Post: #1

Post what you got, so I can ruin my life to the smallest degree possible. Wife floated the idea of a bang maid, half jokingly. No jokingly, very much like this idea.

"Then when the Visa is about to expire or she gets pregnant, fire her."

Her words

Please notate my other posts before assuming I'm trolling, I'm not, also notate the username.

Post: #2

What could go wrong.....

How large are the marital assets up for grab post divorce settlement?

Post: #3

She was testing you, she wasn't serious, although ironically you may have passed by your witty response, however now's the time to let it go and not bring it up again because she didn't mean it

Post: #4

(01-12-2019 01:13 AM)ShuaiGe Wrote:  She was testing you, she wasn't serious, although ironically you may have passed by your witty response, however now's the time to let it go and not bring it up again because she didn't mean it

She means it, but she has been clear she'd hate it. There's gotta be someone here more awful than me.

Post: #5

Convert to an open marriage. This is not hard to do and there are plenty of resources on the internet on exactly how to do it. Check out Blackdragon.

Post: #6

Alimony is a function of the number of years married, among other things. You ought to get a divorce, come to a financial settlement, and then just live together. Harry Brown wrote a book about atypical arrangements called how I found freedom in an unfree world. If I recall correctly, it was written during the seventies and it's out of print, although you can pick up a used copy on Amazon for probably 50 bucks. If you're lucky, you might find it at a library. Harry Brown was for a long time The perennial libertarian party presidential candidate

Post: #7

(01-11-2019 04:16 PM)wemonger Wrote:  or she gets pregnant, fire her."
Her words

I'd say it is a pretty good guess that you and your wife were having a few (a lot) of drinks when that conversation happened.