Post: #1

Culture shock for you guys.
I'm (an Indian) in India and lots of girls have shown "approached" anxiety when I, a strange man, tries to talk to them; not able to keep eye contact for a second, speaking timidly as in barely audible, calling strange men "bhaiya" (brother) (what a stupid irritating social norm) etc. I might be a little scared inside but I try to repress that with display of confidence and zero supplication.
Girls who behave like that are usually not from large cities, upper-middle class or higher, and not 'hot' (self perception included), i.e my country is full of them.
I think the reason for their behavior is social programming that makes them scared as hell of anything that could lead to sex.
Since these are the girls that I get to practice on currently its frustrating getting no response from them. How do I get them to relax, because my intention is just to talk.
If you are a real man, the girl will sense it and talk herself into liking and wanting to screw you, but that's doesn't seem possible with these girls.

Post: #2

IRT is that you?

Post: #3

Does that seem like what IRT would post? There is a clear question in pursuit of self improvement and not whining with no purpose.

Post: #4

Never happened to me. bhaiya is actually used for people from U.P. Don't take it as an insult but north Indian girls don't really digg them. Try to look/ dress better. Its easy to out dress most of the people of beta nation.

Post: #5

(09-27-2013 09:36 PM)Raj Wrote:  Never happened to me. bhaiya is actually used for people from U.P. Don't take it as an insult but north Indian girls don't really digg them. Try to look/ dress better. Its easy to out dress most of the people of beta nation.

Don't have much of a dressing sense, but I try to dress sharp. I doubt it would help this case as a lot of girls are so frickin shy. They wouldn't even consent to being alone with a guy, even if they could voice their consent. Would feel like herding a goat. Gotta move to a big city soon.