Post: #1

This rings my mind with unclear memories but a persistent question: what to do if your family finds out you are going out alone (to bars, clubs)?

Many years ago... Some weeks after I decided to roll solo the topic arised on friday night just before going out. My mom and sis asked: "Are you going out with [friend]? Who are you going to meet? and When are you going to come back? "

(There are some moderately concerning crime rates in my city)

At the time, I just said I was going on my own to "have a look at the place".

My sister is well-intentioned and smart, and asked concerned: "Are you going to go drink alone?"

I guess my frame control wasn't at its best at the time, so I answered: "Of course not!, I'm just going to have a drink and meet new people."

And an avalanche of warnings rained on me: "It is very DANGEROUS to have an adventure with a girl you don't know well! You will get HIV/HERPES/GONHORREA! You may get robbed also! You are not used to that, you will be like a little fish hopping into a shark tank! The people you find in bars will hurt you!" (I was impressed from hearing this last one)

(Consider that I was going to go to one of the high-end places in my city, where hot young girls congregated. Foreign exchange students and internship trainees included. By the way, some guys arrived all suited up to spit game at them)

By the time, my level of game and logistics awareness wasn't at the level of going to the bar and take a girl to sleep with her that same night. I was amused because they supposed I had such capabilities.

But on the other hand... I understood that my own personal choices are best to not discuss it with your close family. Or are they?

Had you this discussion/talk with your parents? What you said?

In my personal opinion, I think there are always risks to get what you want. "You cannot win the lottery if you don't have a ticket".

And of course: I was looking for a way to move out. I was just saving money and looking for a place. And yes, living alone is freaking expensive at the beginning. Sharing a flat is a better option, but finding the right flatmates is a challenge on its own.

Post: #2

I never talk about this stuff with my parents or even random guys at the gym. I found out most people will try to bring you down when you mention girls/gaming. If you notice they have the same kind of mindset as you then sure, but if not, don't mention anything. I'm lucky to have an uncle who is into this stuff and he always supports me and teaches me new things as well.

Post: #3

It is pointless to talk to some people about gaming girls. In the eyes of most in society we are no better than rapist, drug dealers, addicts. They see game as degrading women. Women have taken

over most male perspectives and have become psychologically more powerful than men. We ourselves are not "players", we are just the last left of our kind. In the old days when Kings ruled the

world almost every man had the red pill in them. Women had no rights for a reason. Who ever invented the red pill knew that women will decrease the quality of living for men. If I wasn't dark skin,

heck even so, I would love to see how the world was in the 1800s.

Post: #4

@Doulos2Game: Yes but... they thought I WOULD be the ONE getting hurt, rather than the potential girls I went out to meet.

That was what amused me most.

Post: #5

MA, I said I'm going OUT!

Post: #6

Maybe they don't think you are Alpha.

(05-18-2013 02:37 PM)topdog Wrote:  @Doulos2Game: Yes but... they thought I WOULD be the ONE getting hurt, rather than the potential girls I went out to meet.

That was what amused me most.

Post: #7

"Mom, I'm meeting my friend."
"Which friend?"
"John."
"Who's John?"
"You don't know him."

Post: #8

Last week I told mama that i would be going solo to Montreal for a month. She kept asking me about why I was going and I told her "I read an article(forum post) that said it has the best nightlife in North America and petite feminine girls." I feel like she rationalized it as "Im goin up north to find a little lady to marry and give ya those grand babies ya'll always wanted." Hahaha

Post: #9

(05-20-2013 01:29 PM)ThePrinceOfDixie Wrote:  Last week I told mama that i would be going solo to Montreal for a month. She kept asking me about why I was going and I told her "I read an article(forum post) that said it has the best nightlife in North America and petite feminine girls." I feel like she rationalized it as "Im goin up north to find a little lady to marry and give ya those grand babies ya'll always wanted." Hahaha

Your mother has no idea who you really are!!

Post: #10

If your family is nosy, then I would say you're meeting up with Fill in the Blank guy friends. Moms abhore the idea of their son being a player and not going the traditional route. I get flack almost weekly from my Mother, about settling down etc and I live thousands of miles away from her.

Unless you're known to lie, they shouldn't question you anymore than that.

Technically, it's not a lie because rolling out solo you will meet new people, who might become your friends.

Damn, I should have been a lawyer haha.

Post: #11

(05-20-2013 02:32 PM)McQueensPlayboyRules Wrote:  If your family is nosy, then I would say you're meeting up with Fill in the Blank guy friends. Moms abhore the idea of their son being a player and not going the traditional route. I get flack almost weekly from my Mother, about settling down etc and I live thousands of miles away from her.

Unless you're known to lie, they shouldn't question you anymore than that.

Technically, it's not a lie because rolling out solo you will meet new people, who might become your friends.

Damn, I should have been a lawyer haha.

That's true. It happens to me also. I don't even show her my girls anymore. She hates the player look. Guess what mama!! Your son is Alpha as fuck!! Deal with it!!

Post: #12

Me: Mom, I'm going out with this girl tonight

Mom: Forget it. I'm sick of you and your whores

Mom: Why don't you go to work? My friend came to your place and you weren't there.

Seriously you need to your parents to the point where they give you money to leave and don't care where and why.

Post: #13

Yeah, the 'fill in the blank friend method' is feasible.

Good thing now I've moved out sharing a flat, 2 miles from the main nightlife areas.

Post: #14

(05-20-2013 02:27 PM)Doulos2Game Wrote:  

(05-20-2013 01:29 PM)ThePrinceOfDixie Wrote:  Last week I told mama that i would be going solo to Montreal for a month. She kept asking me about why I was going and I told her "I read an article(forum post) that said it has the best nightlife in North America and petite feminine girls." I feel like she rationalized it as "Im goin up north to find a little lady to marry and give ya those grand babies ya'll always wanted." Hahaha

Your mother has no idea who you really are!!

Sure she does, but she loves me anyways.