Basil Ransom
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RE: Beach Game
I just did some beach game for the first time. Maybe it was beginner's luck, but it was surprisingly easy. Did 4 approaches, and all were very receptive initially. I got one number, one was 17, another I should have pursued but walked, and one the conversation got weird and she got pissed. Don't think you need to be jacked with a six pack to pull it off. I only went for girls without guys.
Some pointers:
Talk over your shoulder from a slight distance, 5-10 feet away. Make it seem like you are about to walk away, and steadily give her more attention as she warms up. It's helpful to know about the areas nearby, so you can riff on that. After a minute or few of talking, exchange names and take a seat.
Next time I'm going to try isolating. Separate her from her friends, maybe do something very physical like picking her up etc to vault the "escalation ladder," isolate and kiss. The number I got is almost certainly a flake, but there's a good chance she'd have agreed to isolation and a make-out.
And for this small sample, beach game was ridiculously easier compared to night game. Girls go out and lay on the sand, and they're bored out of their minds in the first five minutes. Their chick friends sure as hell aren't entertaining.
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| 07-02-2011 10:26 PM |
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hypesession
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RE: Beach Game
(07-04-2011 12:32 AM)CJ Wrote: (07-02-2011 10:26 PM)basilransom Wrote: I got one number, one was 17, another I should have pursued but walked, and one the conversation got weird and she got pissed.
That is the one thing about day game that still gets me, I really am terrible at guessing ages;17 and 21 often look the same.
I would like more input on this, as I want to get to some beaches soon. Also how helpful is volleyball? If the girl is on the same team as you, you can definitely still have a convo going, and touch her, but is that worth your time or not? I know the best part about volleyball is fat chicks rarely have the courage to play.
I noticed the best thing about volleyballs is during a quick game you can chat and get comfortable enough where it's natural to just invite them to chill with you and have some beers.
Plus you're getting all sweaty and it's fun and potentially funny. You can teach her to hit the ball or whatever. It's a good "pivot," because you just go "hey we need a couple bodies for a game, cmon it'll be fun" etc etc.
And then before you know it she laid out tipsy and it's an episode of bangbros. JUST LIKE THAT
That has been my experience. Summer is great.
Looking for an upvote here guys, throw me a freaking bone?
P.S. You know what really gets the sluts out of the woodworks, A BOAT. Reel in some fine sluts with the boat, then parade them around and trade up for better quality. Anyone know what I mean?? If you need a more detailed expo, lmk.
(This post was last modified: 07-04-2011 04:56 AM by hypesession.)
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el mechanico
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RE: Beach Game
(07-04-2011 04:46 AM)hypesession Wrote: (07-04-2011 12:32 AM)CJ Wrote: (07-02-2011 10:26 PM)basilransom Wrote: I got one number, one was 17, another I should have pursued but walked, and one the conversation got weird and she got pissed.
That is the one thing about day game that still gets me, I really am terrible at guessing ages;17 and 21 often look the same.
I would like more input on this, as I want to get to some beaches soon. Also how helpful is volleyball? If the girl is on the same team as you, you can definitely still have a convo going, and touch her, but is that worth your time or not? I know the best part about volleyball is fat chicks rarely have the courage to play.
I noticed the best thing about volleyballs is during a quick game you can chat and get comfortable enough where it's natural to just invite them to chill with you and have some beers.
Plus you're getting all sweaty and it's fun and potentially funny. You can teach her to hit the ball or whatever. It's a good "pivot," because you just go "hey we need a couple bodies for a game, cmon it'll be fun" etc etc.
And then before you know it she laid out tipsy and it's an episode of bangbros. JUST LIKE THAT
That has been my experience. Summer is great.
Looking for an upvote here guys, throw me a freaking bone?
P.S. You know what really gets the sluts out of the woodworks, A BOAT. Reel in some fine sluts with the boat, then parade them around and trade up for better quality. Anyone know what I mean?? If you need a more detailed expo, lmk.
This is the Hull truth!! Fire up the weedwacker blender and its on! Break down your boat game for me.
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Basil Ransom
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RE: Beach Game
I did some more beach gaming. My wing made a good point, to shake hands and exchange names a few minutes after introducing yourself, and then immediately sit down next to them. Avoid the girls who look like they're passed out. Deciding which dude gets which girl is less fluid, because the girls are seated and planted.
Beach game has a host of advantages over every other venue:
It's free.
There's no loud noise nearby.
The competition is basically nil - very few guys are doing pickup there.
Nobody is seriously busy, like at a cafe.
The girls are in no hurry to leave.
The girls are bored (of each other).
They're already semi-isolated.
It's not weird if you're there for hours.
Volleyball is overrated as a tool - it's really just a substitute for having the balls to approach and the game to match. It depends on your style, but if you've got good verbal game, I can't see volleyball being superior. What if the girls just want to play, and they don't actually want you? Or what if they don't want to play, but they would want you? I live in the world capital of volleyball, and there are still plenty of girls here with no interest in it.
You can make a bigger impression with good verbal game and kino.
Speaking of kino, I want to incorporate some sort of physical game. Something that is fun and flirtatious and involves lots of physical contact. Like thumb war or mercy but for your entire body. Any ideas? Or suddenly carry them into the water. Water balloons, super soakers...
Going on a boat sounds awesome. Isolation + alcohol = success.
(This post was last modified: 07-05-2011 05:55 PM by Basil Ransom.)
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Basil Ransom
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RE: Beach Game
Another knock against volleyball... you have to be better than them. I realized "Demonstrating Value" is wrong. It's really Demonstrating Mastery. Any time, any where, you will not get the girl if you suck at the situation at hand. Dancing, conversation, sports, finger painting... if she is better than you, you lack mastery and your value sinks. Mastery determines value. Mastery is why you have an edge with the girl who comes to your part of town to party.
My friends played some yesterday with girls they had met the night before, and the girls lost interest. They said they wanted to find someone to "annihilate."
If you are worse than the girls, then you will not attract them. Playing volleyball at the beach is like going to a salsa club - everyone there has years of experience under your belt. If you're some upstart without natural talent, you're going up against girls who will beat you, or lose by a small margin. That's not a recipe for success.
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