canadian side is still pretty dope though.

Can you break this down for us?

Mixx

Post: #30

(12-24-2010 07:43 PM)bigbootyluvr Wrote:  

(12-23-2010 03:51 PM)CJ Wrote:  "Whip out your phone and add her to FB on the spot?" Lol, ok that doesn't scream "stalker" or anything... I think I'll pass on that one. I've never owned a bar, but I've worked at plenty and if the owner and his top guys are promoting the bar correctly, you'll get the kind of girls you want in there, at least on the weekend.

http://naughtynomad.com/2010/12/03/why-n...-outdated/

I rest my case.

I think you should take the interaction into a domain of your strength. If Facebook works to your advantage, then great. But I wouldn t say FB is a univerally recommended mode of closing. Personally, I prefer a number because my text/bbm game is very tight. To the contrary, I have recieved a ton of compliments when I mention I am NOT on Facebook. It demonstrates confidence (ie. I have no need to show off or look at other ppl) and a better use of time (ie. I ve got better things to do). At least in my case, not having facebook has built more value and more interest.

I feel I have greater control of the interaction without Facebook. It had always been a headache for me anyway. Although it can build value, it also brings a forum of more distractions and competition.

Post: #31

(12-28-2010 03:50 AM)bigbootyluvr Wrote:  NOPE. That's why I don't use my real name on Facebook. Only my family and close friends know about the alias. And because I do not share the last name with my family and do not have family photos on my page, the girl never knows how many people or who are my family. Why wouldn't you WANT a page that shows DHV?

Because I can show enough DHV without the internet lol.

Anyway, I didn't even think about going your route, and using a fake name. I'd have to make a whole new facebook to do that though, and it's far more work than I'd want to bother doing. I'm just fine with the rate I turn a text into a bang. Although, to be perfectly honest, I'm pretty damn good at the SNL, so maybe that's why I don't see a point.

Post: #32

(12-29-2010 03:17 PM)MiXX Wrote:  

(12-29-2010 01:53 PM)Nonpareil Wrote:  * - Canadian side is still pretty dope though.

Can you break this down for us?

Mixx

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